Do you over-prepare food?
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Comments (4)It's difficult to figure how much f8inger foods people will eat when it's not a meal hour. I think 2 to 4 is an awkward time for serving food....it's neither lunch dinner nor a mid afternoon snack. Will you be serving cocktails or just tea coke and coffee? People will eat more if there is alcohol involved....it will turn into dinner. You automatically figure 10% shrinkage even though people asy they will attend...something comes up....so that takes you to about 78. And I am assuming there will be a minimum of teenagers and people under say 35...so older people eat less too. Because you are having so many items, you need to allow enough of each item for everyone to to have some. You will need about 7 1/2 pounds of meatballs, 80 to 90 ham buns and if the buns are tea size that will mean about 8 pounds of shaved ham and 7 dozen buns. You will need 10 poubnds of shrimp....my experience tells me people eat lots of shrimp! and I would figure 8 to 10 pounds of chicken wings. You will need 4 pounds of cheese....but if you are having several different varieties I would figure 2 pounds of each kind of cheese. Veggie tray, figure 1/4 cup of cut up veggies per person, so you will need 20 cups of cut up veggies....more carrots, celery and cauliflower than broccoli or pepper strips, and about 3 to 4 cups of veggie dip. For the fruit you will need twice the amount as you will need veggies. You will have lots of leftovers.... but you have to have one small serving of each item for everyone who comes....to cut down on the amount of food left....eliminate some of the items you are offering. Linda C...See MoreDoes anyone buy prepared foods for Thanksgiving?
Comments (71)I guess what really roiled the mud was new Annie's statement that she thought scratch cooking only was snobbish....to her credit she said "in my opinion". We all "entertain" our families the way we think best expresses our love....unless we admit we just don't care....and I think we all care. I have a friend who is an awful cook....she really doesn't...but she does a wonderful loving family dinner....her DH puts a boneless rib roast in the oven, she washes some potatoes and wraps them in foil, he makes a lovely Ceasar salad, she buys rolls and a bad Costco cheese cake....and sets a wonderful table, with favors and all sorts of lovely things....shaped ice cubes in the glasses, molded butter, sprigs of herbs on the napkin rings and a silver punch bowl full of ice and bottles of champagne on the coffee table. Not much cooked by her but for sure her hand is in the party Not much "scratch cooking"...but lots of stuff done with love. Perhaps what so many of us are trying to say...is love is expressed by giving of yourself....and the more of yourself you give, the more love is expressed. We all know stories about parents who relegate the raising of their children to hired help. They say they are expressing their love because a nanny isn't cheap etc etc. we know that all things can now be bought....everything from home made cakes to pies to ready decorated Christmas trees. Do you thing you are "expressing love" for your family if you call the caterer and order a dinner....and call the servers and window dressers to set the table and decorate the house....and you simply stand at the door? Or does an "expression of love" involve a giving of soem of yourself...your time and energy and creativity? I think that's what us scratch cooks are saying, we give of ourselves, and that is our way of showing love. But on another plane, cooking and providing food is the very most primitive sort of nurture. So when we prepare food and place in front of those we love, we are nurturing them in the most primitive way. Whew! Got heavy for a while there! Linda C...See MorePreparing food on counters
Comments (69)When cooking, even for myself, I won't stir the pot with a spoon that's been used for tasting--what if a family member or a neighbor came in when I was getting ready to eat? How could I offer to share? Drives me crazy when I see that on a TV show--when someone tastes the soup and then stirs it with the same spoon. When I took a HomeEc. class, back in the day, we were told that if we were found to have tasted from a spoon, and put it back in the dish being cooked, it was an automatic failure of the class--I've never forgotten that. Take a chance on salmonella for a few cent's worth of flour? If I pour or shake out too much of an ingredient, I don't return it to the bottle or box--I'll put it in a smaller container or bag, label it, and use it next time, but I'm pretty good at estimating amounts. That comes from chemistry class, although I'm pretty sure that nothing in my pantry would explode if contaminated. ;) Returning left-over unfinished food from a bowl or plate to the cooking pot is just nasty....See MoreWhat Foods Are You Preparing Ahead of Time?
Comments (16)Looney, you officially have one more freezer than I do, and I always thought I had too many, LOL. I don't make that much stuffing, but I do raise beef and pork and chicken and my husband hunted deer this year with a bow, so that takes much of my freezer room. My daughter is celiac and can't have gluten, so I make two kinds of stuffing, a cornbread based one for her and my Southern sweetheart of a husband, but I've never seen one with evaporated milk added. I might have to try that.... I do much of my cooking just a day or two ahead of time. Desserts get made the day before as they "hold" fine, although whipped cream has to be beaten just before serving, I cannot get it to stay without breaking if I do it ahead. I've added cornstarch, powdered sugar, cream of tartar. It still breaks after about an hour, every time. I sometimes make dinner rolls a month ahead and kept them frozen, then thaw and bake the day of the meal. If I make butterflake rolls I make them the night before, refrigerate the rolls and bake just before the meal. I make the Cranberry Jezebel the day before, and usually assemble the vegetable side dishes so they can be heated in the oven, including that sweet potato/marshmallow abomination that my girls love. My girls also want a fruit salad concoction that includes crushed pineapple, apricots, walnuts, cream cheese, orange jello and whipped cream. I make that the night before so it can thicken, if I have that, some years I just can't face it and just make a nice fruit mixture instead. The turkey, the stuffing, the mashed potatoes and the gravy all get made the day of, as well as any fresh salad if I decide we're having that. Appetizers always include a cheeseball of some kind, I think this year it's going to be pimento cheese and that will be done the day before, I'm still working on another appetizer, maybe artichoke/spinach dip, everyone likes that. We also always have a relish tray with homemade pickles, a variety of olives and crackers, usually deviled eggs because I like them. The pickles are all home canned, so those go in the fridge a couple of days before to keep them cold and crunchy, especially Chase's dills which are a favorite of Bud's, but he wants them cold. Deviled eggs get made the same day or the texture suffers. I usually make my menu, then make a list of what I need to do and which day I need to do it, then I prioritize tasks. A couple of days before we'll add the leaves to the dining room table, bring in the extra chairs, make sure the tablecloth is clean, find the turkey platter, and pick up the turkey so it'll have time to brine. My girls usually come early and help me get all the last minute stuff done. Annie...See More- 10 years ago
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