I've got a Doo-dad that tracks my driving!
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Comments (1)Kim, I have Becky Shasta Daisy or Hydrangea Little Lamb or Weigela My Monet or Weigela Wine and Roses to trade if you still have any Monkshood or have any iris. Thank you, Jeff Thompson 1039 Cathy Drive Leesport PA 19533...See MoreMom has alz, but Dad's driving me crazy
Comments (10)It seems that most older people, when faced with the loss of their independance, have great problems dealing with it. When we asked my father about giving up driving (he was 93), he was in tears, saying that would just kill him. He drove until the day before he died, no accidents luckily, but I was so scared for him. The sight of my take-charge, strong father reduced to that emotional state when faced with giving up driving really shook me. Now I'm taking care of my 95 yr old Mother, altho she lives in a senior apt complex, now with assisted living. I've had to take all financial matters away from her because she was driving me crazy, not understanding the bank statements, obsessing about every penny. Her finances are just fine, but she would not leave it alone. She was upset if the SS check was deposited to her account on the last day of the month instead of the first of the next month, because she was sure "they" would take it away from her. I suppose I took the checkbook more to save my own sanity, but it is, again, one of those independance issues. Most senior complexes like where Mother lives do not accept AD residents (even tho many of the residents are in early stages, I am sure). So that would not be an option for you. What about trying out an apartment close to where you live, if you could do a month-to-month rental, and let your father give it a try? Possible? Maybe with a visiting aide part of the day? But there is no easy answer for your question of how you tell someone that they can no longer take care of himself. It's got to be the hardest time of life, in so many ways. Especially for us kids, who remember when our fathers were larger than life and took care of us. One thing to watch out for is the depression that comes along with this. Is your father on anti-depressant medications? Mother just went on medication this past summer, after saying she didn't need it and then calling me to say how she wanted to die. (I needed medication after those phone calls---if she hadn't taken the medication, I would have!) Depression in the elderly is way under-diagnosed and treated, I have learned. It's an issue you might explore. Keep in touch here on this board. No easy answers. I have often thought that it is a different mind game for you and me dealing with a healthy older person as we are, than dealing with an AD patient. Very different, no less difficult. I recently found that our local Alliance on Aging in Monterey County has a peer conselling group for caregivers who are NOT dealing with alz or cancer patients, like you and me. There are other support groups for specific diseases, but this one fits my needs. It's been my life-saver. So call around and see if you can locate a support group for yourself. It's worth it, I assure you. Helene...See MoreI've got three problems a little help please.
Comments (13)Thank you for the compliments! I really fell in love with every piece when I first saw them. I do like the beads but I was never totally happy with the look. I just couldn't seem to find anything else. I agree about the material not matching the heaviness of the furniture. I would have been happier with the window treatment if the material wasn't shiny and silky and was a bit more thick and heavy with the beads. Plus I think I would have prefered the brown to be much darker. I just found some dark brown suede panels with a leather band at the top. I purhcased them loved the look but it too didn't match the furniture. So back to the store they went just 40 min after purchase. I think maybe I will give the material stores a try. I might find some thick heavy maroon material that I can fashion into a window treatment. I have searched all the stores and haven't found anything that sings to me. :( Thanks for the link. They have some really nice stuff! Hallway I still need some advice on a green color for the hallway. I will be adding a white chair rail. As for the bedroom I do worry that if I get a smaller one I might regret it later.... still I don't want it to overpower the dresser or the room either. I don't have to have a mirror there, I could always hang it over the headboard instead....See MoreMy New Doo Dad Workshop ..
Comments (26)Here is my sculpey mosaic, it is a WIP. My goal was to replicate a picture of my daughter taken on her first birthday. After I grouted I noticed that there was a lot of white space so I am trying to fill in some of the spots with paint. I'm not real happy with the result so far but alas it is just an experiment. I appologize too, I've been working all night so the picture isn't very good either. Here is a link that might be useful: Gabby...See More- 11 years ago
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