googled "impulsive talking" definition and came up with all of this... nonverbal learning disability nonspecific learning disability ADHD Asperger's Syndrome high functioning autism from link below "Although AS or NLD doesn't prevent it's sufferers from having a "normal" adult life, there's little information about the eventual outcome for most children with AS or NLD. Some NLD/AS adults have been able to achieve a level of personal and professional success in various jobs including teaching, writing, even sales. AS adults are often drawn to a career that relates to their own areas of special interest, and may become proficient. Thus childhood fascinations may form a basis for an adult career. With the right supports and accommodations, adults with AS / NLD can be successful, contributing citizens and employees. Some of the brightest individuals with AS or NLD represent a unique resource for society, having the single mindedness and consuming interest to advance our knowledge in many scientific disciplines. Many of these will never seek diagnosis; since their differences do not cause insurmountable problems at work or in relationships, they simply accept their idiosyncrasies. Gillberg estimates 30-50% of all Aspergers' go undiagnosed (Gillberg, 2002), and the same is probably true of NLDers'. Often, successful adults became aware of their condition only after having children similarly afflicted. In many cases, however, adults with NLD / AS have several college degrees, yet are unable to find or keep work that matches their strengths and abilities. The reason for this is the disparity between a high verbal and a relatively lower performance IQ score of NLDers and ASers. While verbal IQ is most indicative of academic achievement, performance IQ points to the ability to achieve success at work. Thus, though they attain high levels of education and skill, they may fail to hold down a job and earn a living. A high percent are either unemployed or underemployed. Just 12% of Asperger Adults are in full time employment, and only 3% live independently (Barnard et.al., 2001). There is no current data on the employment of individuals with NLD, but almost half of those I know with the disorder are unemployed, and many others underemployed. It's appalling that so many who are educated, articulate, skilled, honest and hard-working remain chronically unemployed. Because of their high degree of functionality and their naivet those with NLD / AS are often viewed as eccentric or odd. Subtle differences cause difficulty in social interactions and workplace relationships. For example, their inability to read nonverbal signals makes interpersonal communication a challenge. Their rigid style and peculiar perspective exacerbate the problems. Because the AS/NLD employee has trouble with eye contact, he can be perceived as inattentive, evasive, or rude. Difficulty with modulating volume and tone of voice can make him appear angry. Problems with understanding body language, social cues, or even facial expressions makes it hard to know what is expected and often leads to misunderstandings. Until he's verbally told, he may not be aware whether the boss is happy with his work or is disapproving. At that point, it is usually too late." Here is a link that might be useful: article by Yvonna Fast

Dear Hollygarden, My entire wardrobe, a stunning combination of sales rack, thrift store and homemade could probably be described as "amazing". Charitably so described. Like others here, I do very much appreciate the courtesy, helpfulness and friendliness of posters on this forum. Having said that, I do believe there are issues, such as RMV contamination of even recently released roses and marketing and business decisions made in the trade about which I am entitled to have and express an opinion. I think it is important to distinguish between private and public spheres. For example, it would be unforgivably rude of me to angrily criticise your planting choices in your own yard, but I might choose to criticise the company you, or a friend or relative of yours, works for. In particular, I don't appreciate continuing virus contamination in the American rose industry, and, no, I am not going to refrain from stating that opinion because of the possible hurt feelings of people who might work for the major rose vendors.

@ aliceinwonderlandWhile I am not privy to the thinking of the moderators on this site, I suspect the thread was deleted because it had degenerated into comments such as, "these people are weak minded individuals," and "Does your mommy know [you're] on her computer? Stick with Dora the Explorer[. It] seems more your speed," and "Bigger asses need bigger toilets."I agree that it's too bad people can't handle the truth. Those comments can only be offensive to those who see themselves that way, and nobody else. I mean, how can you not appreciate the simultaneous sarcasm, irony and stinging social satire in my "bigger asses need bigger toilets" comment? There is so much wrapped up in such a little statement, especially when taken in the context of the post it was in response to and the overall topic. But only if you look deeper.

Anything ya wanna know ... ... just ask ... ... around here. Usually someone will be able to provide the information. Isn't that a fine situation? ole joyful