well, having lived in an apt. in NYC, and had it broken into, I'll say this: it's not as bad as you think. For one thing, it depends on how much you have, and whether it's worth stealing. My roommate and I had small amounts of cash around (they took her $10 roll of quarters), plus some electronics. They didn't want to stop long enough to unplug everything. Cops in my highly Hispanic neighborhood said the thieves were looking for cash (since many of my neighbors keep a sizable amount at home instead of in the bank) or gold. Sometimes they do try to take VCRs, CD players, electronics they could stick in a shopping bag or duffel and carry off inconspicuously. of course, in your quiet building, maybe they will TAKE the time to unplug the electronics, but.. I think you'd be better off dealing w/ the securing of your STUFF in the apartment, than in investing $$$ in perimeter reinforcement for an apartment you don't own. What do you have that's really worth $$ to a thief? And then, how can you secure it? Electronics: There used to be pads and tethers you could attach to stuff like TVs and stereos, so that if they were removed by a thief, they'd never work again (and they came w/ stickers that it was hoped would deter the thief from testing it out). (also note that many electronics stuff is really not that expensive, comparatively, so there ain't much of a market--and the days of crackheads who'd be happy w/ $10 for their next hit have sort of faded in most places) Will you keep much in the apt. in the way of cash, gold watch, stocks and bonds, etc? Get one of those Sentry fire safes, and screw it to the floor of the closet, then pile the clothes on top of it, and take the key with you--don't leave it around in the house where it's findable. (when you screw those things in place, you can't unscrew them until you unlock it; or you'd need one HELL of a pry bar!) I'd do that before I'd pay for a safety-deposit box, frankly. Bcs then you could get to that cash, papers, etc., should you need them. And most thieves don't care about stocks & bonds. Seriously, what papers do you have that a thief would care about? If you're worried he'll get your credit card number from your billing paperwork, get a two-drawer fling cabinet that locks, and get in the habit of locking it (and carrying the key in your wallet). Bearer bonds--but nobody should keep those at home anyway. Savings bonds--too much work for most thieves, and he'd need an ID to cash 'em anyway. So if someone did break in, what would/could they take? For me, it was nearly nothing. The worst part was the damage to the door jamb. Remember that, even though YOU are away at night, your neighbors are not. In fact, they're inside that same house with you, and if someone tries to kick your door down while you're away, they'll hear it!! It's probably a window thief or a lock picker that you need to worry about. For that, try these ideas: *fire escape gate on the window ($500 when I bought mine; you do need the landlord's approval bcs it srews into the window-frame studs) *Medeco-brand lock cylinder--unpickable enough for most purposes And just in case someone DOES try to kick in the door, you only need a reinforced lock inside the apartment itself. In my city, we called them "police locks"--the style popular when I rented an apt. was essentially a bar that goes into a metal "cup" fitting set into the floor (you'll need landlord permission to gouge out a hole to sink the cup into the floor). Then the key slides the 45-degree-angle bar from one side to the other, and on one side, it can slide up, and the other it cant (locked)/. I tried to find a picture but couldnÂt. ThereÂs another style of police lock in which bars go from side to side; this might be more acceptable for your landlord. Because instead of digging into the floor, youÂll drill deep into the doorway studs (through the decorative molding) to install the brackets on the side. Doorway molding is easier to replace, and in fact he may require you to leave the lock in place when you move, which might be an advantage to him (except, of course, that the mere presence of the lock will make a future tenant think the place is unsafe). http://store.yahoo.com/853111/foxstylpollo.html I donÂt think you should spend so much $$ buying such permanent stuff for a place you donÂt own. Granted, w/ that low a rent, you may stay there for a long time, long enough to justify spending it. But your landlord may not allow you to mess w/ stuff. If he does, it will be almost guaranteed that he will require you to leave it when you move out. I wonder if youÂd be better off finding a way to assuage your fear; especially if itÂs really nagging at you. After all, you called it "an all-consuming obsessive worry." That sounds like something rooted in fear, and not necessarily in evidence. So, gather some evidence. Not that you should be stupid and never lock your doors, or live w/ crummy locks and a flimsy door. But there are lots of other people that burglars are more likely to hit (figuring that the other victims will have more valuable stuff than a guy who can only afford to rent an apartment in an old house). And, nowadays, burglars are MUCH more likely to work during the day, when most people are at work. You say this is a low-crime areaÂnice, w/ lots of people paying sort of high rents, chi-chi stores, etc. If thatÂs true, then you donÂt live among lots of people who are wandering around at 3am doing drugs and getting into trouble; not w/ that rent level (of course, there are bozos in every financial level). Anybody specifically targeting the neighborhood wonÂt bother w/ youÂtheyÂll aim for folks w/ more. Maybe you should take some daytime hours (lucky youÂIÂd have to take a day off) and go to the police precinct house, and ask to speak to the Public Affairs officer. Ask him to show you the crime statistics, and focus specifically on what happens in your neighborhood after 5pm. What sorts of crimes are being reported? I bet youÂll find itÂs almost no middle-of-the-night break-ins. And when break-ins are reported, what is stolen? What do thieves in your neighborhood look for? How much damage might they do if they *do* get in. How many other homes or apartments in your area have security systems? If most of them don't have them, it's probably because they're not really necessary. (auto alarms: As someone who lives in an apartment bldg in a densely populated area, may I plead: do NOT get a car alarm! Get an ignition cut-off instead--the car-insurance benefits will be the same. But I'm telling you, the ONLY thing car alarms do is annoy the heck out of the neighbors. Nobody looks to see whose car is being broken into--they all assume it's a malfunction. And nobody wants to argue with or fight a car thief anyway, so they're not going to interrupt them) (also, as for the home alarm, you do NOT want to have one of those go off and make all sorts of alarms and flashing lights.)

The manufacturer's rep and the retail rep came to the house today... It sounds like a Norcraft representative visited. Correct? Here's an excerpt from Norcraft's Code of Ethics... 7. Customer Relations Norcraft strives to develop and maintain excellent relationships with our customers. We are committed to providing our customers with quality and service. You are expected to treat customers and business guests in a courteous and respectful manner at all times. Should a customer have a question or complaint, give the matter your immediate attention. If you ever feel you cannot properly handle a problem or difficult situation, refer the customer to your supervisor or higher management. Possible contacts: Mark Buller - Chief Executive Officer, President and Member of the Board of Managers of Norcraft GP L L C Leigh Ginter - Chief Financial Officer and Principal Accounting Officer Francis Ploetz - Executive Vice President, Operations Kurt Wanninger - President of Mid Continent Here is a link that might be useful: Norcraft Companies LP (Bloomberg Businessweek)

My daughter and I were out today and bought the original print fabric to make one large pillow for the sofa. She also picked out a solid color fabric in the darker green that's in the print for another slightly smaller pillow. I liked a stripe that coordinated well, but she says she wants to keep things simple. She has also decided to use the rug from IKEA. Haven't purchased it yet, tho. End tables, coffee table and lamps will be the next choices to make.

Please move your painting down so that the bottom edge is about 8 inches above the top edge of the sofa. Find a console for the TV that is quite a bit longer than the TV and rather low, with doors behind which you can hide the messy stuff. Google TV consoles and you'll find hundreds of styles in every price range. Put up a long curtain rod, long enough so the curtains clear the window when they're pulled back, below the narrow window and put up curtains that are fairly light in color so the room doesn't look smaller. I suggest a carpet that is fairly colorful, and it would be great to use your painting as a color inspiration. You need warm colors to offset the gray of the wall and couch. Definitely a few pillows in colors taken from the rug. Move that gray bench thingie, perhaps to your bedroom, and find a small but comfortable armchair for added seating. Forget about the horrible overhead lights and get at least one table lamp (two would be better) for warmer lighting that doesn't turn people a ghastly color. A few pillows in happy colors so your furry friend will have something to cuddle against.