Are my DWC expectations unrealistic?
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Is is unrealistic to expect perfection?
Comments (3)I worked in a warehouse where furniture was shipped out for deliveries and I just want to tell you, about 85% of all furniture comes in damaged. There usually is not a perfect piece unless it is upholstry. You do have a right to tell them you want a better piece if the table top is that bad. We replaced furniture for people all the time. One example was a china and buffet. The china top was not finished and even though you could not see it because it sat ontop of the buffet the customer wanted to return the entire piece because they wanted the china top to be finished. We returned it for them, because the customer is always right. So if they do a return on something like that I believe you will not have a problem exchanging the table for a better piece with no noticable damage....See Morefirst time hiring interior decorator-are my expectations wrong?
Comments (8)Dragon Fly, I'm sorry to hear your designer is not meeting your expectations. We hired an interior designer for the first time when we built our home a couple of years ago, and the experience was a disaster. I had looked her up online and in the yellow pages, which was probably my first mistake. The information I found indicated that she had a showroom downtown, but when I called her, she asked me to come to her home. She then proceeded to show me how she had decorated her own home. Her style (contemporary/abstract/modern) is the complete opposite of mine (more of the traditional/new country/antique) . . . you get the idea. I shared my concern right away that her personal preferences were much different than mine, but she minimized this by showing me her credentials and emphasizing that a good designer can work with any style. She also had us sign a contract for $100 per hour. She came with us to choose flooring, cabinets, countertops, etc., and the worst part was her arrogant attitude. She insulted every businessperson we came into contact with, basically telling them that their suggestions and ideas were "bad", "cheap", "ugly", whatever. She told our cabinetry company that one of their showroom cabinet models looked "unfinished" and that if we chose that option, all of our visitors would think we had "run out of money before finishing construction". I shared with her that I like antiques and quality antique reproduction furniture, and she told me that she'd never choose "that kind of dented up furniture". She took over and started making decisions for us, and of course, they were contemporary style choices. To make a long story short, we spent $800 for her to bully everybody and make our design selection experience miserable. We ended up going back to each of the contractors and personally apologizing for her rude behavior, and we also changed to all different choices than she recommended. In hindsight, it was a terrible fit, and I wish we hadn't wasted the money on her. If I could do it over again, I would have dumped her sooner for a better designer. I'm sharing this because if you do not feel comfortable with your current designer, you may be better off going in another direction before you waste too much time and money. In the end, we sought out design advice from the professional contractors we worked with, including the cabinetry company (recommended the gorgeous black and cream cabinetry in our kitchen), our painter (chose many of the warm colors I love), Ethan Allen's free designers (where we bought our dining set), the people in this forum (kitchen window treatment and backsplash art ideas), etc. I'm so glad we didn't allow this designer to override our preferences. Trust your instincts. I hope it all works out for you....See MoreIs there an Unrealistic Sellers vs. Unrealistic Buyers Stand-off
Comments (24)Pollopicu, you are right. It IS the banks. They interpret FHA's rules. And I guess it's my area too then Brickeyee because I'm running into the same thing with my buyers. Buyer Number Two got declined for an FHA mortgage two days before closing because the bank didn't like the agricultural zoning or the income-producing nature of the property (meaning she could give horseback riding lessons if she wanted to because my barn and arena is so nice though she wasn't going to and I never made any income on this horse farm). When I called FHA myself, they told me they had nothing against my zoning or the horse farm and said it was the way the buyer's bank was interpreting their rules. My current buyer is trying to get an FHA loan. I got shivers down my spine when I discovered that in the offer. I spoke to the loan officer and asked her to speak to the underwriters right away to make sure they didn't have anything against my property before I would go forward. This particular bank said we're all good. We'll see......See MoreHow smooth should newly plastered walls be? Unrealistic expectations?
Comments (14)I've never hear of "levels" of plaster finish like one would use for drywall. It's not a matter of "stopping" at some point, it's not like drywall where multiple coats are applied, at least when using blueboard; it's once and done (no sanding) and your plasterer either knows how to do it or doesn't. In New England the default is a smooth, flat finish; if you want texture you specify it and pay extra. In having three houses done in blueboard and plaster in the last decade I think there was only one spot with a visible defect; if I hadn't done the painting myself I would never have noticed it. No, there was no variability at inside corners or around openings on any of the projects done by three different teams. From my sampling it's a trade with an extremely high average skill level....See Moremitchnc
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