Sometimes it just better to feel less worse…..
eld6161
9 years ago
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Sometimes I feel stupid..Or, what's the deal with paste tomatoes?
Comments (20)Thank you all. I have done some occasional stalking over on the Harvest forum, and you bet those folks know their stuff. Maybe I worded my search wrong, but couldn't seem to find the info I was looking for. (maybe because most people have enough sense to figure it out for themselves...) Thank you, Dave, for your words about Victorio. I bought it last year for dealing with blueberries, but it was an incredible help with my tomato harvest this year. It absolutely does leave the pulp. Last year (when I grew sauce tomatoes), I had lots and lots of sauce after I ran it through a wire strainer. I just didn't have enough sense to know what to do with it. This year, I did strain the first couple batches of tomatoes I ran through it, and the small amount of pulp that was in those beefsteaks made lovely sauce. Just not enough of it. What I especially liked was how quickly the pulp cooked down into sauce once it was strained out. After using this amazing gadget this year, I don't think there's much of anything that anyone could say to make me fall out of love with it. It's a huge labor and time saver! As a note, I discovered by accident, that if I filled the hopper with tomato pieces before I cranked them through and then emptied the bowl right into a hot pan, I had minimal separation of pulp and water in the jars. Re: Determinate Sauce tomato. I grow my vegetables organically, and honestly don't even like to spray organic concoctions. Add to that the fact that the entire county here seems to have Early Blight in the soil, plus the fact that our incredibly hot mid summer heat puts a stop to tomato production anyway, and I have decided that it really doesn't matter whether I grow determinates or indeterminates. I am still only going to get the first crop. I will try Opalka as an experiment. Sounds intriguing. But I am very grateful for the extra mention of Italia. All three recs are on my list to try....See MoreDifferent main level floor plan. Better or worse?
Comments (21)Zone4 - I love a lot of things about that plan. I'll list the immediate things I see that wouldn't work. If anyone has any way to make those things work then I would gladly suggest it to my builder. I like the exterior a lot! -I would like the main level laundry (we hope to have an upstairs laundry with kids rooms) to be near or even in the master. -Not sure about kitchen. Would have to work on the layout. Are the dimensions wall to wall? Does anyone know? -We are hoping for at least 16 feet (would love 20 but don't think it will happen) for dining space to accommodate our large table. -Upstairs beds and baths seem to be on the small side but not terribly small. -Would like a laundry upstairs. Reno-I'm finding that to be very true. It has made me stay in check on size though. When I would make plans before I would bump a wall out here or there and end up with 8000 square feet. LOL Okay, well not 8000 but you know what I mean. I'm not sure I understand what you mean about "thinking about the spaces created between the room you are moving around". Do you mean the room I am moving to another location in the plan or the main focus room (ie., living room or kitchen or...) that we think is highest priority and making the plan work around that? I keep reminding myself that things that take a lot of work are usually worth it. I'll keep trudging along. I appreciate your help!...See MoreI feel worse everyday
Comments (9)Bryces Mommy, I thought about your dream last night. Perhaps there's a message in that dream concerning your guilt. "I was so happy to see him but then something happened where he needed me more then ever but I couldn't reach him to save him." As horrifying as the dream was, perhaps this was to give you peace that your being there might not have made a difference. Life leaves us with so many unanswered questions. There's a true story that someone once told me that makes me cry every time I repeat it. A young mother of 3 lost her husband in some kind of accident. She related this years later, when she had remarried and her children were almost teens. "I was the only woman to ever lose her husband. I WALLOWED in my grief. One day I looked up to notice my little children, sitting quietly in a row on the sofa, watching, waiting for Mommy to stop crying." She went on to tell how she told them to get ready and she quickly dressed and left the house with them. From that turning point she began to heal. I could not at that time identify with her loss, but I identified with the children. Now I still can't imagine her own sorrow, but I can understand the paralzying feeling that grief brings. I know the need to tell and retell one's experiences, and the need to stop and cry before you can continue with a simple task. This might be a Christmas during which you could focus on grandparents or older friends without children around, and they on you. Your husband hurts, too. Encourage each other. We need to hear more about this precious child. When he learned to walk. When he learned to talk. Details of him in the winter, in the spring, with his Grampa, with the cat. The Real Bryce, never to be forgotten. Nell...See MoreInfo is getting worse, not better?
Comments (14)@MrBlubs, I have to concur with you. I've noticed most places seem to be content with treating these plants like crap. (I'm looking at you Wal-mart and Home Depot in particular). Surprisingly the Lowe's nearby has a great selection of houseplants/succulents&Cacti, and they are all in beautiful shape. They even have some bromeliads! Luckily I have a public garden in my area(Many people there available for questions), and a local greenhouse with a LOT of variety. And-people who actually know in detail what they're taking care of. I might end up there, too. ;) And-as for the "throwaway" mindset, I already see that in some relatives... they just buy whatever annuals they want, leave them outside, and refuse to care for them. "If they die they die" That kind of behavior is why I inevitably end up taking care of things that aren't mine, even if I should just let them be. Can't help it when a plant's looking awfully sad, though. I've been trying my best to educate some of them that seem to care, but what ends up happening is it sounds like too much work for them and they either give away the plant or give it back to me. Actually, I think that's what's happening with most people. "It's too hard, I want something that's easy and always pretty". Especially with perennials. @Gary, I think that's in part to not only slightly differing experiences between growers(and levels of experience), but the differences in the plants themselves. I know must succulents need to be left alone to callous before trying to root, but there's some I've seen people cut and stick right in dirt and mist and they grew fine. There's a lot of variables and I think that's why we get so many different answers here lol And, yeah, always those people that seem to have something in crappy conditions "but it does fine". Fine is a very subjective word. ;) I know a lot of people that just shut down if an answer to a problem is too hard. That's why you see people go with the easiest answer, even if it's not correct. They get into the mindset of "this is too hard, this is taking too much time, this is too much effort, this is too much money", and don't want to bother anymore. Or maybe they just don't take us seriously when it comes to plants. Ex: "Well I know you told me to do this, but my friend Shelly told me to try this trick instead", "I know you told me what to do to keep my trees healthy but I'm going to hire a tree doctor instead", etc, etc.......See Moreeld6161
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