Momento from a late friend... what to do with it?
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- 10 years ago
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HOT climates friends, I have a question? What do you do?
Comments (19)So far, great idea's! I noticed that when mine are in the hot sun, the black plastic potted ones do get very hot with the sun hitting them, and after a period of time, my plants start to suffer..They turn a light green almost yellow, and seem to stop growing or feeding...So I have blocked the sun from hitting these by letting the grass grow tall in front of them, blocking the sun from hitting the pots. I also wrap any material of lighter color around the pots such as aluminum foil, white sheets, white plastic bags, wet towels, which dramaticaly helps lower the soil temps.. The ones growing in any other color pot but black, seem to do very well, even in full sun on the hottest of days. I too water mine everyday before leaving for work, since the soilless mix I use is free draining..Sometimes I water throughout the day as this cools the pots down and it seems that the damp soilless mix stays a bit cooler longer.. The ones I have in the gritty mix are never a problem. I water everyday. If I do not plan on watering for some reason, then I just remove the smaller pots from the sun, till I can, or since I have most my plants growing in clay containers, I wrap wet towels around them which can keep them moist for days....I acyually wrap wet towels around all the clay containers indoors if I plan on taking a few days vacation..This has worked wonders..Why not outdoors which I discovered last summer? :-) Mike..:-)...See MoreA friend to all late blooming
Comments (8)It'll probably bloom later next year or the year after. From what I hear, some take a couple years to bloom at their appropriate time. This one is gorgeous and is on my wish list but way way too expensive for me at the moment. I hope to acquire it in the future though for sure....See MoreWhat to do about divisions from a friend?
Comments (5)nematodes do NOT show in my zone 5 for another month or so ... so your zone 4 .... would be later ... without a picture it hard to really say anything... i suggest you pot them up .. and then place the pot in a very prominent place.. and stroke your friend for here generosity ... one never knows if they will live through the winter though.. there are many mysteries as to what dies ... lol.. wink.. wink ... ken...See MoreEmail from friend - what would you do?
Comments (35)I'm sorry to say, when I read your first post--with her letter, it immediately raised a pack of red flags. Anyone who has a list of excuses like that, who has all month to move (but needs the help now, when she's got the excuse of being recently sick)--is more likely than not, a user who rarely takes responsibility for themselves. Your further input only confirmed my opinion that this woman is the kind who is always looking to others to take care of her responsibilities I've met a few people like that in my life. They never change. They never get their finances together. They never get a stable home set up (they're usually moving from place to place as things start to overwhelm them). They start hinting at needing a little help, move up to asking for it, progress to begging for money (eventually large sums), and then attempt to make friends and family feel really guilty if they can't/won't help. Sadly, people who fall into that group never ever seen to get things reorganized. I don't know your friend--you do. IF she's one of the hardcore users I'm talking about, there's really nothing good to come from sacrificing your time, money and emotions on her. Those people are bottomless pits who will drag you down with them. On the other hand, if she's truly someone who has just hit a short stretch of bad times, there may be some value in helping her. BUT think carefully before you do. Do not ever give someone in a bad way cash--pay a utility bill for them, buy them a bag of groceries. It's okay to help someone pack--as long as they're working at least as hard as you are (but if you get over there and she decides she needs to sit in a chair and supervise as you work yourself to exhaustion, I'd suddenly remember a previous engagement--LOL). Remember--it's good for our character to help someone who needs it. It's bad for THEIRS if we help them continue to be deadbeats. Best help you can give someone is to help them learn to stand on their own 2 feet....See More- 10 years ago
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