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my last shot at getting my lawn back

KCSummer
9 years ago

THIS IS LONG - I APOLOGIZE but I hope you won't be deterred from reading. Once upon a time I had a very nice green lawn, it wasn't perfect but it was thick and nice. Then, stuff happened and the house next door was occupied by a series of renters who grew successively worse about yard work/lawn care. I sprayed for weeds or just pulled them out myself in my yard but the neighbors let theirs go - it would grow to several feet tall before they'd cut it - anyway their lawn became infested with this thick ugly horrible stuff that is green but there the semblance to grass stops.

I am the kind of person who gets a lot of pleasure out of my hard work landscaping and cutting grass - when I get thru a shower, a glass of iced tea and a nice view but for years now I alternately curse or cry because I"m forced to look down and see its not grass but the same weed taking over here. For a while I couldn't figure what it was, I sprayed it with triple strenght round-up and double dose of spreader sticker and it was happy and healthy as can be.

After investigating I finally have it narrowed down to SEDGE, an innocuous enough sounding name that is deceiving I have found that it has underground runners - hence its invasion into my yard. I used to tell my kids it came from over there and they blew me off but you could see it advance and whatever scraggles of grass that survived were smothered with this hatefuly stuff. It has definitely soured relationships with neighbors who are all young apparently healthy people that would die before pulling a huge weed begging to be pulled. Five of them and 1 of me at Age 65 - one person said well you should take care of their lawn then - and I might have when I was younger but it ain't happening.

Anyway I have been planning my assault on this stuff now that I know what it is. But you see the ground now out back is 95 percent dirt period. Because I pulled their stuff out - I tried seed this fall but it wouldn't take off I think my green thumb is now cursed. I have found this sstuff called SEDGE HAMMER PLUS that's specifically for it It is for post emergent use mainly. So I have this collision of purposes here coming up I want new grass to germinate and grow, the old stuff to die - but always before IF I get grass growing before it has a chance to thicken it is swallowed within a week or two by this hateful sedge.

I have looked into seeding in winter on top of or under snowabout February - they say soil contact is essential so I blew away all the dead leaves and now have a nice mud patch that would make a good hog wallow probably except that's not what I'm wanting of course but it could be a backup plan. OR ELSE CEMENT THE WHO BACK YARD AND PAINT IT GREEN. i WAS reading the Sedge Package and it said it could be tilled in pre-emergent, tilled or worked in but it must be thoroughly covered but not overcovered. sounds easy but I bet its not because how do you know where you missed? Anyway what should I do?

Should I work the Sedge Hammer in as soon as ground thaws - hope it prevents it from coming up and then plant my grass seed in spring - If the sedge killer didn't get it all it spreads voraciously. If I have tender grass coming up and I spray the sedge killer again will that kill lthe tender grass too? I'm not sure which way to go but I'm trying to use this time to develop my last ditch effort to get my once beautiful lawn back.

I cry everytime I go outside and my dogs track mud in so I'm grouchy a lot because the outside comes inside and I have to deal with that too (the dogs) HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT PLEASE --- I once had a nice man who had a lawn service seed my lawn for free after aeration - it didn't survive either but I"ve got water bills for 5 years to show for my struggle. If I could ever get it thick and green again and took intense care I think I could keep THEIR CRAP at bay but as it is now I'm doomed and actually, much as I love my garden, if this doesn't work I'm moving which may sound drastic but not for the amount of heartbreak.

One of my main joys in life is my garden and lawn and try as I might I haven't been able to get it back. I'm an older lady can't I just enjoy my garden and dogs and squirrels and birds. I know I sound WHINEY and pathetuc but I'm really sick of people telling me "well just get over having a lawn - no sweat problem solved." NO ITS NOT, why should I be deprived and this is my last home where I'll have a lawn I WANT IT BACK and it shouldn't be too much too ask, I'm getting anxious again just thinking about it. ADVICE PLEASE. There is something wrong with this world when the person who wants something nice is seen as the problem and the weedy lazy person is just bopping thru life.

I've been accused of being too picky (my son says what do you care what it is as long as its green - if you've ever seen how tough and ugly sedge is I disagree) but I'm actually very easy to please I just want my grass back and I see all kinds of people who have it and now I sound like a petulant child so I'm regressing I guess to childhood. HELP! PLEASE. If it works I will throw a party (once its thickened up) and have a nice summer memory - good food, GRASS and a few nice people . My dogs are small so they aren't a threat to anyone so all will be well! IF i've lived here 20 years and made it into my own paradise but I can't continue to say here if I'm so unhappy REMEMBERING HOW IT USED TO BE (SEE THE PICTURE)

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