Adult daughter says actions speak louder than words
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Estranged Adult Daughter - Over Legal Will
Comments (110)"But back to money, if money is just money, then the SMs can give it up." Yes, so can the ex wife/husband, kids and all other relatives. As a child, if my dad passes before my stepmom, she will have to be taken care of until she dies. That may very well use up whatever my dad leaves because nobody knows how long she will continue to live. Her children are upset that she lasted long enough for her medical care to use up whatever she came into the marriage with. Her care costs more than her disability income she gets so... no inheritance for her kids. They aren't willing to accept that, they had to take it to court to hear a Judge tell them that there isn't anything left. Personally, the Judge should have told them that they can take over their mom's care and have her income. Oh wait, they were given that option and refused. They actually wanted to see if they were entitled to half of everything my dad has since it's 'community property'. Well, they aren't entitled to jack because my dad is alive and so is their mom. Impatient little buggers. My dad has worked hard for everything he has and if it ends up going to provide care for his wife because that's what is important to him, then he has my blessing. He's taught me what it means to do the right thing and he's taught me to be strong and make my own way in the world. All of his children have fairly successful lives and none of us 'expect' a thing. It's HIS money to do with as HE pleases and if he leaves it to his dog, that's also his business....See Morehausband say bad words after he gives me gift!
Comments (7)I have not read this book, but plan to someday. The 5 Languages of LOVE. Everyone is different. Take the quiz (see link below). This was my score. I need "words of affirmation" to feel loved. Negative words hurt me. 10 Words of Affirmation 7 Acts of Service 7 Quality Time 6 Physical Touch 0 Receiving Gifts It's pretty interesting. It said this about me: Words of Affirmation Actions don't always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, "I love you," are important --" hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward!!! Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. Kind, encouraging, and positive words are truly life-giving! Take the quiz and see what YOU are....ask your husband to take it as well. Knowing what is important to each of you can help you two communicate and interact more effectively. Maybe his language of LOVE is gifts...maybe that's what makes HIM feel loved, so he does the same for you. And maybe this conflicts with his ability to pay for it. OR, maybe YOU have the love language of Gifts and he resents it. Anyway.....just a thought. Kompy Take the quiz below..see link!!! Here is a link that might be useful: THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES QUIZ...CLICK HERE...See MoreHow do I cope?
Comments (3)hatetoshop Our daughter has always been a touch disrespectful and have no idea where it came from .her dad and herself have always butt heads him being the stern and laying things out and and her always going her own way.But she has completely changed ever since she met her now husband always had to be with him never was home and eventually moved in with him which I didn't take well at all.Her now husband never came to see us in all the years I think 6 times in 6 years .My husband was very hurt and I we let them know he said he was always working.They said they make more of an effort but that has never happened.We thought once they were married things would be different NO,then when they had their first child but not then either.At this point I just want to see my granddaughter as much as I can and just wait each week for thursday to come.She regularly texts her sister about any news or new milestones and then she shares it with me.Ex; the other day she sent a picture of my granddaughter doing her first #2 in the toilet.I called wanting to say congrads my granddaughter but my daughter never picked up. I just want to carry on as if things are fine but it's always weighing on my mind that this isn't the way things should be.......See MoreIMO, if you're older than 8, you've outgrown the use of the word yummy
Comments (87)Not when it comes to pics of a young Richard Chamberlain or George Clooney it ain't. Or my chalkboard label dog treat container, on which I have written, "YUM!"...See Morelucillle
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