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Comments (4)I was run ragged today. Another deployment starting so had to work today (and tomorrow and for the next 10 days straight). Dontcha know I overslept? Me, the keeper of keys, and my eyes didn't open until 6:30 am. I made it in by 8 am and was greeted by the team I'll be working with and 14 tractor trailers. We managed to empty 4 trucks when my forklifts died. Seems my employees never charged them like I asked them to, so the trucks had to be unloaded by hand. There are 32-36 pallets of equipment on each truck, depending upon how high the pallets are stacked. That was a lot of walking, pulling and pushing. A friend stopped by for a while to drop off a lawn mower and weed eater and that was a welcome break. I'm gonna miss this man terribly. It's funny how life plops the most oddest creature in the middle of your path at a time when you don't really want to deal with it. Diversionary tactics. I call him my curmudgeon, he was crusty and cynical when we first met, and I always felt like the real person was hiding behind some high castle wall. I was right, little by little over the past 10 months, I've managed to scratch my way through the vines and moss and get a glimpse at what lies on the other side while still respecting his privacy. He has deemed our relationship to be a symbiotic relationship, and I couldn't agree more. It's an odd friendship, but it works. And in 4 days, he'll be 700 and some miles away. But he'll always remain close to my heart. At noon, I had to run home and pick up DS so he could go on a "mini" hike in preparation for a hike along the Appalachian Trail next month. We had directions to get to the trail he was hiking, but they just didn't sound right to me, so I ran by work and asked some of the guys if going an alternate route would be better. That put us 15 minutes behind schedule. DS was worried I'd get lost...HA! Foolish child. But he convinced me to try to follow the directions he was given. Foolish Mom! The access gate the directions told us to take was closed for the weekend. That put us another 15 minutes behind, and we ended up driving the 50-some miles around the north perimeter of the installation to get to the meeting point. The group had just taken off about 5 minutes before we arrived, so we could see them. DS said he'd keep them in sight and he'd be fine. I was hesitant, but eventually a mother has to let go, right? I fretted the 50-some miles back to work but quickly put it out of my mind for a few hours while unloading trucks...by hand. By 5:30 pm, it was time to go retrieve him...another 50-some miles out to...OMG! I didn't know where to pick him up! And he didn't take his cell phone. Stupid Mom! I drove to the drop off point, not there. I reached for the map to see where the end point was...no map, I left it at work! So I drove 10 miles down the road and found a little dirt/sand road that went back into the woods in what seemed the right area of an end point. But, the sand looked soft and I was afraid to drive down it and get stuck. So I drove another 5 miles down the road to a point where I could turn around. It was as I pulled off the road that I noticed my gas gauge...I was almost on empty! How stupid could I get? I couldn't find my kid, I was almost out of gas, I was out in the middle of absolutely NO WHERE, I was hot and tired and fighting back tears of frustration. I reached for my cell to call the curmudgeon and admit that I was a damsel in distress and needed a knight in shining armor when it rang. It was DS. Thank goodness. He was back at the start point, so off I went, another 15 miles down the road, watching the gas gauge the whole time. When I got there, there was one adult left with the boys so I asked him which direction I should take to find a gas station, the only one I knew lay in a town another 30 miles away. This is how dense I really am...there was a gas station 7 miles down the road, which was only 10 miles from my house! Yep, I put over 150 miles on my car when I could have put 50 on had I stopped and really looked at a map. Good grief. I figured it was a good time to buy a lottery ticket with the $5 I had in my wallet. All gassed up, lottery ticket in hand, DS safely stowed in the passenger seat, the heavens opened up and it began to rain. A nice, soft, steady rain. I realized then just how drained I was, and there was no way I was going to cook dinner. So we found an ATM, got some cash, and had fried chicken for dinner. The curmudgeon refers to his new duty assignment as a "fresh start". I've been thinking about that a lot lately. I know I need to make a fresh start, but it's so hard. Can one really make a fresh start in the same place? Seems like an oxymoron. Same town, same job, same group of friends, nothing is really "fresh". Sure, I'd find a new house and move. There'd be new gardens to grow. But life in itself would be the same. So, over the past 2 months, I've submitted my resume for 2 different jobs. One is local, one would take us to Africa, both would be promotions. Getting feedback on resume submission is a long process with the govt, but tonight I got feedback on the job that is local. I've been rated as one of the top candidates and my resume has been sent to the hiring authority for consideration. This job is the supervisor position in an office where I was offered a job twice before but didn't accept, basically doing what I do now but as a staff member. This would be the end to the physical labor and long hours! I figured I didn't stand a chance for the supervisor position since they'd most likely just promote the guy they did end up hiring. So it was a pleasant surprise to see that they didn't do that. The job in Africa would be working as the assistant to the political advisor...definitely not something I'm strongly suited for, but I had to give it a shot. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? I just need to remember to start reading a map if I end up in Africa! Something tells me I won't be able to send an SOS to the curmudgeon. And now it's time to close my eyes and dream...of fresh starts in life with the child I love dearly. And of winning the lottery.......See MoreWho's here in 2008!
Comments (142)This is davies in Canon City. I think I used to post on here as 'shudavies', but GardenWeb says "never heard of ya!", so I re-joined as davies-cc. I took a while off to get divorced in 2007 :-( but now I'm back and willing to serve as the Rocky Mountain Curmudgeon, if that's OK with everyone else. I am particularly glad to see david52 is still prowling around on this blog, and Skybird I also remember your irrationally sunny disposition. So you're a flight attendant? Man, the airline industry has taken its share of hits in this milennium, no? Canon City is zone 6; our average winter temps are the warmest in Colorado I think, but we have greater extremes than Grand Junction or the lower Four Corners area. The climate is called high elevation desert, with an average of 12" or so of precip. a year. Zone 6 Tree of the Decade is most definitely the famous Chocolate Mimosa (Albezia julibrisson darkafolia). Got mine for $79.99 locally and it's growing great, very attractive albeit only through one winter thus far. I also finally found a cool bamboo that withstands all the sun and aridity, Phylostachys 'Decora'. It stayed green all winter and put up 7 new shoots this year. Didn't spread though, but I've seen a couple two foot runners along the surface this year so next year I think it's going to spread out some. So as you might have guessed, I'm a little bit of a zone stretcher, trying to grow some subtropical stuff that will survive here. I've got a number of (arborescent) trunk forming yuccas, and many dead-and-disposed-of plants to show for my efforts thus far. Lately I am starting a Japanese garden, although I must confess I'm not totally sure what one is yet. But I'm working on some foundation plants for enclosure, and my budget and my back are keeping me from acting too hastily altogether, so it might turn out to be presentable someday. Stay cool Rocky Mountain gardeners....See MoreYet another zartemis layout
Comments (23)More on the dog: The Akita (large dog) is crate trained. We do often confine him to a room when there are guests in other parts of the house. We just aren't willing to do this for our two regular and close friends who don't mind the dog out and about, but just not touching them because we already have a solution we LOVE-LOVE-LOVE (seating in the kitchen with narrow enough entries) They come by too often. We are lazy, we don't want to have to do anything special when they arrive. This must-have design rule brings us too much joy to give up for a lesser solution. We've also now discussed the partial door issue and decided against it too. It will result in this partial door being extended permanently. We are too lazy to move it back and open the area. Really. I'm not kidding. This is just who we are. How do I know this? Mr. Chef pointed out that our opening to the living room is already 5' and we put a kitchen cart there to block it further. The cart never moves. Never. It is just sitting in the living room offering extra kitchen storage and serving the purpose of narrowing the opening to make the dog easier to control. I should probably put this info into a web page. We've discussed this issue in person and on the web for hours with dozens of people. It's human nature to be polite to the first 5 or 10 people who suggest a crate/gate solution, but when the 67th person makes the suggestion, it's harder. The 67th person doesn't realize that you've already discussed this in great gory detail with 66 people before them and rejected it after very deeply considering it and they deserve the same politeness as the 1st. But it's hard. Maybe if I write it up and just point people to the URL explaining it, I can avoid being less than civil about it....See MoreAli Smith - How To Be Both - Discussion
Comments (59)At long last. I'll try not to write too much as most of you have probably sent your books back to the library or have become hazy about the plot. My copy started with 'Camera' which was just as well as I think 'Eye' would have been difficult to start with and put me off continuing. BTW my 'picture' at 'Eye' . . the odd pair of eyes . . . is taken from a del Cossa picture of St Lucy who's eyes were gouged out when she was put to death. I checked out the various friezes mentioned in the book and available to down-load. Not easy to get clear images but at least I felt I had a better idea of the various characters del Cossa had painted. Did anyone notice there is quite a bit about the detail of St Francis Ferrer in the 'Camera' section, as George studies the painting in the National Gallery but little mention of it by del Cossa in 'Eye'? I had no trouble in accepting the 1960's pre-theme and didn't read anything too special in it. It provided a period in which Smith based Carol (the mother) who is quite hippy-ish in her way of life/outlook. Nor did the lack of speech marks and odd words scattered about . . . once I had got used to them. In fact it forced me to be more alert to the various 'conversations' in case I missed something. The 'Camera' setting of Cambridge is where Smith lives and presumably mixes among the intelligentsia so I suppose it isn't surprising that George is much brighter than the average teenager. The hospital, Addenbrookes, where G's Mother dies and where G cycles round part of the lay-out of the gene and photos the double helix, are all there in real life. I wonder if this part of 'Camera' is telling us about the 'twist' in history (as the DNA spiral is depicted) when G says "What if the received notions of history were deceptive." As to the characters. I felt very sorry for both Georgia and Henry (who at first I though much younger than he actually was . . more of a toddler). Their Father seemed a distant rather ineffectual figure and G is left to look after the boy/cook the meals etc. although Smith doesn't make a big thing of it. And what was it about the damp patch on the wall in her bedroom? Did it have some significance that I've missed? The Mother, for me, seems quite a believable 'her-own-woman' sort of character. How many people would just up and take the children away to Italy for a few days? She shows guts and obviously is happy to put two fingers up at authority, in true hippy style. She tries to make George think at an adult level, which perhaps leaves G more vulnerable after her death. Helena, another very bright girl, comes in and out of G's life too briefly. I feel, if Camera had been a story on its own H could have played a greater part/been developed more. Mrs Rock? Did anyone mention her? Is her name meant to imply some sort of security for G; she seems to have no one else rooting for her? I liked the way she answers a question with a question or repeats back the same sentence. I have a friend, something of a Social Worker who does that same thing; it can drive you mad. Lisa Goliard? Obviously someone who Carol was attached to in the past, but so little information is given about her and why does G thinks she was/is a spy? Is she maybe the link between the now and then? George sees her in the National Gallery and apparently follows her to her house . . or so del Cossa 'says'. Very confusing. I cannot think that the second part (for me) of 'Eye' is meant to be written by George and Helena, they wouldn't have had either the skill or knowledge of mid-fifteenth century Italy. Why has del Cossa been taken forward in time? No idea, unless it is just because of the length of time G spends staring at the St Francis picture, as though he has been temporarily resurrected. I couldn't see the point of making del Cossa a female, nor the mention by some here about pornography; I hardly noticed it, (although the male review writers in the papers did!) I was more annoyed by del Cossa' using the word cause instead of 'because' on almost every page. Finally I think 'tomatoes' was just an error. I also noticed 'breeches' which I don't think were worn back then; still to be invented! So, I've still written too much but must say it made me think outside my comfort zone, but I don't think I would read this type of book again too soon. Rather too clever for everyday comfort. Final thought; all the way through reading this in my mind's background I kept 'hearing' I am a Camera...See MoreMagdalenaLee
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