Troubled by family relationships
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Comments (12)This was such a funny 'happening' with Jazz. When I was reading about the Raven on the Mantel, I knew exactly which one you meant..because I really liked that one and remember when you got it. I was also wondering how in the world did he do that and like Luvs said..w/o disturbing anything else up there. You almost need those surveillance cameras to keep an eye on him...or at least a 'motion detector' ! I've actually seen video on YouTube where people use the hidden cameras to see what their pets do when they're gone..lots of funny stuff that goes on - Can you imagine Jazz ?? jane...See MoreNow Casting Families with Troubled Teens (Phoenix)
Comments (2)Oh, may I share MY story with you???? *cough, cough* Idiots....See MoreRelationship in crisis because of his crazy kid
Comments (4)She will stop making trouble for him when HE decides to stop letting her. She's made several bad decisions but apparently, that's what she saw growing up. Dad made poor decisions in his relationships so it's not surprising that his kids will do the same. You don't mention her mom so I'm assuming nothing good and if her mom is a bad role model, then there you go. Will this girl ever change? Not YOUR problem. She was on that track before you met her daddy. She will continue on her path whether you are there or not. She's 18. If her daddy lets her bring craziness into his life, that's HIS choice and THAT is your problem if you are in a relationship with him. Is there anything you can do to keep your relationship? It doesn't sound like you are living with him. If you enjoy his company, date him and steer clear of his home life. Let him come see you, meet him somewhere else & stay away from his toxic home situation. If you are hoping for more than that, read my other thread....See MoreKeeping a relationship with stepchild after relationship ends
Comments (8)I agree that both her BF and BM have issues. However, I really don't see their issues being bad enough to justify purusing it in the court. If it does get worse over the next few months or years, then that will be something I consider pursuing in court. I would need her to tell me that is what she wants versus me bringing up that option and confusing her more. My ex knows that I'm talking to his daughter now via her cell phone and has not said anything about it. I think he is at least trying to do right by her. Although she tells me he goes to the bar almost everynight, I just indicate if someone is there with her, then it is fine. Once things with us is more in the past, then I hope he will let me visit with her regularly and we'll be able to speak civilly to each other. She already indicated she would like to stay a few days at my house over the winter break. In the summertime, maybe I can get her for a week or two as suggested and then I'll be able to take some time off and we go on a trip together. In the meantime, I'm going to focus on myself and having positive conversations with her about the good things going on in both of our lives instead of all the drama. During my relationship, I unfortunately lost sight of myself and now I have the time to refocus and find myself. I intend to quit smoking, start exercising, and eating right. These are my biggest flaws. Removing them will help ensure I'm the best I can be for myself and allow be to be the best role model possible for her....See Moresylviatexas2
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