Anyone got read The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up?
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Comments (18)*chuckle* Thank you and you're welcome, budge! I was out-and-about all day yesterday closing on the new house, playing in it a while and then having dinner with friends to celebrate; today we had a (long!) showing here at the old house and I had a very long nap afterward. BTW, although they're super-cool, I'm too cheap to buy the nifty elasticized mop covers when I can get "irregular" microfiber cloths at three for a buck at the dollar store and use them for a dozen other things besides the floors. :-) (Okay, I did cough up for the Bona Kemi oversized hardwood mop and two covers, but we can call that a post-hardwood-installation euphoria. ;-) It's not maneuverable enough for my bathroom though.) I just use a regular ole Swiffer frame, the simple little one that comes in three pieces (no squirty thing) for about eight bucks from the grocery store, and while it's not the strongest thing in the world if you need to scrub that hard maybe it's not the tool for you! I wet and wring out a microfiber "miracle" type cloth, drape it over the rectangular head and push little bits of it in the holes with which you secure the disposable cloths. If you want to use a cleaner that requires rinsing, just wring out one cloth in the cleaning solution, then go back over it with a second cloth dampened with clean water. Me, I'm a one-step kind of gal, and for me one of the great joys of the microfiber cloths is that they just need water to get the dirt off stuff. I think Budge may have gotten a rather more specialized and less "cheap, quick and dirty" (ahem...) product. I just combined what I already had on hand, and I know a lot of other people already have Swiffers and microfiber cleaning cloths on hand so they don't necessarily need to go buy another product either. BTW, just a weird little thing I thought I would pass along - did you know you can use a wet miracle cloth to remove makeup? It even took off waterproof mascara and extra-long-lasting lipstick without having to resort to the oily crap I usually had to use to get the stuff off. (I'm not really the makeup type, and I hate raccoon eyes and touching up lipstick!) Another case of me being cheap - I wondered why I should pay $14.99 for a "makeup remover washcloth" at one fancy store when it looked and felt like the 3/$1 miracle cloths I had at home, so I tried it next time I had to paint up my (already-adorable) visage and it worked. The squeamish might want to get a different color to keep them separate from the ones in the cleaning supplies. :-)...See MoreChanges.....Magic workers needed for Plan
Comments (31)Bevangel, I hope you had a wonderful weekend! The weather was beautiful in IL. We spent most of our time at the town pool! I'm refreshed and ready to tackle the plans again. They are planning on breaking ground on Thursday, but the forecast for this week isn't looking so good.....LOL The question of the day, every time we see someone we know.....'So when are you breaking ground?' LOL I like your changes so much better. I love the double door entry to the master and the sink and makeup counter outside the bathroom. Very clever. I printed the last drawing you did and added some revisions. It is almost there. Thanks for being so helpful. If the pantry needs to take a little space from the master bedroom, that would be fine. I really like the stairs where they are. We sort of designed our whole plan around having the open staircase in the big open room. It makes the basement not so closed off since we have 2 little girls. We will have a finished basement, also with a family room, playroom, bar, bedroom, bath, and storage, as well as the mechanical room. In order for our girls to use the space, we wanted to make it more connected to the main living area. I'm thinking we should put a door or allow for a door to be added when they are teenagers and want their privacy in the basement, but for now I like it all open. Thanks again! You are truly an ANGEL!!!!! Michelle Here is a link that might be useful:...See MoreWhen life changes for the elderly
Comments (22)auntjen ~ It sounds like your G & G will be fine, and I mean that sincerely. Yes, it is a monumental change, yes it does affect the whole family, but it's a very smart and unselfish move they made. Backstory: My dad developed Alzheimer's when he was in his late 50's. We know that now because when he was finally diagnosed (in the mid-to-late 1970's), there was little or no information, let alone research, available. As my father becamse increasingly affected by the disease, it became harder and harder for my mom to care for him. By the time she knew she needed help, they were both in their early 70's. She made a very smart decision by moving back to Manhattan where the resources and help were more readily available. I'm an only child and she got her support and strength from me. I lived about 2 hours away from them and would spend the weekends in the city with them, staying with my dad while my mom took a much needed break from being his full-time caregiver. Even though I was not the primary caregiver, I was married and working full-time, which made things a tad difficult to juggle. I thank goodness that, at that point, I didn't have children because that would have only made things more difficult. We had been researching various alternatives with the support of my dad's doctor, focusing on nursing homes, and we found a very good one that was affiliated with Mt. Sinai Hospital. She put dad on the "waiting list" and after what seemed like an eternity, my dad went to The Jewish Home and Hospital for the Aged, part of Mt. Sinai. What a blessing that was, not only for my dad but for my mom, who was becoming increasingly worn out from caring 24/7 for my dad. Many family members could not understand how she could put my father in a home. Terrible, thoughtless comments were made and she was made to feel like a pariah. And this was when her family should have been there for support. Very few family members visited my dad in the nursing home. I'm sure they figured that he wouldn't recognize them. But what about my mom? Wouldn't she recognize them? Wouldn't she appreciate the small show of support? But I digress, except to say that I remember which family members were there for support (and which weren't). I have forgiven them, preferring to think that they really didn't understand the result of their actions. Your parents and you and your family are doing the right thing, even though it might feel wrong. Your G & G did the right thing for your family. They made a selfless decision for the good of their family. That's love....See MoreHas anyone read....?
Comments (20)Tre3, I completely agree when you say Sometimes being busy is similar to having lots of STUFF. I also do not believe in having things saved ''for good''. I want to use everything I have and it makes me happy when I do. What I've noticed is that I am usually the one who entertains my friends, who have often said they like to come here because it is more interesting than being at their house. I think they probably feel that way because I use my ''best'' things. It's part of my philosophy about Living Well. I do wish sometimes though that some of them had a similar attitude so I could be a guest for a change! Talley Sue, I have been known to just go find another bookcase! Since I recently purged some of my books, it did feel good to have the extra space. Perhaps I shouldn't confess my time at the bookstore yesterday, but there's a part of me that enjoys my ''library'' and having books around me. I just realized that with the exception of my kitchen, I have bookcases in every room of my home! I am finally limited to how many books I can keep now, so that's a good thing. Tina, I could probably use a fashion guru to tell me what clothes to throw out, but I really need one on the accumulation side. My favorite clothes don't make much of a fashion statement I'm afraid. Minet, those are all good questions, which I'm familiar with, since I've asked myself those same things quite often. I did like Organizing from the Inside Out and found it helpful when I needed to revamp my home office files. You're right about it being good for paper clutter, which I had too much of. teacats, I think it's funny that your DH doesn't think anyone lives like that in real life. I think he must have lived a sheltered (yet happy) existence! One of the exercises in The Not So Big Life, is to think about what inspires you. I asked my DH to give this question some thought this morning. Sarah Susanka suggests going back to your childhood and remembering those significant moments for a clue to discovering yourself. It's true that finding inspiration is what will move us to act on changing our lives. Her thoughts aren't new to me, yet a good reminder of how to open yourself to possibilities. There are several things I'm ready to see change, and I'm loving this book!...See More- 10 years ago
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