SIGH....I guess you didn't understand my point. Let me try and explain it better. When kidneys don't work well, poison builds up in your system and these poisons affect your brain. Irritability can become an issue. Dealing with such an illness can also be really hard in many ways including lots of stress, anxiety, anger and depression. Sometimes anger can be displaced. I remember a lecture on emotions and kidney function I had as a student nurse around 45 years ago and the speaker left a real impression on me back then. I am not enabling, I am understanding a bit of what might be physiologically happening. I don't need a lecture on how to deal with terminal/chronically ill people. I have been on both sides of this knowing first hand what it is like, and I believe in telling people the truth. There are just kinder ways to do this. Sending someone a private email, instead of embarrassing someone in a public forum would have been the best way.

you mentioned? Is the title "Hemley"?

Here's wishing you much happiness on this great day, lady. Hope the year ahead lives up to your hopes and more. ole joyful

I was sitting in waiting room and she comes out and yells accross the room Hi Kim,I said I want to talk to you and went outside,I just said people are telling me youre discusing how bad I look,first its none of your business anything about me,we arent here for a beauty pagent were here because we need treatments,I said I better not hear anymore or Im calling my attorney,I said you got your nose in everybodys business in here,It needs to stop.I said Im done dont even look at me.Im not interested in anything you have to say,I said you want to see bad go look in the mirror,that could keep you busy for awhile.like a keebler elf on crack..I might have said too much but she tried to deny it saying she was just concerned.About 10 min later the woman came in told me what she said Friday