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Real Housewives of NY

15 years ago

Do any of you watch the Real Housewives of New Jersey? I got hooked on all the Housewives shows but this one is so annoying with all the arguing the the family.

What do you think?

Carol

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dotmom
15 years ago
I've recently started to watch the Jersey gang. I have to say I don't really like any of them. The New York gang have really turned me off. I used to like one or two, but every one ticks me off. Jill thinks she is some highfalutin celeb. The Countless (yes that is what she is) has herself on such a high pedestal and acts like she is above everyone. Kelly is just plain nuts. Sonja is too wrapped up in her so-called looks and really needs to grow up. Alex used to be one of my faves, but she too is nuts and nasty. The new one...I think Cindy, is too rude. I did watch the reunion shows, but they bicker so much, never take any responsibility for any of their words or actions, I don't think I;ll watch them again. I'll probably tune in to the Jersey ones to the end of this season. The Beverly Hill bunch starts on Sept 5th. I'll watch that, mainly to see how....dang, her name won't come to me....Kelsie's ex, will be acting this season. Yeah, I know, I need to get a life. LOL
Chi
15 years ago
I watch all of the Real Housewives shows except the Atlanta ones. I like the New Jersey one but I agree that the arguing is getting old. I really like Caroline. I think she's the sanest one.

I used to be on Teresa's side but she's losing my support. It seems like people are trying multiple times to smooth things out with her and she's still remaining stubborn and keeps doing the passive-aggressive insults and jabs no matter what people say. I'm not a big fan of Melissa but at least she's trying. Teresa seems to only want people to come grovel at her feet and beg for forgiveness instead of working things out like an adult. I can't stand people who won't admit when they are wrong. Ever.

I agree with dotmom about New York. I'm liking Jill a little more this season than last season, but Alex is becoming really annoying. She used to be the sane one but now she has taken this desire to be "heard" into obnoxiousness. I like Kelly a little more too but I can't stand Luann and Kelly. Cindy is ok. I don't blame her for her rudeness considering how people talk to her.

I like the Beverly Hills one the most. I'm excited for that one.

I don't know why these shows suck me in so badly. It's like a train wreck, lol.
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I have, much to my complete embarrassment, watched OC and NY. I think I like NY much better - OC has become a train wreck and I have to wonder if a lot of "acting" is now being done. I mean, who could be that completely AWFUL. Or, in Vicki's case, completely loud, crude and desperate for the worst kind attention? In Tamara's case, so completely cruel and really - she is not "the hot one" - the fact that she demands to be makes her a cruel and a rather pathetic aging woman who doesn't know when her arc of youth is well behind her. And, OMG, the kids of these people. I know some people from that area and everyone there doesn't spring from the orange tree as that grasping group of women, I promise you *LOL* NY women seem to be much more 'real' even if they, too, are a bunch of oddballs. But - who would watch if they didn't put on a show for the viewers? And, these women are willing to be on TV for the world to see, so they aren't going to be normal or average. Which, of course, is why we all watch. At least most of the "chest apparel" seems to be "nature provided" on this one - except for maybe Bethanny's - her clevage does seem to be a little false, but she is a really gorgeous girl who might be sporting a hard working push up bra - but if it's false, she did it right. Not too much for her frame. The "soul mate" couple, Alex and Simon .... are they for real? They make me feel icky after I've seen them in an episode. And yes, please spare the speedo, please. Double ick. Alex needs some color in her hair or face, it's all one color to me. This is not an attractive couple in any sense of the word. Jill seems to be the most "real" of the bunch to me, Bethanny the kindest. The Countess needs to get a life. A real one. I agree with Fran - how is the financial train wreck we are in as a nation going to play with these two shows? The excess of both shows will have to be addressed, the days of conspicious consumption are now behind us, eventually nobody will want to see that stuff, even on tv. How they cope will make it even better television, I believe.
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Wow...the Countess was dumped? Why am I not surprised? I have felt a little sorry for her this season. She seems very empty and void of anything real and meaningful. How long can you be happy with a life like she has. You need more than money and a title to make you happy. I did not think that Kelly was wrong to request that her name not be on the list as a co-chair at the charity meeting. But, she did not handle it well. At the same time, I thought Bethenny was way over the top in her reaction to Kelly voicing her concern. It was Bethenny who made a big deal out of it. And, what does it mean to 'come from a place of yes or no'? Give me a break. Just say what you want to say Bethenny, no need to talk in psycho code. So, Kelly asks Bethenny to meet her for a drink so she can set her straight on all manner of important things, but was 30 minutes late? That was just rude, crazy and more than a little self possessed. For the first time, the Bravo 'tease' that we have been seeing all week, was real. It was a real argument between two women who said real things, who meant what they said...no need for Bravo to edite a single word. It was great! Kelly might have thought that it was a good idea...she could just meet Bethenny for a drink, let her know exactly how she felt, get it all off of her chest, set her straight. But man...was she wrong! After being kept waiting for 30 minutes Bethenny was ready and pissed. It was Bethenny who came out looking way better, way smarter, way calmer and way more the victor. Kelly came off looking like she had just been run over by a truck. Kelly was in way over her head and, she knew it. Ramona...what a nut job. She is a walking advertisment for why adults with ADD need to stay on their meds. She was crazy last year and embaressed herself to the point that I was surprised that she came back for season two. I could never understand how a women that crazy could ever married a guy as great as Mario. But last night we saw that yes, Ramona is still crazy and SO IS MARIO. What a PIA he was. Jill should have walked away from him at that party. I was surprised to see Mario ack like such an a$$ but I was also surprised to see that Jill took it for as long as she did. What a party...a great time was had by all! I don't mind Alex & Simon. They may be way over the top when it comes to 'things' and 'status' but they are very up front about that, no surprise. They are perfect for each other. I also like that Simmon is both respectful and affectionate with his children. He may be a metrosexual but, that's OK. I like Jill. To me, she is the most normal of the group. She might be a trophy wife who likes to spend her husbands money but, they seem to care about each other and that's nice to see. She seems to be a good person who is enjoying her life. OK, now you can all see how I spent my Tuesday night...in front of the TV watching a dumb reality show. But, I also got some good exercise last night...I helped the UCONN Womens Basketball team defeat AZ State. Oh, yayagal...I think Bethenny was in the Apprentice, but it was the one season spin-off. It was the Martha Stewart Apprentice show and yes, she came in 2nd. I thought she should have won. sooey sho is starting to think that she watches too much dumb TV.
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I'm thrilled for Bethenny. I hope she finally gets the life she has been longing for. Jason seems like a decent guy. I'm glad she had closure with her dad. I am appalled at Jill's behavior this season. What the heck happened to her??? Alex hit the nail on the head by calling her "A mean girl from high school". I don't know why they brought in Sonja, she really doesn't add much to the show. I never thought I'd be saying this but Alex and Simon are the most normal of the bunch this season. New Jersey gals sure started out with a bang (no pun intended lol). Danielle is nuts. I feel so sorry for her daughters.
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I've always known Kelly is a nut job. Do you think she's on drugs, too??? She wants so badly to be one of the girls but she's not and she never will be. Why does a person keep on and on and on trying to get included when it's obvious you are not wanted? Like Danielle on RHWNJ? They both have severe mental issues. They are downright spooky. Don't even get me started on Luann... oh please don't. Oh that creepy, slimy date of hers.... please do not subject us to Luann's love life. Barf! Jill, I don't know. She seems to be busy with other things besides the show and then her DH had cancer... maybe that's the reason. I've liked Alex this year but would somebody please feed that girl a Twinkie? Chicken and dumplings would do her a world of good. LOL Ramona has actually been sane this year. Way to go Ramona! And you know how to throw one heck of a party! Love Bethenny as always. She's just been so fragile this season. Oh well, it's only a tv show, right? LOL
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matti5
15 years ago
I watch them all! Every season I go back and forth as to which is my favorite. My favorite housewife continues to be Caroline. I like that she doesn't take sides and doesn't put up with BS.

I am tired of the family feud on NJ. Teresa has become a witch this season. Her put downs towards Joe, Melissa and Kathy are disgraceful. Not totally sure what Kathy ever did to Teresa. I feel sorry for the kids who just want to be close with their cousins. I can't believe I am saying this, but there are times I wish Danielle was back, so we could see something other than the Teresa and Melissa saga.

I had mixed feelings about NY this season. I was hoping Jill would go back to the Jill I loved from Season 1. I miss her! The countless was down right nasty this season, I have nothing good to say about her. I think the Camel in Morocco kept throwing her off for a reason lol. I like Ramona, without her there would be no show. Alex finally got her voice this season, but used it at the wrong times. Simon is still creepy. Cindy added nothing to the show, I think she is boring and hope she does not return. Kelly continues to reside on Planet Kelly. Sonja was an emotional wreck this season. I hope she finds her panties.

I am looking forward to HWBH. I really enjoy Lisa and her hubby.
User
15 years ago
Teresa is getting to be a real downer...she is soooo unforgiving...I mean like please forgive your cousin, will you? and I really like Kathy. And please play nice with your sister in law. I think she is basically a jealous type person that Teresa..... Yes, Caroline is my favorite. I Do not watch the Atlanta housewives either. I do watch the Miami housewives but may not next year...soo many housewives. I have to give up some of these housewives LOL. Gotta getta a life of my own. LOL
maggie200
15 years ago
to tell you the truth there some of those shows where they all look alike. HEBH is one of them. Blonds hair, very expensive clothes - not a shorts and tee kind of crowd. Over the top and nouveu
riche, if I spelled that right. Kellsy Grammer's wife has 4 nanies along with other help. Was she raised like that. Lazy wif and mother. You are right thistleew, Caroline is the most favorite because she is natural and real. What is this all about having someone come and do your makeup?
brightonborn
15 years ago
Theresa is a first class pain in the butt this season..she is the reason I don't like watching the show anymore. It is not entertainment, now it is torture.

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