~ Container Count / Zone Wars ~ Zone Wars Summary: Zone 3 . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Zone 4 . . . . . . . . . . 443 Zone 5 . . . . . . . . . 3,144 Zone 6 . . . . . . . . . 3,596 Zone 7 . . . . . . . . . 2,184 Zone 8 . . . . . . . . . . 936 Zone 9 . . . . . . . . . . 182 Total Containers: 10,497 Good morning, winter sowers. Hope everyone is enjoying the spring and getting lots of gardening done! Welcome to the count Nana8! Click the Container Count / Zone Wars Spreadsheet to see the container count in detail. ~ Happy Sowing Everybody ~

Deanna, I'm not Maryl, but maybe I can provide a few answers. Bud count is per scape--all buds that open on that one scape until the scape is done blooming. When I cut the spent scapes, that's often when I do my counting. It's easy to see the scars from blooms. Branching is a tad trickier. The main scape (that goes to the ground) is not counted. If there is only a top V on the plant, that would count as two branches. If there are more brunches up and down the scape, then those are counted too. I've linked to the AHS site for an example of branching, but I find the example confusing. Reblooming is from new scapes. Some scapes may appear while original scapes are blooming--this causes constant blooming over a long time. Other times, the daylily will quit blooming, then new scapes appear. Hope you haven't been affected by the recent tornadoes! Here is a link that might be useful: AHS on branching

Love - You said "He said fine, he would have to leave work early, didn't want to "inconvenience me" yada yada." and "I asked him what made him say that and he just said "well, I can't leave work early today." WOW. So I guess in his MAN MIND that is his way of acknowleding that I wouldn't do it." The way I see it is this was his way of making you feel guilty for being a SAHM, but unwilling to help him out with his kid. Don't give in!!!! Be strong in that HE needs to do what HE needs to do for HIS kid, and it wouldn't have to be this way if the (in the words of Sweeby) bat-sh*t crazy b*tch hadn't come in your home and punched you. Pseudo said "....I guess my point was if he puts BM before you ... if you had a child with him where would he draw the line ...." This is totally what I have been thinking for a few months now, but could never get the courage up to say anything. Where will he draw the line? Your DD has already been subjected to so much from this woman, and he's not even her father! How much would he put a child of his own through? Example: my friend has a DD with her DH who has 2 DDs with a crazy BM. The DH is a SAHD to the little one (DD with my friend) and would take her with him to pick up the other DDs on his weekend. It became a habit that the BM wouldn't be home at p/u time and wouldn't answer her phone. He would wait around for them to return (afraid that if he left he wouldn't get to see his DDs). One time, the little DD was in the car and carseat for 4 hours while he tried to track them down and waited for them. 4 hours! My friend finally said "You can wait around for 4 hours if you want, but you will not have MY daughter sitting in a carseat for 4 hours while you sit in your car outside their home." Basically, he had no problems putting BM ahead of his new DD. Remember...the squeaky wheel gets the grease. You just have to start squeaking louder than her. Jupiter said "I think that they need to see their ex's as good mothers (even when they clearly are not) maybe to somehow reassure themselves for when they are with her." So, so, so, true. My DH knows BM is a back-stabbing liar. But then he says stuff like "well, BM says it's SD's decision and she asks her all the time if she wants to visit". So why would he believe that one statement when he's caught her in so may lies before? The only thing that makes sense is he NEEDS to believe she's a good mother. Jupiter also said "I too run into arguments where he lets her slide on things that he wouldn't with me..I try to give him the example that if it was anyone else in his life he would have told them to go to h#$% because normally in life you don't do favors for people who don't do for you let alone someone who puts him down as a father..." and Love said "But it just totally goes against DH's overall nature, which is so frustrating." This is the issue. Which personality is the REAL one? I have this same problem with DH and I'm starting to think the way he is with HER is his personality when he's vulnerable and that scares the crap out of me because I guess I rarely ever see him vulnerable. I agree with FD. When I am flexible and accommodating with X, it is usually in the best interest of DS, and I do the work. I rarely (if ever) ask DH to do anything for DS, although he would be willing, because I feel like DS is my sole responsibility since I am the parent.

They sure do; I'm so glad that I checked them out, as this is just perfect for my purposes, and feels so nice underfoot. But, we're finally getting a chill in Maine, with the current temp at 6:45 PM of 30! It's going to be colder as the week goes on, with lows around 19, so I'll have something on my feet when I step on it!