Living the good life, while under suspension
Jasdip
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Comments (12)Hi Composts- Every little bit counts as far as income goes. Our income may be limited (intentionally), but the rewards are many! Bartering services and goods goes a long way to improve quality of life even with low cash flow. If we need extra cash for something specific, I work per diem as a nurse, and my DH can do ANYTHING and fix ANYTHING. That's the key to living cheaply...do as much as you can for yourselves, read and learn and apprentice until you can handle anything that comes your way and not need to hire anyone to fix anything. We sell eggs, swap organically grown chicken for organically grown beef (with a neighbor), sell honey, maple syrup, herbs, perennial plants, my DH buys electronic equipment, old Hi-Fi, tunes it up, fixes it, sells on ebay for a profit. We raised two boys who both went to good colleges (bright boys who worked hard and got grants and scholarships and student loans) and now are working and making WAY MORE money than we ever will...but they both look foward to the day when they will live the simpler life. They've learned many of the skills necessary by living it and are luckier than we were in that way when starting out. We pay for everything cash, don't even own a credit card, and have had the same used car for 10 years. We also have a pickup truck, dump truck (both used and in good shape) I could go on and on with ways to live within a limited income, and increase your income, but it would probably take a book to hold all the info!...See MoreYes ...! we have the good life here....
Comments (3)Yes! San Antonio was #5! It is a wonderful city. Lots of shopping and fun places to visit. Lots of history there and there's almost always a party going on. I love living 50 miles away. In 1 hour I can be there to enjoy myself! I think Ms Nectarine likes San Antonio too!...See MoreLiving My Best Mom Life
Comments (18)Both of our kids were miracles and because of that, I probably looked at being their mom a bit differently, as I was beyond grateful to be "gifted" with each. I was told in my early twenties that I'd probably never be able to get pregnant, due to severe endometriosis. Bad enough to have had two surgeries and several procedures for it. Sixteen months after we married, we were presented, out of the blue, with the opportunity to do a private adoption. The baby was due in 3 months, so a decision had to be quickly made. We said yes, and our beautiful son came home to us the day after he was born. We were madly in love with him from that first moment they put him in our arms. He was a mellow, easy, happy, very affectionate toddler and little guy to parent. Such a joy! But, that said, I'm the oldest of nine kids myself so being around young children was second nature to me. Anyhoo, nine years later, I was totally floored to find myself pregnant for the first and only time in my life! But, at 5 months. I developed preeclampsia. At 6 months it was severe enough that I was put on strict bedrest. At 7 months, I went eclamptic and our tiny 2 lb 14 oz daughter was born by emergency C-section. She spent her first 2 months in the NICU and it was a very frightening time for us. Right before my physician took me to the delivery room, he told my DH and myself that I would never live through another pregnancy and highly recommended that he tie my tubes while doing the C-section. We agreed and that was it. So, with each of my kids, I pretty much loved and appreciated every stage of their lives. Both are natural born leaders, and did very well in school. Thankfully, both were easy teens to parent, with no drug, drinking or discipline issues. DH and I are pretty mellow parents, and both our kids did like spending time with us, although they were active in sports and had good, close friends as well.. College years were also easy for them and for us. Both attending DH's alma mater, the University of Oklahoma, which is about 8 hours away from us, so we didn't get to see them as often as I would have liked. Now, DS is 34 y/o, happily married, and living in Augusta, Georgia, which is where his very specialized career took him. He's now the boss of his own group/office or whatever they call it, which makes him very happy but it also makes it more difficult for him to get away long enough to fly home very often. I very much envy those of you whose adult children live close by! And DD, at 24 y/o, is in grad school up in Colorado. Like me, she's an organizer, with her home and with her friends, and seems to be always the one planning outings for her group. So she stays very busy, but we have a happy, close relationship and she calls me pretty much every day just to chat. DS calls us about once a week. If I had to choose the best time, though, it was those years when we were all together at home still. Before DS went away to college. I miss having my son and daughter close by!...See MoreLiving in a house while showing
Comments (22)In addition to the things already listed, our last agent had me remove about 1/2 of the items from my closets. She made a point of picking out the cutest dresses and shoes, then showed me how to stage the closet with them. She also advised removing expensive purses. One past agent had us remove a small television. It did make the room show better in photos. I looked at several online listings right before our house went on the market and took note of anything I did not like in the photos. Clutter bothered me every time. Even normal things like a toothbrush and toothpaste in a bathroom drew my eyes away from the room itself. One last thing: insist on professional photos of your home for the listing. It makes a difference. Some of the photos I've seen look like they were taken on a cell phone. I don't understand photos that feature a blank wall or a shower curtain. My photos were so nice that hubby and I wondered why we were selling in the first place. I'm no real estate agent but have had to move enough times that staging a house for sale is almost second nature. Listen to your agent. If you have a good one, the advice will net you more money. Best of luck....See MoreJasdip
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