Update on my son
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Comments (21)I know, believe me, this whole thing is a horrible nightmare. He was at an intake location, where all convicted go to be 'processed', essentially determine where they'll serve their sentence. If they have a death penalty conviction they automatically go to the Pen, everyone else has to be assessed. There is a level, 1-5 that they're assigned. It's based on length of sentence, crime, previous convictions, drug/alcohol, etc. Jon ranked at a 2, he'd be a 1, but he was sent in for probation violation (which is being appealed, because he DID comply with all his terms of probation). Anyway, so he's level 2, minimum security. Most of the minimum security prisons in Oregon are located in Salem, as is the Pen. I am not sure why he's at the Pen, which is multiple security now, I always thought it was only maximum security, but was told by the staff there it was multiple. I went today to see if I could visit him, but was told I was not approved yet. WTF?? Jon told me the last time I was able to speak to him that he'd gotten his GF and I on his visitor list. Apparently, it's not yet approved. And no phone calls yet because, again...his phone list has not been approved, even though he'd been able to call us any time he had day room use up until middle of last week. Since then he's been moved and we can't contact him. I broke down several times today because I FEEL his sadness. He has been cut off from us for nearly a week, this is exactly OPPOSITE of what his counsellor said was needed for him. So tomorrow I'm going to call his counsellor, his attorney and anyone else I can to get word to him that we're fighting to see or talk to him. I need answers as to why my boy is where he's at, and what the plan is for him. I can't even begin to describe how disgusted I am and feel we've been lied to (I don't think that's the case, but I'm so upset!) and I have never, ever felt so helpless in my life. I'm not used to begin completely shut off...but this is prison, and it's a major security issue, but it seems so out of context for us. Our son is being so victimized by this, and it's tearing up our family so much. I can't imagine what it would be like for the family of someone who is facing years in prison. We're at 2 1/2 months of his 13 month sentence...it feels like it's been years. This is the link to the webpage of where he's at...it's obviously not updated, but it's been basically all the info I can get at this point. Here is a link that might be useful: The Pen...See Moreupdate on my son
Comments (10)I missed out on the original problem, but I'm glad to hear things are getting better. You are a much happier mom now!...See MoreProper Wiring to Sub Panel
Comments (4)Thanks for the info guys...I suspected as much. I am very capable of doing this myself. There's nothing mysterious about electrical circuits, current flow, grounding, bonding, etc. But sometimes I'm not sure of the codes involved, or the proper procedures. (Maybe this means I'm NOT capable!) This pool is definitive proof that not all professionals are what they are cracked up to be. It may be safe, but none of you guys here would have ever done amything like this. This guy should be ashamed of himself. Must be the same guy that installed my neighbor's satellite dish... I am no fool and know my limits. Where all new conduit must be run to the pool (you were right...it's all in 1/2 inch conduit), I will probably just hire an electrician to run the conduit and install the sub panel and connect the equipment. I do have one other question...the chlorinator control panel we installed needs to be connected to the bonding circuit. We did that by running the bare copper lead from the box and connecting it to the bonding circuit with an approved lug. Will this suffice? Or should we have actually cut the bonding circuit and run it to the panel and then back to the other side of the cut bonding wire (and put the panel in series with the circuit)?...See MoreDecorating dilemma for this momma!
Comments (6)How old is your son? I ask because the bold geometric wall will not be remotely restful in his bedroom, which may be a consideration whether he's quite young or in his teens. I generally love bold artwork, but I feel ill at ease just looking at that jumble of seemingly angry triangles. ;)...See More- 10 years ago
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