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Comments (23)Tomorrow you crack me up! I try to be honest if I don't like something but try to put it gently. "I totally do not like ___ but it does look nice how you did it." Sometimes I totally disagree with the comments and wonder if everyone smoked a little something while looking at the pics. But then I wonder if I am missing something myself and not seeing what everyone else sees. I think when someone is really wanting an opinion we should give it. Johnmari- you crack me up too, but I agree with you too. Sometimes I see a post like you mention. I have had it happen to me too. Not to call anyone on anything but, I needed help with furniture placement in livingroom last year- actually still need help with that. I mentioned nothing in room was staying at all. There is a picture on wall that was simply put there to get it off floor and nail is already there so we used it. I think a few commented on the picture not being in right place on wall and I think there was a question about the sofa that was there too. I just had to laugh and know that no harm was intended and it is really easy to not read the post carefully. That is why I try to see what poster is asking before I comment. I just saw my parents new retirement modular home. It was built in 1988 and wallpaper is in many rooms. The kitchen area has this beige paper with "stripes" of fruit and ribbon going downwards. Some "stripes" are wider than others. It is actually quite nice enough to live with until mom finds what she likes. But she hates it. The masterbed has a floral paper that although it is floral it is not too old ladyish or 80's. They bought a really nice bedroom set and again, looks fine until she changes it. Mom and Dad actually like it. I agreed. Then comes the master bath. Oh my! I swear it reminds me of the Carnation Icecream shop at disneyland for some reason. The cabinets, tub and toilet are light creme and look nice. There is carving on cabinet doors with pink painted inside. The wallpaper is pink stripes. Within some stripes are various pink flowers. It might be somewhat foiled paper. The main pink is standard carnation pink. I think what makes me think of Dland is that I can imagine white iron chairs with that heart shape on them being in the room. It is almost super victorian creepy. My dd and I both immediatly told dad that he lost his mancard the moment he said he liked it. They both actually like it and don't want to change it. I think they need intervention, seriously. We all laughed but dd and I spared them not. We were totally honest with them and at least Mom and Dad laughed with us. I seriously want to sneak in when they are not home. I think I have another reason to survive cancer. I need to survive to change that paper....See MoreTell Me The Truth - Am I Crazy?
Comments (25)Newhomebuilder Thanks! Why don't you try it on a small window? Or get some cling vinyl and try your hand at that? If you like what you make you can stick it up and build the rest of the window around it. I have a cling stuck to my sliding glass door -- keeps folks from trying to walk through the glass. Patricia43 Thank you! Did you have to have the entire piece of glass removed? I've read that in time the color can migrate into the glass as glass is really a liquid, but I don't know. We're supposed to be able to just scrape these off if we change our minds and hopefully they wouldn't leave a trace behind. To me being "artsy" has always been a matter of wanting precisely what I want and it doesn't exist and I can't afford to hire it done. So I figure out how to make it myself. Necessity is the mother of invention, or maybe poverty is - haha. Jenn I'm glad you answered. I've book marked your site for future ideas as your home is so lovely. Thanks for your kind words! Why don't you try playing with the Gallery Glass? I'm glad you said go ahead on the antiques in my tract home. I did in my last house. I think it was a surprise when people came in the front door as it didn't look like the outside of the house. I don't know why I feel more awkward with it in this house. So much of my furniture for the other house was bought for it and doesn't seem to fit here. But I guess I'm going for it anyway. I wish I could make my big bulky bedroom furniture disappear and start over but I'm not quite sure how to accomplish that. Cactuscatie Oh, I'm delighted that you're feeling inspired now! That's great and I hope you'll start a new thread one of these days soon and give us some pictures. I'd really like to see what you're working with. If you like my window, you can just grab a piece of glass from a picture frame from a thrift shop and start practicing. You may find you're a lot more crafty than you thought and it feels good to say "I did that!" You have SO many windows to do I don't envy you, but I'd love to see what you end up doing. I think if you post pics folks can post pics back to give you more ideas that are geared to your individual decor and colors, too. As far as heavy curtains in Victorian homes, yes in cooler climates they used the heavier ones in winter, but they had just lace and lighter treatments for the hot summer days... so you can go either way you want and still be right in step with the period. Those big heavy treatments weren't for year 'round....See MoreTell me the truth about your white painted cabinets
Comments (17)brightshinynew - I will be getting painted MDF doors. Not Thermofoil. From the research I've done, Thermofoil is not a product I'm interested in at all for reasons of durability. A painted MDF door will be exactly as durable as a painted wood door (but without the paint cracking/movement issue) - which is to say that it boils down to the quality of the finishing process (but that's a whole other topic!) I want to point out that a lot of people on the web who give advice (I don't just mean here, but everywhere) do not know the difference between MDF vs. particleboard vs. melamine vs. laminate vs Thermofoil. They just hear these terms and lump them all together in the "not real wood" category. When you hear horror stories about MDF, people are actually talking about particleboard. Stories about cabinets "disintegrating" are referring to cheap particle board cabinets that had some sort of laminate surface which became compromised and then the material starting falling apart. This is not MDF. MDF is used by many of the top end European cabinet lines. For example, Siematic is a German line whose cabinets cost more than some people's entire homes and their painted cabinets are all MDF. I would guess that the reason cabinet makers are telling you different stories is to steer you towards whatever they are used to dealing with. If a cabinet shop doesn't offer MDF for painted finish (a red flag in itself for me) then they will try to scare you away from it. You are right to post your questions here. That's what this board is for....See MoreTell me this fabric looks okay with wall and carpet.
Comments (27)Just for clarification on monitor colors: there is absolutely no reddish/purple tone in the lighter fabric. I wasn't in love with it because it was such a dead-looking gray-brown. I would have preferred something slightly darker but didn't think there was anything else suitable (the 3-4 ladies who worked with me always chose the fabrics themselves--yesterday was the first time they were all busy and I got to look on my own). The other is more pure "doeskin" as we called it when I was young. It's the color I had been looking for and the huge bonus was that it's a performance fabric that can be cleaned easily. And for those talking about the teal tones in the rug: there is absolutely NO teal in that rug. Anything that looks teal to you is blue. That's why we're getting blue pillows and will eventually get a large blue cocktail ottoman. Perhaps my mistake was putting in your heads what the woman said about there being purple tones in that sample. I should have just asked which you liked of the two. That particular woman seems to be more on the business end than the designer end. She usually stays up at the desk unless there are too many customers. In fact when I tried to ask her why designers say you shouldn't have sofas right up against walls, she got really annoyed and said, "I don't care what designers say! I don't do any of that!" When her mother took over, she didn't say a word about there being any problem with my new choice of fabric. (And the mother really knows color and designs that work: she started me out with very bold designs that I chickened out on.) I only took the samples home to try because her daughter had made me anxious....See Morecat_mom
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