Your rhubarb appears to be in a bed with other things around it plus a large paving stone up against it. There is Solomons Seal alongside which implies it is in a shady spot too. I think it would be happier in a lighter, moister, dedicated space of its own. It will need lots of rich organic matter (compost, manure etc) and plentiful water. Another possibility it that it is seedling rhubarb and not a named variety. I am afraid I can only sympathise rather than empathize. We have had so much rain that my rhubarb is almost as big as my wrist. The stalk in the sink at the moment is 26 inches long and weighs 15 ounces.

Had you had it for a while? And if so was it a single well grown plant or could it have been a pot of barely rooted cuttings? It looks a lot like a pot of cuttings. If you only just bought it, had it been kept indoors? And have you put it outside suddenly? Usually when rosemary dies off it dries up. It doesn't flop.That implies that the growth must have been very soft, a symptom of being grown too fast. I think you need to stop watering it so much and put it in a light, sheltered place. Pebbles at the bottom don't do anything for drainage. The pot needs plenty of holes and the mix needs to be very gritty and free draining.

Ironically, none of these opinions of your cabinets' color are worth the time it took to type them. Monitors resolve colors differently, no matter how "true" they claim to be. Even "true" is different in peoples' eyes, because EYEs make colors different. So to you it's too yellow. I agree with taking a door back to wherever you got it and comparing it to the sample. If it's different, you might have a leg to stand on about changing them. I don't get the designer "letting" you have a color, as someone mentioned. The thing is, and we warn against this in every. single. discussion about paint color: you cannot choose a color without living with a large sample in your own lighting. White is a color. Just because it's painted on a door, doesn't mean you shouldn't live with it for a while. Some know this because it's my own oft repeated color story: attempting a gorgeous, gray/green color. Found it perfectly several different times. I painted at night. LOVED IT. With each color choice. However, in direct sunlight, it appeared teal or turquoise. Seemed my windows had a protective coating on them, which created a blue light. Those cabs not in direct sunlight remained the beautiful color(s) I'd chosen. I eventually settled on a cream with yellow it in, because combined with the light from the windows, it became sagey/green/gray. Go figure. Anyway, you don't have to live with it. 1) Change your lighting 2) Change your paint 4) Change your back splash Paint them Have them replaced. 6) Don't look at them. Reface them

In your shoes, I would fix the lighting, replace with dark hardware (and fixtures if you can manage it), and I would color match wall paint to the cabinets. The kitchen isn't bad, but I think it has a hint of "a try and a miss." Color matching the wall paint will make it feel more intentional. Nothing can make the cabinets white, so I would embrace them and try to achieve something a little different.