My 4 year old S.Magnolia flowered already, I'm really shocked.
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Comments (10)LOL, Frank :) That's too funny. I caught her this afternoon in front of the plant stand talking to this plant (which is at her eye level standing on the floor) saying how sorry she was for spraying poison on her and making her have the chicken pox. I just had to smile and be mindful to live in the moment. She has such fun doing these flowers with me and I thought that I had the spray up where she couldn't get to it but she took the step ladder and got up there to get it so she could help. I don't think she'll do it again though. And besided....I don't think I would remember this when she is 16. She is my 4th child and the oldest is 21...I'm doing good to remember something that happened last week :) LOL, Dora...See MoreMy 18 year old step son is ruining my marriage
Comments (18)Sweeby, I tend to agree with you. I truely believe my SS is a sociopath. I have researched it extensively and he is dead on. Even to the point that we got puppies for each of the kids last year and he would feed and water his, walk it when the others walked theirs but he never loved on it like the others did. Never smiled at it when it was happy to see him. He was detached. Honestly, that was when I first started to notice he was a little different. He can turn it on, when he knows others are watching, or even mimic others "normal" behavior, he is just different. His puppy didn't grow and learn like the others because he didn't take time with her. When he went to his mothers and said he wasn't coming back, I was at least relieved that I could find the puppy someone to love her. To this day he has never even asked where she is! Was my husband a great father? No. He thought he was, he tried so hard. He stayed in a loveless marriage for 20 years convinced (by his wife and her family) that if he left he would never see his sons again. That is a ridiclous farce! But my husband, while the kindest soul I have ever know, isn't the most intellectual man. He was on his own at age 15 and all he wanted was a family. He endured SO MUCH to keep his family together and while he THOUGHT he was doing the right thing, it was in the end, the absolute worst thing he could have done. Children who grow up in a battle zone, watching their mother belittle their father over and over, watching their mother lose her temper and hit herself in the head, having one affair after another, that is bound to produce some twisted individuals. My husband tried to keep them busy, Boy Scouts, football, basketball, bowling leagues, track...he was at every practice, every game, helped coach..anything he could to keep them busy and focused on something positive. Yes, he feels gulity. I don't bring it up anymore, he talks when he needs to talk and I listen. Last night for the first time, he said, "I should have taken my boys and left when they were little. They would be different now." I know that is true and I know that is why he puts up with so much, he is largely to blame. No, he wasn't a mean father, but he was an ignorant one, either way, his boys are damaged. I feel bad for my SSs and I am very maternal by nature, so I have tried so hard to take care of them. I wonder if maybe there isn't some jealousy there by the 18 year old because he didn't grow up with that kind of mother. His mother is SO selfish! I have never seen anything like it! Well, my SSs....I have loved on him, he and I had one on one "date nights" and days of shopping and lunches like I do with the others, talked about everything under the sun. I just think it is too late... When his behavior affects my children I have to say no more. Some have asked about my 20 year old SS that I have only met twice. Right in the middle of the split between his parents, he "came out". He was 17. He really , really needed understanding and nurturing. He didn't get it. His mother was vested in her new relationship and his father was licking his own wounds. Both adults were selfish and not there for their son in a very, very crucial time in his life. He is still angry and hurt. While my husband now sees his mistake and wants to be there for his son, he is now going to have to wait until his son is ready to forgive him. Which is why my husband calls him very Sunday and leaves him a message, without fail. He tried to live with his mother and her boyfriend and that didn't work out because the boyfriend was calling him a *ag every day! I wish he would give us a chance but he just isn't ready... I saw on FB recently that he was saying he needed money for groceries. I told my husband (who doesn't realy do the FB thing)and he sent him money for groceries. It's a start... Need to add, the SSs do NOT get along! It's just a big mess! : ( I have to leave it all to my husband. He created this situation, regardless of his intentions, it is time for him to step up and take care of his own. I am just going to take care of mine and see in time what develops....See MoreRed delicious apple tree - already 6 years old but not bearing fruits
Comments (5)I'm not an apple expert. I live too far south (Central Texas) for them to receive enough winter chilling. Most apple varieties do best in the northern third of the state where they can receive at least 800 hours of below 45º temperatures. All named varieties are clones (cuttings) grafted to hardier root stock intended for particular soil types. Buy trees from local nurseries rather than big box stores for better success in your soil. While the lichens on the older of the two trunks wouldn't be considered a problem for a large tree, I think they indicate this tree is struggling. The healthier looking sucker is also an indicator that the original tree wasn't doing well. Finally, most apples are self-sterile; they need another variety for pollination. I recommend you dig out this tree and plant two varieties somewhere else in your yard. This LINK is to a PDF for fruit tree varieties that do well in warmer and humid areas of Texas. HERE is a link to fruits recommended for North Central Texas....See MoreMy three week old hardwood rose cuttings have already sprouted leaves!
Comments (2)Thanks for your advice. Quite honestly, I am expecting it to collapse when warm weather arrives for real. in my more optimistic moments I hope roots are busily growing to support those leaves. Either way, I’ve no intention of peeking for months....See MoreRelated Professionals
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