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jennavanowsc

well she stopped by........

16 years ago

my 'friend'. I went to the door because DH had gone to the library for me. She did not have time to come in, got the gift, and I asked if anything was going on in her life. when she said No everything is great,why? I told her that I had been wondering why she had not called me. She said, I quote:

" I just don't have the energy to expend for another cancer victim. My life is going too good to get depressed".

(she lost her mother seven years ago to throat cancer). Well, first of all I DO NOT have cancer. The tissue sample they looked at during surgery was negative for cancer. So I am sure the tests I will find out about this Thursday at my 2 week check up will also be negative for cancer. AND even if I did have cancer, I would not be a VICTIM, I would only be a person, my same self, dealing with cancer.

So... I have been trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, our 35 year history and all, but enough said. I have other people that care and I do not need her negative vibes.

Thank you all for your support and encouragement. I am going to stop obsessing over this, and get on with my recovery. You all have a wonderful day!

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