OK, you have the plants & you need to get them in the ground. Raspberries take up quite a lot of room in a sunny area. They can get out of control quickly & grow long swaying boughs. I tried growing 4 in about 10 ft. by 3 ft.area, not nearly enough space & not full sun so I ended up taking them out after a few years. Strawberries like a lot of sun but can probably take a little shade(in So. Ca. anyway) don't bury them deeper than they are in pot. They spread by runners next summer so figure out your bed so it is easy to get to plants & from all sides to pick berries. Lilies spread so if you are tied up with kids or getting older might want them somewhere so if they multiply it won't ruin your garden if you don't get to them each year-they like lot of sun.They are most attractive when several of 1 color are clumped together. Iris don't like being messed with until divided. Lily of Valley like lots of shade as do most Hostas. Sort out your plants by area they need to be in,then arrange them in their pots until they look right, keep your veggies separate from other plants & try to keep your herbs in a bed by themselves, chives, oregano, onions,etc, they get messy & might put parsley around outside edge of this bed to make it more interesting. Get some graph paper & start planning on paper so you know where you will have trees how much shade they are going to give & if they can have shade plants under them. Get your sunny areas figured out & that will be area for veggies,berries, herbs,if you are planting corn,peas, green beans, squash they take up a lot of room so you will have to cut back on shade. If there is nothing behind garage & a space back there in shade you can make that your lily of valley area & break it up bit with couple of hostas. You don't want your garden & yard so much work you don't get to enjoy it. Digging out the lawn to put all this in will be lot of work so have to make it more manageable.If you want paths you need to include them. Need place to sit & relax & have friends over so you can enjoy fruits of your labors.If your library has Birds & Bloom magazines, there was lovely evolved garden in there some months ago. All gardens evolve as years go by, you find what works for you. The perfect spot at your neighbor's 2 doors down may get you O results at your place so lot of it is trial & error.I love rhubarb, planted it & it was going crazy,hanging over in lawn so I moved it,never have found a place that works since. I had planted a lovely peace rose there I don't have any rhubarb now. It doesn't like wet feet. So you may have to move plants that aren't happy anyway no matter how you plan it out. Good Luck!

I sure have had fabulous luck with sweet autumn clematis - you cut it way bake to about 2' or so in the spring and it grows in leaps and bounds and forms a beautiful, low maintenance vine with the while fragrant flowers in September. Here's a pic of mine - it is growing more vertically next to the front porch, but I had a friend who surrounded her fences by the pool with it and it was spectacular - she had planted some tall rose of sharon behind the fence on the outside to peer over the top with more color and privacy. :) I also was browsing looking for a morning glory question and found this post - loved those morning glories along that fence and they growing in containers. See link below Here is a link that might be useful:

If you want both the variegated dogwood and the willow, you don't have to put both in that bed; you could put one set in another part of the yard. The variegation makes the plants stand out from quite a distance, and IMO it may overwhelm the bed to have both. I like to use variegation to spice up a garden rather than as the main ingredient. However, it's really up to you to decide what appeals to you - you could do a mockup with proportionately sized images to get a feel. Or you could try similar plants that are a bit more subtle. There are a couple other shrubby dogwoods that are about the same size as Ivory Halo. Cornus sanguinea 'Midwinter Fire' has leaves that are green but turn a glowing gold in the fall, and the winter stems are gold at the bottom but get redder toward the top. Not too attention-getting in the summer, but really glorious in fall and winter. There is also one with red winter twigs and green and gold variegation called Hedgerow Gold, but you might have to order that since I've only seen that at mail order nurseries. As far as I can tell, all of them, including Ivory Halo, can get to 6', so give them that much room. Nursery tags frequently give shrub sizes at 5 years, so they may get a bit larger. I usually look them up at the Missouri Botanical Gardens website which IME has accurate size info. I like Marquest's suggestion of holly as a green for winter. Be sure to get one male that is compatible with your females in order to get berries. It doesn't have to be in the same bed, just blooming at the same time as the girls and within bee-flying distance. Sky pencil won't have showy berries, just the green narrow shape. For blue shrub-sized evergreens in the east I found only limited choices that are likely to stay healthy. You could look at eastern junipers of various kinds (but don't get any of the J. scopulorum such as 'Wichita blue' which is a western species that likes dry air and gets diseased in the humid eastern half of the country.) I've seen far too many sickly looking dwarf Alberta spruces to want one in my yard, though there are some that are bluish. You might be able to grow blue atlas cedar - I find the weeping ones to be lovely, though expensive, but it's too cold here for them to survive. If you can find one of the dwarf forms of blue spruce, it may work well. I ended up with 'Fat Albert' which will eventually become tree sized and need to be cut down, but I live in a rural area without a huge amount of nursery choice. You may find something that works better for your area, or you might be able to get osomething ordered for next season if you talk to good nurseries near you. You could also ask on the conifers forum for suggestions since there are some real conifer experts there. I know there are some really interesting white firs (Abies concolor) but I don't know if any stay small, and some forms of Korean fir (Abies koreana) hold their needles so that the silvery underside shows, but I'm not familiar enough with them to know if smaller selections are readily available.

For that small a space, you don't want any sort of fence that will obscure sunlight reaching the plants. That means you are more or less restricted to wire fencing. Chicken wire would be the lest expensive and only requires very simple metal supports. And comes in various widths. For deer protection you need one that is quite tall - at least 6'; 8' is better. For a more formal fence, I would look at large wire mesh or hogwire with proper wooden framing.