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Comments (151)I love The After Dinner Gardening book - so fun! Our kids always dig seeds out of their fruit and dry them in the kitchen window. We have more stuff coming up now. We actually have a lime tree and a lemon tree that are in the ground outside and made it through winter - both from seed! And a tiny baby loquat that's still only about 6" high. I think another lemon or maybe an orange is growing in one of my potted plants thanks to the 4-year-old. And I know for a fact she stuffed apple seeds in another indoor plant. Last year I found a bizarre looking round red ribbed squash at a South American grocery store. I just planted those seeds around the yard, and I'm really hoping some of them will come up. After Halloween last fall, the kids and I garbage picked the Arboretum for fancy pumpkins from their patch. We got a few strange ones - white, blue, chocolate brown... Those seeds have all sprouted out back and the enormous vines are everywhere. Fun stuff - I love it....See MoreFound out we are moving to Denver - in a bit of a panic!
Comments (37)ladynimue -- I, too, am an older parent! (I had my eldest at 34 so I'm now 38.) I don't know where you are (and I'm not prying -- please don't read it that way) but 'round here, "older" is normal. The other mothers with whom I spend the most time all started in their mid-late thirties / early forties. One of my friends is going through perimenopause and she lets us have a good laugh about having within the past few years finished nursing and now hot flashes! Another just turned 45 and is pregnant. I do not think you'll be odd woman out here, ladynimue. Based on my experiences both in living here plus when we were househunting and the parents we met then, you should fit right in! I also wanted to tell you how phenomenal we are finding the medical community(-ies) to be here. Our "home" hospital in CA was Stanford -- a v. (internationally) well-regarded hospital. Well, they certainly failed my younger (now 20 months) son. He was ill from birth on, and his pediatric team kept brushing us off, blaming my concerns on my PPD. ("You worry too much." "You need to calm down.") We moved out here (to CO) and within a fortnight had his well-baby visit. I started my spiel about his issues when the ped. immediately stopped me, saying "something's clearly not right here." Finally!!! After we got to the root of it, I became crazy-angry, both with the Stanford pediatricians but mostly with myself. (Mother's guilt -- I should've somehow divined what was wrong with him or somehow persevered with others, which I realize now. But at the time, with a two year-old, PPD, an ill newborn and selling our house I felt lucky to feed my older and nurse my younger without crying hysterically.) My younger son is part of the Child Find program (it's federally mandated, locally funded); it helps children with issues (whatever they are) get better. He has physical, occupational and speech therapists who all come to our house every single week. I'd say within two months of that well-baby visit he was enrolled in the Child Find program and progress was underway! (He's now doing great -- not yet caught up, but moving apace and, more importantly, he's healthy!!!) I mention this because good friends of ours back in SF whose son is on the autistic spectrum are on a two year waitlist to see a speech therapist (through the same program, different name there). If we'd had to wait two years goodness only knows where we'd be! (Clearly we'd just do it privately but you get my point.) Also, about three weeks after we moved out here I came down with Shingles (although we didn't know what it was at first), centered in my inner ear. It paralyzed my face and that's what got me to the MD tout de suite. I didn't know an MD, just called the local hospital, explained my symptoms and they responded with "how quickly can you get here?" Within thirty minutes I was seen and within ninety minutes I was having a CAT scan (to rule out stroke or tumor, although they did discover I have Grave's Disease, another thing about which I'd been complaining to my Stanford MDs only to be told "yeah, everybody's tired all the time -- it's called 'motherhood.'"). Later that day they determined it must be Shingles (although I didn't yet have any blisters). Because of it paralyzing my face my eyes were in trouble (Shingles can cause severe and permanent damage to the eyes): the MD's office called the MD's personal opthamologist (I mean the one she goes to see) and had them see me that day as well. I'll tell you, I have never felt so cosseted! (and my MDs office also made an appointment for me with my MDÂs endocrinologist  again, I didnÂt have to worry about "who should I see?") Whenever I recount this story to any locals (meaning folks who live here in CO), to a one they say "I know, I get superlative care here, far exceeding whatever I received where I lived before." My son's progress and the immediate and thorough care I received are merely two examples. I just wanted to tell you another thing we love about CO. If solely for my son's sake I am forever grateful we moved out here. But the truth is, we love all of it! -Brooke...See MoreHelping To Make The World A Better Place, Bit By Tiny Bit
Comments (39)I agree with most of the posts I have read. Even the seemingly contradictory ones. I believe that all of us, wherever we are and however we can, have a responsibility to help others. Like anything, there are better and worse ways to do that, but that does not make any well-intentioned effort wrong or useless. A lot of people don't think through the logic of how to help. My kids preschool had a canned goods fundraiser after Katrina, and then needed to raise $1500 to rent a trailer to get it there. A church I once attended did a clothing drive for their shelter and got prom dresses. I recall scores of coats that had to be received, transported and warehoused when misguided donors sent winter coats after the Tsunami hit. My one kid's school does a turkey drive, and those turkeys go to immigrants who don't particularly like turkey, don't have a roasting pan, and may only have a hotplate. Christmas toy drives have lots of toys for "desireable" little girls, and almost nothing for teen boys.At the schools we support in Cambodia, they used to have tourist groups drive up in buses and throw candy out the window; to kids with no dental care. And yes, white westerners have committed a heck of a lot of sins under the guise (or genuine ignorance) of helping the less fortunate and less "enlightened". It does serve us all well to think very carefully about economically efficient and culturally sensitive ways of giving back. Usually, TBH, that means giving your money to a locally run organization that is "of the people" and that runs with low overhead. "Foreigners" (whether literally foreign or just from a totally different demo) swooping in with grand gestures tends to reinforce dependence and can be counterproductive. All that said, who is to say what is a worthy cause and what is not? Only you can answer that for yourself. I sometimes try to weigh the moral math in my head ... curing childhood cancers ... educating Rwandan orphans ... feeding elderly ... preserving the environment. I end up just supporting a lot of causes because I don't know of a mathematical answer. Back to the sweet little lady. I have literally been around the world, and I am struck by how ubiquitous Western clothing is. It has not been my experience at all that it is rejected. Might something else serve better? I think it would amazing if she could make dresses in colors and styles that might be more indigenous; she might think that is fun too. But I personally believe that what she is doing is still a wonderful thing. I remember one NGO worker saying that just knowing that someone across the world, a total stranger, did something for you, is a very special feeling. A validation....See MoreWhy is this forum suddenly departing from landscaping issues?
Comments (37)"Overplant and thin later." I do not, and have not advocated that approach, but I see it is common in the industry. It would not be hard to imagine how this could come about. There is a receptive clientele that wants instant gratification. Plant sales generate income. Large budgets generate prestige. Etc.,, etc. In the town where I live we have a new, SMALL public park with a fountain at the center. I read in the local paper that the budget was about $440K. After studying the finished product I was practically horrified. The fountain is nice, but too noisy. The planting is absolutely, positively, overwhelmingly STUFFED with material. The space for walking is the pathways and plaza for the fountain. The green space is too full for anyone to enter. (At least there'll be some good hiding places for muggers in a few months!) They will be removing -- and throwing away -- material for the next 20 years. It's going to be a maintenance nightmare of trimming that a small town budget cannot afford. This is how politicians get glory by obtaining federal funds for their constituents. What a waste! Even though you don't live here, you probably paid a little each for our puny park. @ I pinkmountain ... I don't understand who you are saying is "hot and bothered" and who is making the "off-hand comment." ....??? Thus, not getting your point....See More- 9 years agotishtoshnm Zone 6/NM thanked dcarch7 d c f l a s h 7 @ y a h o o . c o m
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