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Just installed a second hard drive. Now what do I do?
Comments (5)Raven - I have one of my posts that got eaten by goblins - and one of your posts that is missing from this thread. I will paste them both here - for the sake of keeping the integrity of the thread. Let me know if this is what was missing that you posted (or did more disappear) Here's my missing post: Damcoy - I'm always forgetting to do a google search. Raven - it was an OEM drive from Dell - no instructions. I vaguely recall that I'd want to format in NTFS and not FAT32 - though I don't recall what each of those are. When i first booted up my pc it did see the new hard drive - but I haven't known how to find it again. It seems to be suggesting that it's being labelled as a canon something or other. I don't know what that means to go into the boot menu at start up to see how it's listed. It did not give me an option of which to boot to - of course there's no operating drive on the second drive (at least I guess there's not since I didn't put one there). I also don't know how to back up my existing drive - which is part of what I want the second drive for. I'd like to back up my programs (and drivers? how would I do that) - perhaps on one partition. And have one or more partitions for files - like video, picture, music, data (word files, emails, etc, saved pages from the web?). So again, how do I go into the boot menu and see how they're listed? There is a difference in size - the second drive is 1/5TB =- the first is 500 GB. How could I mess up my existing original drive? by reformatting it? seems i have to have a place to back it up to before i back it up - I guess I could back it up on my external 640GB hard drive. Thanks. Lynn. ------------------------------- And here's the one from you that was emailed to me: I would use an imaging program and make a full copy of your existing drive to your external hard drive so that you have it should something go wrong. There are good free imaging programs, for those with vista and windows 7 there is now a built in imaging feature. On my computer as soon as it starts to boot up it flashes up and says to enter the boot menu hit esc, I just keep tapping it so I am sure I hit it at the right time, your computer may be different this is not uniform on all computers. Once you get into that area you will see the drives listed, you can choose which one to boot to and what order. I would do some research on what you are wanting to accomplish. I did a lot of reading and researching before I did mine and it really paid off. One thing I had not expected was for the SATA cable to come loose from the mother board after it was all set up, scared the you know what out of me! Luckily I have a see through case and saw the cable dangling. (http://www.terabyteunlimited.com/copywipe.php ) CopyWipe free imaging program (http://dottech.org/featured/6194 ) 8 free software to image/backup/ghost your computer (free alternatives to Acronis True Image, Norton Ghost, etc.). ---------------------------------------------------- It lookslike some of your post didn't get copied and pasted intact - but it's mostly there. Or was there more than this? Thanks. Lynn. PS - I'm on my way out for the evening (and tomorrow's a day trip that could turn into all day) - so I don't know if I can get to this in the next day or two - as eager as I am to do so)...See MoreEx-wife is driving us CRAZY-need advice please!
Comments (36)"Biological mothers can't win. If they ask about what the child did while at the father's house, they are accused of being nosy. I have read many articles/advice columns that advocate keeping the two lives completely separate, and that you should tell your child not to tell you about what went on at the other parent's house, unless it was dangerous of course. Don't bother saying that you should wait until they volunteer info - I would have no idea what my kids did at school, or on that hypothetical camping trip, if I didn't ask, especially once they became teenagers. If I didn't ask them how the camping trip or school was, they would give me a hard time about it, but most teenagers won't come home and tell you all about their day." I have three bio kids (teens & grown) and one SD that's 8. The problem isn't when you ask your bio child how their weekend was or what did you do or did you have fun? It's when it becomes an inquest for info that you can use against the other parent. Those are general questions and anything more is digging. If a child wants to tell you details, let them offer it but in doing so, realize that YOU have NO say in it. One parent has ABSOLUTELY no control over what the other parent does at their house. You may not like it or it may not be something you would do (or allow) but it's NOT your choice. The only way the other parent could call you "nosy" is if you pick up the phone and tell them what your child said to you. Otherwise, how would they even know what your child told you? I asked my kids, how was your day at school or how did you do on your test? and they would offer what they wanted. However, I didn't say "what did your teacher say in class?" "who sat next to you at lunch?" "what did you play at recess?" etc. When you dig for information, the kids know what you are doing and it makes them uncomfortable. Especially if they know you are going to call the other parent and they feel like they are getting their other parent in trouble. Keeping the two lives separate doesn't mean they are banned from talking about their time with their other parent. to tell a child to only tell you about "dangerous" things is ridiculous because you are asking a child to determine what is "dangerous". and your definition may be different than the other parent. If you want your child to be happy and feel comfortable talking to you about anything, let them say what they want and don't pry. When you hear something that concerns you, instead of picking up the phone (or writing them), relax and realize that the other parent loves their child and isn't going to hurt their child any more than you would. If you think that the other parent is out to hurt your child, that's a different story but it should be based on facts, not just because you don't like them. After all, at one time, you saw enough good in them to make a child with them. My SD lives with us full time now and her mom leads a very different lifestyle than we do. We don't agree with it but the reality is that we have no control over it. She lets her stay up all night playing video games, eat ice cream for breakfast, goes days without bathing or brushing her teeth, goes outside without a coat when it's cold (she comes back sick) and on and on. She has even slept with (and we think she had sex) with her boyfriend in the same room as both her daughters and the court did not think THAT was enough to change custody from 50/50 to us. Of course, three weeks after the trial, she met a new guy and moved away, signing over custody to us. She's a flaky person... but my point is no matter what you think of the other parent, you can't control what they do....See MoreSmoke detectors driving us crazy
Comments (12)I would disconnect the off brand unit first and try that for two days. If it alam continues, one of the other units may be defective. I would then try disconnecting them one and leave disconnected for two days at at time till I isolate the problem. Also check the wiring that none of them touch in the units where you may of spliced a new plug in to fit a new detector that the old plug would not fit. Oddly, these units do not last forever. If you do some spackling or sanding before painting your rooms or house, the dust could cause the detector to malfunction in the middle of the night or you use a heater, firplace, smoke or do heavy cooking it could all set the system off. The most notable manufacturer is firex and sears also makes a good unit. It is not a major problem and I am sure if you follow the directions you will isolate the unit causing the problem...See Moresometimes freecycle just drives me crazy..do you freecycle?
Comments (10)Isn't that just the most frustrating thing? We Freecycle and offer free on Craig's list quite a bit, with the same struggle, Patti ... NO_SHOWS! We live out of town, so I don't feel it's fair to people to just set something out on the driveway and say "first come gets it," but I'm about at that point. Tough cookies if they have to drive extra miles, I'm tired of penning up the dogs, sitting and waiting ... and waiting ... for someone who doesn't have the decency to show up when they say they will, or call and tell me they're running late or can't make it. Oh! and the ones who want me to DELIVER a free item to them, because they don't have gas money????? It's one thing to want something large and you don't have a truck ... but a bag of clothes? Will you bring it to me because I can't afford gas? GET REAL....See More- 9 years ago
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