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Comments (86)Glad to hear that everyone seems to be safe. Around here, we are far enough inland that we didn't expect to be hard hit, but it ended up being pretty mild. Lots of rain, but that was about it. Our power stayed on. Some stuff I intended to bring in off the deck, but forgot, didn't move an inch. We decided to go out and run some errands this afternoon. The storm was past and the skies were sunny and clear. The only damage I saw was the next door neighbor's FOR SALE sign on her house was hanging from only one of the 2 hooks that holds it up, and a rather large tree branch was down. I know in harder hit areas there are some deaths, lots of flooding, and millions without power. I'm just glad it wasn't worse. Casey...See MoreHow long will they stay
Comments (12)Hummersteve, and everyone else, now that I've had a little more time to watch my feeders, I'm sad to say that my male seems to be gone. I don't know if I had just the one all season, or more than one. They can be hard to tell apart. I suspect it was the same one because he always flew off in the same direction, but it's hard to know for sure because I couldn't make out any absolutely distinctive markings on him. I haven't seen him (or them) since early August, so he (or they) have either migrated, or something unfortunate has happened. I hope he's OK. Godspeed, little male hummingbird! Meanwhile, the females and juvies still come. The Lobelia cardinalis is beginning to bloom, and I have a female who stops first at the Agastache, then the L. cardinalis, zips up to the Cardinal Climbers, and then on to the feeder. This late in the season, bees and wasps are getting to be a problem, so I'm glad I planted flowers for the hummers to visit. Competition with bees does not seem to be a problem there. It's strange that I had the same kinds of feeders last year, and had absolutely no trouble with wasps and bees, but this year it's different. The wasps can be quite possessive and territorial, having aerial dogfights with the hummers. The feeders don't really leak, and it's very hard for the bees to get to the sugar water, but they still come, sipping the minute amounts that spill out when the hummers feed. It makes me angry sometimes, watching the hummers getting chased away. I hope to goodness they don't get stung, but they do seem pretty good at fending for themselves. I admire the way they sneak in behind the bees, and poke their bills in for a quick sip. Some individuals will actually peck at the wasps to get in a quick drink. The wasp usually comes back with a vengeance, though....See MoreTraveling 500 miles with my cat.Tips please!
Comments (7)The trip itself shouldn't be too bad. How does your cat react when you take him to the vet? Try to figure out if he enjoys looking out the window or if seeing everything going by freaks him out. Some animals get more car sick if they can't see out, others if they can. For a long trip I use a crate large enough for the cat and a small litterbox. About an hour before you get ready to leave, feed the cat and give him time to use the litterbox before placing him in the crate. You can offer food/water during the trip but most animals are too nervous to eat or drink. You'll have to figure out what works best for your pet but I've found elevating the crate and then covering half of it gives my pets the security they need. My DM's cat meowed a lot when we had to travel with her but when we put the small, soft carrier up in the rear window and opened one end she was happy as could be. She never left the carrier and never meowed again. (We opened one end because she'd been in the carrier for 8+hrs after air travel) Since you'll be dealing with moving during this time, I would suggest you board the cat during the whole moving process if you don't have a secure room to keep him in. Many animals disappear on moving day. I usually give my animals free reign in the motel room and if I have to leave I put a 'Do not disturb' sign on the door. I also don't allow maid service unless I leave the room and take the pet with me. Before the move, one thing you may want to try is to get your cat used to wearing a harness.....then later attach a leash and let him drag it around to get used to it. That will give you control of him if you ever need to let him out within the car or elsewhere. Depending on your pet, you may be able to give him the whole back seat if you can secure him with harness and leash....See MoreTrying to stay calm
Comments (43)Hi all. I finally saw my dr. today and all is good. The biopsy was clean and to follow up with another mammo in 6 months. He did have a long serious talk with me about nutrition and exercise and made sure I understood the importance of both. He ran a program that gives numbers regarding percentages of chances (considering your history etc) of getting breast cancer and my risk is a bit higher than average. I am considering a medication that would reduce my chances by about 50% but wanted to do a bit of research before I make the decision. It was a very long 2 1/2 weeks from first mammo til todays apt and Im so glad it is over. Thank you all for your concern and support. Now, if I could just lose some weight and build some stamina! Satine...See More- 8 years agolast modified: 8 years ago
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