I'm sick to my stomach over this mistake
Erica L
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My poor bathroom remodel...I feel sick to my stomach.
Comments (18)I am sorry to hear you are not happy with this and that it was not made clear to you in advance there would be this height difference. We've also had leveling issues with our house during out remodel last year and had to make some compromises that I did not like and then we had an issue where grout keeps popping out and some broken stone tiles in our entryway because the tile installer cheated one end of the mud bed so we wouldn't have a 2-3" step like yours. So as you can see the other solution would've had a different set of problems..... What is annoying is when these contractors make these decisions for us without consulting us and any fix would be difficult and costly. My "fix" would be to demo the stone floor and either do porcelain or hardwood, neither is acceptable to me so I live with this one section where the grout pops out and make sure no one brings in heavy stuff on my entry floor. I agree, it may be a good idea to take a little break while you absorb this new development, let your contractor know you are disappointed this was not communicated to you ahead of time and ask if there are any other solutions... I would try to get Bill Vincent's (or Mongo's) opinion on this as well. He often frequents the bathroom forum as does a couple other tile installers who can advise you if this is a good install or not or perhaps suggest another option you've not thought of, though of the two solutions mentioned, a step sounds better than a short ramp....See MoreI'm Sick to my stomach
Comments (30)Hi Josie, I'm late in posting my comment, but someone else already did. I'd sick my hubby on him, and be done with dealing with this guy. I own a business, and even in this day, there are times I have male clients that would rather deal with a man. I can tell by the disrespectful way that they speak with me. My initial reaction is to tell them where to go - but it's business. My husband is also my business partner - so rather than lose a customer, I take the easiest way to get to the common goal with our company and our client. It's hard to stomach in this age - most men are happy to deal with us both - either one of us, male or female. But it is what it is.... so it's easiest to just accept it because you're not going to change them. I find that the ol Dr. Phil saying comes into play here "How's that workin' for ya?". If it's not working, then *you* do what *you* can to change the situation. Good luck! Boxie...See MoreSick to my stomach....corner of granite countertop broken
Comments (64)I'm so sorry this happened to your lovely granite! And thank you fabricators for piping in to let us know that this can be repaired. I really don't understand the liberties some guests take in a home. And I agree that it's frustrating to be labeled "b*tchy" when you're trying to protect something that means a lot to you that you spent a lot of money on. Just the other week I had some guests (male) over who were eating Doritos and then putting their hands (without washing or using a napkin) on some white chairs in my living room. Argh! I felt terrible asking, but I just couldn't stand the thought of orange fingerprints on chairs that I saved up to buy. We want to share our homes with guests, but I think it's fair to ask that they respect the space and be careful not to do damage. I hope the repair turns out perfectly!...See MoreI am sick to my stomach...
Comments (58)lukiirish - It truly is disturbing. I think the reason prosecutions fail (read: don't happen at all) in these scams is because the people are beyond the reach of U.S. jurisdiction. Technology is such that these people can set up (or more likely clone) U.S. telephone numbers, email addresses, etc., so people believe they are speaking to someone in the United States, but they are actually speaking to someone 5000 miles away, where the costs and logistics of bringing them to the US for prosecution are prohibitive. The crooks know there is zero risk of prosecution, which is why they are so bold. I wanted to state more clearly what I alluded to in an earlier post: It is IMPERATIVE that you learn how to conduct legitimate transactions over the internet before you buy or fall victim to a scam. In my experience, eBay and credit card companies are generous with their protection policies, but you have to conduct the transaction within the company's terms of service, in order to receive the protections. For eBay, that means setting up your account, enrolling your method of payment with PayPal, conducting the transaction ENTIRELY within eBay's borders, and knowing the timeline and process for filing a claim should something go wrong. You cannot conduct any portion of the transaction outside of eBay's domain (PayPal is a part of eBay). If you follow these rules you WILL be protected if the worst should happen. Finally, do some research on who you're buying from before you contact them or place a bid. You want to look for a seller who has a lengthy history on eBay and a perfect customer satisfaction score. I personally will not bid on anything unless the seller has been on eBay for 2+ years and has a 100% feedback rating. Keep an eye out, too, for sellers who have only been on eBay for a short time but have dozens of excellent feedback in that short period of time. That is a tell-tell sign that the feedback is manufactured to set up the confidence game. I know this is of little use to the OP, but I hope it helps someone else avoid being taken advantage of in the future....See Morejdez
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