Those in the PNW--do you worry about an earthquake?
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Comments (13)He was career military and when he was sent overseas four times for a full year tour to countries which were not stable, I of course worried very much. That is now behind me and I don't dwell on those times anymore. Now he is retired from the military and has begun an entirely new career which is not at all dangerous, however the freeway driving he has to do twice a day freaks me out. It's a very dangerous piece of highway for driving. He found a nice, quiet back way to get to work, I feel SO MUCH better and the driving stress for him is now gone - he was doing 40 miles each way in bad traffic. He is much more relaxed going the back (and pretty) way to work. He will only do the freeways now if there is black ice or a lot of snow predicted. I'm so sorry you have this stress, I remember what it felt like. It's just always there, even on very "good" days. I'm much more content and far less worried about him now....See MoreDo/Did you worry about who you are once you retire?
Comments (34)I plan on teaching another 2-3 years, while DH does part-time (sometimes full-time) consulting mostly from home. We work with a "wealth management planner" and always planned on retiring when DH was 60. That time came, we decided we "want" to keep working. I think the key is that it is now a choice, not a requirement. We have met (or exceeded our goals) and tend to be fiscally conservative. We are in our early 60's and are healthy and active, with hobbies and interests outside of work. I have never defined myself by my profession, and had the luxury of working part-time while raising our family. We planned for college, planned on paying off the mortgage, pay cash for cars......yes, we are planners! We live within our means and always have. What scares me, is that like Pal, we both have longevity genes and could live a long time. That was the case with my late father, who spent the last seven years of his life in a wonderful assisted living facility. He had the money, it met his needs and it was the best place for him. That came at a price (about 80K year at the end). He had the money and could afford that lifestyle. How does one plan for THAT? We did not buy long-term care insurance and are now to "old" for it to be affordable. We do not want to be a burden to our children-ever! If we have grandchildren at some point we would like to help with college tuition and "gift away" our assets as allowed by the IRS. In the meantime, we are in a sweet spot and are enjoying life in general. We feel very blessed!...See MoreTaking a cruise & worried about seasickness - what works for you?
Comments (18)When my daughter and family went to Disney a couple of years ago, she wore the patch so she wouldn't get sick during some of the rides. They were there for about a week. She noticed she couldn't see very well (she's had lasix). Her vision just kept getting worse by the day. Turns out that vision impairment is one of the side effects from the motion sickness patch. It clears up after the patch is removed. With calm waters and stabilizers, I doubt you'll ever know you're on a boat. The last two Caribbean cruises we've been on, we had some pretty rough seas due to weather. Thankfully neither one of us gets seasick and actually enjoyed being "rocked" to sleep at night. It takes some big waves to rock a ship that's 3 football fields long!...See MorePain sufferers...do you worry about the holidays?
Comments (63)I do understand Kathi about age and concerns. Not to compare, but my 84 year old mom has had a couple of surgeries. All was well and she wishes she wouldn't have put them off as long as she did. She's a lot like me and thinks stuff will improve with time....(yeah...no it's won't). But...I said to her, what if you have one more year to live and are able to do it pain free? What if it's 5 years? Ten? Kathi, wouldn't you and your husband be so happy to know that the next 10 years of his life would be spent pain free? Sorry to be all opinionated when you didn't ask, but this episode (and the positive prodding of folks on this great forum) has REALLY gotten me thinking about quality of life.... It matters, you know? I was pretty much in a state of "well, there's another day out of the way"...and that's no way to live. I was wishing my life away...not good. ANYHOO enough of me and my doings. I really hope your hubs gets to do whatever is best for him...and that does OF COURSE include getting to be as pain-free as he possibly can....See More- 11 years agolast modified: 11 years ago
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