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Comments (7)How sad and ugly that something which should be such a bonding experience (child taking over the torch for parent's business), especially at this time with Dad having cancer, should turn into basically a hostile takeover... It may be too late (depending on the personalities involved & communication skills), but I'm wondering if Dad can have a one-on-one heart-to-heart with his son, simply asking him what has happened (in son's perception) to create such a competitive and exploitative relationship between the two of them. If Dad can convey that it is safe for son to share his real thoughts and feelings without Dad's judgement, invalidation or rejection, it just might get to the core of the matter, be a real learning/healing experience for both of them and begin a process of a better relationship. Then again, it might not. Son may simply have hardened into a selfish person who just wants to browbeat Dad and doesn't want to compromise. Or Dad may be too defensive or otherwise have some blockage to hearing what son may have to say and reject him. Maybe it's nobody's fault but the situation is just one that isn't easily fixed (often the case in post-divorce/blended family circumstances). In any event, now that Dad is up to working again, tools that are his property should be given back, period. Before I'd call the cops, though, if I were Dad I'd at least tell son with civility: "Look, I'm back in business and I need my tools. When will you have them to me?" and if son indicates he's not planning on returning them, Dad can THEN say: "How would you like to work this out, then, with me getting my tools back? Would you rather buy me brand new tools with the big profits you've made? Or would you rather spend the money on court costs if I have to sue my own son for them? Maybe I can take the cost of them out of your inheritance, if I still feel like leaving you one. Your choice, I'm trying to be fair and give you options but you're not going to be able to just take my tools from me."...See Morestruggling with wondering if I just don't have the skills
Comments (32)Like others have posted here, I think it's not about skills - it's about finding enjoyment in your yard amidst the trials of your circumstances. On another thread, we've all been posting about the hardest thing about growing roses in our regions and everyone has reasons outside of their control about why the roses aren't performing to our expectations. Sometimes the only response is to temper our expectations of the roses and ourselves. You're not in charge of the heat of your climate, so it's not something dependent on your skills. If your roses are taking a break, you can consider this an opportunity for a break for yourself. I sympathize because I log in here to GW roses and look at everyone's gorgeous roses and set my vision of what I want to see from my roses from that. However we all post the photos when our roses are looking their best unless we're trying to resolve a particular problem. Nobody's roses always looks their best - heck, I've logged into threads I started with photos of my own roses and sigh because I wish my roses looked that good. In my best rose flush ever a few years ago, I posted photos a month later of how virtually nothing was blooming anywhere that season, more than usual, because all the roses that bloomed at the same time were also resting at the same time. So I have to temper my expectations - if I want constant bloom distributed among the roses, it won't be profuse simultaneous bloom at any given time. If I get a flush like you had, there'll be a substantial break for a while. That's not my "fault", it's just how roses work for the most part. Hang in there and keep looking for a balance in your garden and perspectives. I plant other perennials and annuals that fill the gaps in roses so I can have color year-round, but even then it's not profusion, just enough to feed the soul in between rose joys. If our roses bloomed fantastically all the time, we'd probably take them for granted (like people in some climates get too used to sunny mild temperatures year round). Part of the fun of rose growing is the potential for being surprised, and in order to be surprised there needs to be a pause of expectation. That's where you are now, so breathe and enjoy the "what if" that's down the road. Cynthia...See MoreWanted! Good eye for corner art! Mockup skills a bonus!
Comments (11833)As for what comes first, the art or the chandelier. Not sure, but my first thought is that the chandelier position will be based on the table, meaning the bottom part of the chandelier will only be x to y inches above the table. Heres an article that helps explain range and how to adjust based on ceiling height... https://www.tidbitsandtwine.com/chandelier-height-above-table/#:~:text=For a 9-foot ceiling,in proportion with the room....See MoreHave you taken an employment skills assessment test?
Comments (13)I once applied for a job working in the office of a nearby community college, and during the interview I had to take a timed computer skills test. The computer froze. I would say that was not my problem but I'm sure it was a major contributing factor for me not getting the job. But if their computer network was really that wonky, then I guess being able to work with it without it freezing was an important skill. However, I don't think it was a very valuable assessment. I even tried to problem solve around it, but a frozen computer pretty much ends your computer skills assessment test . . . I actually think its not a bad idea, but I would not make it timed, only note the time, and I would allow the person to look online for answers or use reference books. Computer technology changes so rapidly, it's better to have someone who is a fast study in new ways of doing things than someone who already knows it all from decades of doing the same thing over and over . . . just MHO. That said, any job you get nowdays in an office, is going to want you to be savvy in desktop finance, managing mailing lists and contacts, web site management, and even possibly e-commerce, or at least inventory management using some type of spreadsheet. A lot of companies use cloud based customer management software too . . . like Salesforce. Also online security is super important. A lot of those cloud based programs have fairly important security walls you have to navigate....See Moreoldbat2be
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