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girl drama...what would you have done?
Comments (21)We have a temporary order for protection from harrassment good until we go to court. If I get an order in court it will be good for one year. I plan to bring it to school Monday and ask them to outline how they will enforce it for the remainder of the school year which is only a week but still. This summer my daughter won't have any contact with them as they run the streets and she volunteers as boy scout camp and babysits. DH will be on the field trip so I'm not worried about her being safe, I'm disappointed that we have to babysit thie girls behavior because her parents haven't done their job. The school called Friday night and said the reason these girls did this was because DD and her friend hugged a boy before a game that one of these girls likes and that started it all. I told the VP- that's not the reason, that's their excuse! and I'm not dismissing this incident for any reason based on the previous threats and the constant harrassment. The couselor told me she had "been successful" having this girl see the other persons point of view and apologize many time before as she realizes she has a bad temper..to which I replied..we'll you weren't too successful because she's still at it... I'm so mad about this whole thing- I'm seething. I've always told our kids to tell the teacher and now I find out the teachers can't, won't, don't do anything. Who wants to be the mom that has to go threaten the school to keep their kids safe? or spend all day in court waiting for an order? If DD was a problem child I would understand that they are doing the best they can with her but she isn't even doing anything and despite how many times these girls have been spoken to- they don't stop! It's complete foolishness....See Morewhat would you have done
Comments (19)You're asking the wrong question. What I would have done is irrelevant to your situation, because I have had large dogs for my entire life. Your question should be "what should we have done?" I was fine reading the your post until this part: I thought about knocking on a door, but people rarely answer their doors, if they are even home in our neighborhood, and even if 911 was called, I doubt the cops would have come before it was all over. Everything before that was fact: loose dog, people inexperienced and uncomfortable with dogs, two strangers with five dogs, loose dog attacking five dogs and two people. That last sentence was pure conjecture--assuming that no one would answer their door, assuming that help would not arrive in time, assuming that someone answering a door would be incapable of helping. You were absolutely right, given your inexperience and discomfort around dogs, not to intervene physically yourselves. That might very well have been the equivalent of someone who couldn't swim jumping in to help someone who was drowning. It could have ended very badly for you, as well as for the couple and their dogs. You were, however, absolutely wrong to do nothing. Getting away from the situation and to the nearest potential source of help as fast as possible would be the only responsible thing to do. Leaving those people and their dogs to fend for themselves was clearly not responsible or neighborly. I find it truly sad that this type of response is becoming the norm. Do you even know how this ended for the couple and their dogs?...See Morewhat would you have done....
Comments (38)I can agree with just about everything everyone else has said,but......maybe she was a scammer,maybe not.Maybe she had just gotten off work,maybe she hadn't thought of just having part of the script filled.Some people don't know that can be done.I probably would have taken her back to the pharmacy and paid whatever she needed to get the meds,that is IF I had the money myself and tell her to pay it forward. Last summer DH and I drove into town to get a burger but we didn't want to get out and go in the place to eat it.so we drove a couple of blocks down the street and parked in the Post office parking lot on the main street to eat our burgers and watch the traffic go by. We do that sometime,just to get out of the house.LOL Anyway,I had taken DH's burger and fries out of the bag and handed it to him when a woman walked up to the window and asked if we could give her some money to buy something to eat because she hadn't eaten in a couple of days and she was really hungry.I told her we didn't have any cash,which we didn't but that she could have my burger and fries that I hadn't even taken out of the bag.She said,"Are you sure?,and I told her that she was welcome to it.She thanked me profusely and walked on with the burger and fries tucked under her arm.I don't know if she was feeding me a line or not but I do know that the whole incident had an effect on me that I hadn't anticipated.I started to bawl like a baby,don't know why,it just hit me that way.I told DH that I didn't know if she was really hungry or not but I did what my heart told me to do.If she was scamming us then she was the one who had to live with it.All it cost me was a burger and fries that I probably didn't need anyway,and my sweet DH shared his with me! LOL About a month later we were eating in our favorite hometown restaurant and there she sat with a group from one of the local Churches enjoying a chicken fried steak! So,I really don't know if they were treating her or what but as I said,if she is a scammer she will be the one to suffer in the end....See MoreWhat would you have done different in a remodel/build?
Comments (3)oakleyok, what came to mind when I read the subject of this post was to choose a floor plan that would position my kitchen in such a way as to allow some connection to adjoining rooms (pass through, arched openings..), but not be completely open to them. Then I read your post and found it ironic that you were thinking the opposite would be preferable. Different strokes... In both my home and in our 2-yr-old lakehouse I have open concept plans where the kitchens are open to my dining rooms and other rooms, as well. It is ideal when it's just DH & myself (empty nesters.) But I don't like it when I'm entertaining, which happens more now with our kids, spouses & grands returning for visits and since I've taken over holiday meals as my parents have aged. I would appreciate more privacy & less disruption when I'm trying to measure out ingredients or making a dish where it's important to focus on timing/texture, etc. Cooking IRL is not like being on a cooking show. The process doesn't start with prepped ingredients in little glass bowls. It's often messy and cluttery and I would love to have a more private workspace to do my cooking and baking and have my "Ta Da" moment when I present meals in the dining room. I hate serving a nice meal and looking at a counter full of pots, pans, prep bowls and kitchen equipment that needs washing. I would love to have a kitchen space that allowed me to go back and clean up later - after I've enjoyed eating and visiting with guests. I was a big fan of the open concept, in theory, but after living with it, I wouldn't do it again....See Morejim_1 (Zone 5B)
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