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Comments (36)Funkyart writes: "I think it is a sad reflection on our educational system and what we value when liberal arts classes are considered fluff or not of value. The arts and humanities are essential to a balanced education and essential to becoming a well rounded individual. Your son has chosen an artistic and creative path for his future-- clearly he has interest and talent in this direction. Any college or university that frowns on developing that part of his education will not, IMO, value his chosen path or offer him an environment where he will thrive. " But, generally in the US educational system one's *university* education is the venue in which an individual chooses what direction of study s/he wants to take, be it science, liberal arts, business, pre-professional etc. At the college level students concentrate on a particular major, focusing on one in which they have (hopefully) interest and academic ability. High school curricula by definition aren't intended to concentrate on any particular area; coursework is intended to adequately prepare all those who plan to go to college in a well rounded fashion. Therefore I wouldn't say liberal arts is denigrated in HS. I would say a good college preparatory program in HS includes required coursework in all the topics that make a well rounded scholar. Students who wish to excel and/or be recognized by competitive universities choose to take far more than the required academics. Then too, universities also expect some breadth of study. Even the most focused academic majors, like engineering, require some liberal arts credits. There may not be many but they are a requirement. And conversely liberal arts students have to take some math/science. As for the particular situation being discussed here, from the OP this is what the student in question wants to take senior year: "Apparently his courseload looks too "light" because he is taking 2 English classes, 1 History, Video Production II (he wants to go to film school so this is essential), and Art History (didn't get his first choice here, which was Photography)." There is not a single math or science course selected! Frankly for this student it seems that the quantitative side of his education is being sorely neglected, at least in his plan for the year :). So in this particular case a university will not be dismissing the fact that this student chose to take a heavier load of liberal arts coursework. But any competitive university will definitely take notice of the fact he avoided all math/science in his last academic year. And in most cases, for a student who didn't do well beforehand in them (as was also discussed) to be ignoring those subjects in the last year is not going to be a great package to send off to college admission committees. Ann...See MoreCollege age kids and jobs?
Comments (48)My financial situation, and cultural expections are similar to those of KKNY. I, and my family, have the "advantage" of being in a highly educated, professional sub-group of society. None of my children , nor my children's friends worked through high school. In university, none of them worked during the academic year. In the summer vaction period, some of my children did work, but not specifically for the money. They worked at positions that were of interest to them for their future career aspirations. Most of those positions were obtained through personal contacts with others also in the same social group. The money gained from those jobs was secondary to the direct career experience they provided; however, because they were jobs in professional sectors, the compensation was far better than a fast food job would ever pay. My children's friends experiences were virtually the same as my childrens, since most people with similar life situations as our family, lived the same way we did. The ones who did not work volunteered their time for the summer to various social causes, so in reality, they all did something. Travel, both domestically and internationally was encouraged, since the early 20's, before marriage and children, are a fantastic time to be able to get out and see how the rest of the world lives. Most of my peers consider travel to be part of a child's proper education. I do realize that for many, they MUST work, often at low paying jobs, to be able to afford to continue their education. I applaud that, since I believe education is of paramount importance, whether that education comes from a classroom, or from other sources. The "job" is just a means to an end. There is no right way, nor wrong way here. It;s not necessary to insist that what your children, or what you did, is the right way and everyone else is screwing up. This issue is a matter of financial necessity, personal choices, and individual needs. Its not necessary to insist that someone who doesnt do it the way you did is wrong. Unless there is a driving need for the money, I do not see the value in forcing someone to take a fast food job. I dont believe that the job in itself is the primary thing. What is more important is that each child, although by that time they arent really children, is able to be guided into finding a way to reach outside of their family circle and put their toes, so to speak, into the world of adult life, and/or the world in general outside of their family. If any of my children had actually wanted to work at Wendy's for the experience, I would have been supportive. I firmly believe that children should have the emotional support of their parents, no matter which route they choose in life. Their road is not necessarily the road I would choose, but its their life, and their right to live it as they choose. Each child is different as well. Some children are ready to spread their wings long before others do. I would not encourage sloth, nor would I be paying for someone to do nothing at all. However, a job for the sake of just a job isnt something I would insist on either. As for manners - It has been my experience that manners come from upbringing, and are pretty well set by the time a child is in high school. THe skill of getting along with people has nothing to do with which job one takes on. In my experience, there are far more trashy, argumentatitve, obnoxious people working in fast food, who cant get along with others, than there are in professional circles. If that makes me a snob, so be it....See MoreWhat age did you kids stop going to pediatric dr/dentist
Comments (14)Dentist - it depends on the dentist. A busy dentist will probably follow some age guideline to make room for new patients. A less busy one is not likely to tell you to go away. Some ped dentists are perfectly capable of treating more advanced problems, some aren't. Doctor - kinda the same issues, how busy are they or aren't then? What most people see a primary care doc for, the age-range training doesn't necessarily lock out young adults from seeing a pediatrician. Although someone focused on seeing little ones may not have an active Rolodex of age appropriate specialists should referrals be needed. For us, it was maybe around 16 years of age in both cases. Different issue, your son's concern about paying attention. He's already gotten through the biggest chunk of his education, why didn't the issue come up before? The drugs given younger kids are controversial, some say they work, some say they don't. Your son is an adult now in any event - drugs are rarely used and he needs to develop techniques and skills that will help him function as an adult, whether or not he has a medical diagnosis. I'd start maybe with a psychologist specializing in the area. But let him know this is something that he needs to take ownership of. Note, indifferent/less motivated students do have trouble paying attention, it has nothing to do with neuro/psychological factors. Could that be at work here? Good luck....See MoreKid’s Closing Date Moved Up, I’m Madly Decorating!
Comments (42)I’m also working on her office, which is off the entry and has french doors so it needs to be presentable. They have a rug in a traditional pattern in light aqua and coral, a tonal shift from the colors we are using in the adjacent rooms . I bought this oil painting for that offfice; it’s a view of Notre Dame from the rear, across the Seine. The colors are beautiful and luckily the frame is the same tone of wood as her desk. It’s pretty big and will make a statement at 30” x 40”. I bought it at an auction, it was painted by a French artist in the 1960’s. This is a picture of a picture and not very clear even if you click to enlarge. IRL it is crisp and has an illustrative vibe I’ve seen in a lot of Italian paintings depicting / featuring architecture....See Moredaisychain Zn3b
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