The age old question - Should contractors be paid for a lunch break?
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A Houseful of College Freshman Coming For Spring Break! Ideas???
Comments (29)Oh my gosh, what a surprise to see my old thread pop up! It was, all in all, a great trip for them all. What worked? Just about everything . . . and thanks to everyone for the wonderful advice! ~ Sleeping arrangements: DD and 2 of the girls fit nicely in DD's room (bed, window seat bed and single mattress on floor). The two other girls slept out on our living room sofas. That room closes off with 3 sets of French doors, so they had a bit of privacy, at least. The 2 guys slept in our guest room. Bathrooms: I decided before anyone arrived that, with seven 18 & 19 year olds in one house, there would be no long baths; only quick showers. So, I put 2 wood tv tables in the bathtub with a laundry basket on each. One held big stacks of folded bath towels and washcloths. The other was for the used ones. I told them not to hang the damp ones. The nightmare of many wet towels hanging everywhere inspired that decision. Great one on my part!!! I just washed and replaced the towels every afternoon while they were out sightseeing. I also had stocked both guest bathrooms with a box of essentials: from travel-size tubes of toothpaste, deodorants, Kleenex; small combs, Tylenol, Tums, Chapstick, toothbrushes, girl essentials, sunscreen. Thank goodness, as they were pretty much all used! ~ I put a supply of local postcards, stamps and pens in each bedroom for them to send postcards quickly and easily. Also a supply of local travel books to inspire their daily outings. ~Food/Meals: as I expected, they ate like they were all starving. They loved my meals . . . even the vegetarian. I'd stocked up on enough snacks to keep them all happy. Thank goodness! ~Sightseeing: LOL LOL LOL!!! None of them had been to New Mexico before and their expectations were funny, to say the least. We have small herds of wild horses, but they're wild, not kept in pens. Our visitors wanted DD to drive them , wherever they were so that they could "pet them" and take pics! That didn't happen (LOL), but they did see some occasionally here and there. Same with coyotes. DD had to warn them not to make a big deal about any Native Americans they saw. They tried to speak Spanish to people here, which was met with patience and kindness (thank goodness!). Our chile was "too hot", but they loved exploring Santa Fe and Albuquerque. And Madrid, NM, where the movie "Wild Hogs" was filmed. What didn't work? Well, getting 7 college freshmen to agree on anything, such as where to go exploring next or what movie to watch, was a PIA for DD. One gal turned out to be a hypochondriac, which frustrated the rest. And, DS & his girlfriend decided at the last minute to cancel their hotel reservations and sleep on a queen-size air mattress in our foyer (the only place left!), as they stopped by for a few days on their way to his new job in Tucson, AZ. So, we ended up with a real houseful . . . but it was a lot of fun. Would we do it again? Yes, if DD asked. Would DD do it again? Absolutely not. She said it was fun but exhausting. This Spring Break she's bringing (just) two of her close friends/sorority sisters here to celebrate her 21st birthday. They'll dance at some of the higher end (read: safe) clubs. Shop Santa Fe and ABQ Uptown. Visit Madrid and The Tram. Eat out at some favorite spots and generally spend all the money their parents promised them for this year's Spring Break on themselves instead of an expensive hotel room. Their first choice, Austin, TX, was pretty much already booked up, as South by Southwest will be there at the same time. They were looking at $500/night for modest hotel rooms and super-inflated SbSW ticket prices! So, we'll be entertaining again, but on a much more sane level! Lynn...See MoreOld Houses, Lead and Young Kids - What should we do?
Comments (63)@Laura Hoefer seems like your situation is not as bad as ours in terms of exposure. We didn't know about the windows and my kid's bed was right by them. He got exposed a lot with all the opening and closing. Plus the age doesn't help - he still puts everything in his mouth. If you decide to strip them yourself, I would advise to take a class on lead safety. That being said seems like it's a very complicated process and it might make the situation worse. There are some sealing paints for lead, but you'll still have to scrape the peeling paint off, which is dangerous. I'm going to strip only the 1st floor windows as it gets warmer (they are 8 ft tall so super expensive to replace), but we decided to replace the rest. Restoring is even more expensive if a professional is hired. Have you tried using professional lead cleaning products for lead to mop the floors? Maybe this will help reduce the exposure for your kids. It's all so scary. I'm scared that my kid will be permanently brain-damaged due to all of this :(...See Morecurbless shower contractor/cost question
Comments (19)Curbless shower was on my list of "must haves", and I've decided it's something we can do without. My reasoning: - I wanted it because my grandmother, in her extreme old age -- like past 98, had trouble lifting her feet even a small bit; for example, onto a curb or into the shower. However, this is a big expense for something that won't be an issue for many, many years. - It's possible to go "minimal" instead of curbless. Right now we have something similar to this: It's a big, wide step into the shower -- plus we have a door, so there's another inch or so of track. Instead we're going minimal with the divider. Look at the difference here -- a much shorter, skinnier divider. We're going to put a grab bar on each side of the 36" entrance (not unlike the white bar on the left of this picture), and we're going with a curtain rather than a door. This may still become a problem in our extreme old age, but we feel like it's a happy medium between cost and function -- and we are all about value for the dollar....See MoreWhat should my 14 year old learn to do?
Comments (43)Thank you ALL for the great suggestions--so many good ones and I hear a lot of voices of experience in your recommendations. I saw a few things that his older sibs were annoyed or perplexed at having to do for themselves as teens (make appointments, address envelopes, buy stamps--you'd have thought I was asking them to carve the Rosetta Stone). I am making a list to bring to the table when we pow-wow. (I asked him to come up with his own list of what he feels he needs to learn/improve, so we can collaborate.) Neetsie--funny that you mention cursive. When I saw the beginning of his list yesterday, cursive was on it! bpat home, don't kick yourself too hard about the OT. My boy had 4.5 years of it and still can't tie shoes well, write very neatly or enjoy activities like making things out of Legos. That was a lot of weekly appointments and $ that accomplished very little. For those who expressed concerns about how he spends his time, fear not. He isn't laying on the sofa eating bonbons all day. Between school and sports we are lucky to have two hours a day for dinner and homework, plus the daily chores he has always had. He does his laundry (sloppy folding, no ironing), takes turns cleaning the bathroom (not well---so that's on my list), empties or loads the dishes, rakes leaves and cuts grass (badly, but regularly). Whereas older siblings often had to "be mom for a day" for the younger kids while I was at work, now there is nobody younger left. Nobody is counting on him for dinner when I'm not home, so if he'd rather just eat cereal, he does. I'm excited about this project, for him and for me. I'm thinking we will focus on time and money management, cooking, and making appointments at first. Mrs. Pete, I was thinking about the monthly allowance already, I think that is a great idea and one I should have implemented a few kids ago. Two of my older kids needed more practice at planned spending before they left home, and I feel that I did them a disservice. Lesson learned!...See Moreenergy_rater_la
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