Independent Senior Living
seniorgal
7 years ago
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Anyone Else Live in "Senior Independent Living?"
Comments (1)Hi seniorgal. There was a similar thread here recently. If I can do this right, try this link:https://www.houzz.com/discussions/retirement-homes-dsvw-vd~3587179...See MoreCosts for assisted living, independent living and nursing home
Comments (8)Your costs are almost opposite here. With some differences. Independent living which depends on if you have a down payment or on a month to month with no down payment can range from $800, no meals, to $2,500, with two meals. No one seems to have three meals. Assisted living base cost is about $5,000 plus attendant care which can run from $800 up to about $4,000. Once a person needs the $4,000 range many Assisted living places will no longer care for them. Nursing homes seem to use the Medicare/Medicaid unwritten guidelines, means I have not found it in writing, of mid $5,000. Niece wanted us to move to Minneapolis and the range for assisted living there was between $8,000 to $11,000. If like my husband you need two attendants to care for family member or they are over 250 pounds you must use a nursing home as assisted living places will not accept. I was initially looking at assisted living places for him. He has some form of dementia then developed a UTI. Unexplained consequence he could not stand or walk for months afterward. Should have no connection but it happened. Since he was 318 at that time the hospital doctors would only release him to a nursing home. He is down to 246 in the nine months he has been there. After that explanation his nursing home costs $5,548.61 a month with extra charge for medicine. This is in the mid range of nursing home costs in this area. A suggestion for anyone looking for a nursing home is to look at ones that accept Medicaid patients. They are inspected at least once a year and are generally better at record keeping and seemed cleaner when I was looking. We are lucky??? that we will not have to worry about Medicaid for at least ten years or so....See MoreDoes anybody currently live in senior living?
Comments (10)My DH's grandmother lived in one ages ago -- all I remember about her choice was: location (in her hometown, with several of her children nearby), health care (she moved up to nursing care for a while then was able to return to her own apartment), and she had enough room in her apartment for her furnishings and mementos. My own dear mother and father were in their 70's when they picked out where they wanted to live. Again a main factor was location -- they wanted to be central to all us kids. My mom was ready to quit the daily cleaning and periodic maintenance of their large house, was looking forward to a small, downsized apartment. Alas her cancer came back before she and dad could move. Soon after her death, dad was able to move there. He especially enjoyed having company more his age and abilities, such as a (slow) walking club. He also enjoyed his "meal of the day", being able to select what he wanted from a pretty extensive menu. He was very content there until us kids started to retire and move; then he moved to be central to us, again likes his retirement community. My Dh's aunt (early 80's) is finally ready to move into one, after a health scare that took her to the emergency room and then in the hospital overnight. She's been eyeing one in particular for years, based mostly on its location -- only a mile or two from her house. She wanted to stay in a familiar part of town, with relatives nearby. It's kind of you to assist your friend in her decision. I've visited several (besides the ones with relatives). I think an important factor is how do you feel when you walk in the main door. Is it welcoming, is it clean and tidy, are there people around or does it look deserted....See MoreLooking at senior living for my elderly parents--
Comments (44)warning/long rant here. My StD is about 3 yrs younger than my Mom. She just turned 87. She needed a shoulder replacement 10 -15 yrs ago, and refused to do it. Now she's in immense pain from that as well as arthritis in her feet so badly that makes it so difficult for her to even walk. My StD literally brags on the fact that she doesn't take any medication, when in reality, her pain would be reduced if she would! But he is against "taking pills." Then again, he's not the one in constant pain. Right before C-vid shut the world down, I finally convinced her to get a housekeeper to come in every week to help. She wasn't thrilled, but adjusted, and then she got used to them coming. She would even make comments like. "Oh I'll leave that for the housekeepers to tend to" which was pretty funny , since she fussed about them in the 1st place. Then that ended. StD was happy it ended because it was something they had to pay for, yet he doesn't do much to help. He is so tight he squeaks when he walks. He has decided they are NOT going to move in to any kind of facility any time soon. He's "not ready" to give up his grandiose house in his grandiose neighborhood and his doctor/attorney/business owner neighbors. I kid you not, when we go to visit, he has me drive around the neighborhood and points out who lives where and what they do for a living, as if I care and as if these people are going to be the ones to take care of them. On the other hand, my Mother would move here in a heartbeat. There is nothing I can do to change his mind and frankly, I'm not even going to try. It breaks my heart that my Mother isn't going to be closer, and I can't just make an impromptu visit on a whim. I can see a big change in her. The lock down has taken a harsh toll on her. She has struggled with depression in the past, and I fear that is starting to set in again. She craves being with family, and he craves appearing to have an ostentatious lifestyle. Sadly, no one is impressed with this but him. Kswl- no need to apologize at all. :-) Thank you all for the input. I'll file it away for a rainy day....See Moreravencajun Zone 8b TX
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