Dear GW Family,
I suppose this very, very long statement is also long overdue. As some of you know, quite contrary to popular preferences around here, I am not a fan of M. Teixera. In fact for some time now, and typically only in response to threads which solicit specific opinions about the soapstone business, I have limited my negative remarks about the company to saying that I had a bad experience with them at the quote stage and that I don't recommend them. Sometimes I have also suggested alternate soapstone suppliers. My main reason for avoiding the specifics of my dislike goes largely to the fact that my complaints are founded in the very subjective area of customer relations and don't go to post-contract performance issues such as a bungled delivery or a poor installation. IMO, such customer relations complaints -- although totally valid -- are also very subjective. They fall within the realm of individual customer experience and, as such, are very tough to "argue." Nevertheless, as a single, mature female who has had to struggle and learn her way through some rather mind-blowing challenges of a major kitchen remodel, I am compelled to tell you that the remarkably horrible experience I had with Roger Teixiera is one I would hope no one else in the GW family would ever have to suffer.
Now, Roger Teixiera also knows that he holds the upper hand in shaping the opinion of his company on these boards. For all intents and purposes, his company has maintained a monopoly status in the soapstone world. Although that status is slowly changing as more and more consumers become familiar with the product and more supplier/fabricators become adept at dealing and offering it, M. Teix, still holds the fort (at least in GW territory) as the soapstone industry "standard bearer." In line with that, it's not surprising that a majority of you who've purchased and installed soapstone over the past several years have done so through M. Texiera. Fortunately for most of you it seems, you've been very happy with that decision and you voice your approval frequently and vigorously. I don't deny you that. (I'll even admit to being a bit jealous at times when I see your gorgeous stones because the Good Lord knows I would have given my eye teeth to share in your company on that one!) However, not every person who has walked through the doors of M. Teixiera has also walked out as a happy customer. And, although most who have left unsatisfied have become intimidated against speaking up to say as much on this forum, I refuse to succumb to Roger Teixiera's relentless dishonest posturing and arrogant bullying in an internet arena which clearly favors him. I note, btw, that Roger Texiera is the only business owner who consistently comes onto these consumer-oriented boards to take low blows at posters who offer critical remarks. Seriously. I can think of no other business that behaves in this manner on this board. However, since Roger appears insistent on smothering my right to simply state publicly that I don't recommend his company and to share selectively with a few of you offline as to the details behind my disapproval, I guess he has finally goaded me into taking the gloves off! So here's my story:
Way back in 2007, I began following the GW Kitchen Forum in anticipation of my own kitchen remodel. Among so many amazing choices I would come to make, one of them involved switching over from granite to soapstone as my countertop material. And, of course, after reading many Kitchen Forum threads on the subject, I learned that the #1 supplier/fabricator of that product in the NYC metro area at the time was M. Teixiera.
I can't tell you how excited I was the day I went over to M. Teixera! Michelle Brinksma had been the absolute doll in setting up my visit to the stoneyard and she was a pleasure to deal with when I arrived. Further, Leo pulled slabs, watered slabs and helped me through my viewing and selection process with enthusiasm and professional demeanor. In fact, every member of the M. Teixiera operation I met that day did a fine job with which I have no complaints. By the end of the visit, a Belvedere slab was put on hold for me and I was overjoyed in reaching this significant decision point in my kitchen remodel process. Then the bottom fell out.
In all, I have archived 12 emails that comprise the history of my "relationship" with M.Teix, most of which deal with very basic matters. They primarily deal me with asking questions such as: What are your hours? Who will fabricate? How do you price, etc.? However, after I visited and chose the slab, and was given both a quote and a draft contract, my questions became more specific. It was at this point that Roger Teixiera entered this picture -- it seems, for the sole purpose of unilaterally severing the dialogue and withdrawing the contract offer. I note that he never spoke to me directly and instead handled rejection of my business all by way of email. Why my business was rejected, I still really don't understand to this day. Perhaps it was because my job was very small --meeting only the minimum standard for M. Teixiera's fabrication policy. Perhaps, it was that my job was not financially attractive in combination with my having asked just one question too many, thus tipping off in Roger Teixiera's mind that I was a "problem" customer -- i.e., a nervous, older, single woman dealing with a big contracting job, and overly fearful of getting blindsided by unscrupulous vendors and tradespeople. Whatever. This much I can tell you though -- it was game over for me as a potential M. Teixiera customer only after I asked these pretty basic consumer questions:
Q. Can you please provide me with references?
A. No. We don't provide references. You can come to our showroom and look at a book of customer letters/comments that we keep on file.
Q. Would you be willing to waive the 2% surcharge that you impose on those who choose to pay by credit card?
A. This was never answered as the quote and contract was withdrawn after I asked it.
Q. Your contract says a lot about what you won't accept liability for. What happens in the event your representatives cause damage to my home, property, etc. during the course of installation. Will you acknowledge liability in that event?
A. This question was not answered as the quote and contract was withdrawn after I asked it.
On top of all this, I noticed what appeared to be major discrepancies in M. Teixera's stone pricing system. The contract quote I was given did not seem to match with the pricing rate sheet I had also been given. When I asked for an explanation of the pricing differences, I received an explanation that I still don't understand to this day.Even so, I was still prepared to go forward with M. Teixera!
That is, until Michelle Brinksma phoned me with back with Roger Teixiera's responses to my questions. In short, Michelle informed me that M. Teixiera would not do business with me because I was already a customer of another fabricator. This change of heart made no sense to me since the same factors that existed at the time M.Teixiera provided me with a quote and a contract offer were the same factors that were existent at the point they refused my business. IOW, Roger Teixiera insisted on rejecting my business on the basis that I was a customer of another fabricator. Yet I was NOT a customer of another fabricator! In truth and in fact, no such business deal with another fabricator existed at the time I was attempting to negotiate my deal with Teixiera. Still, Roger Teixiera refused this truth. Why? Because apparently it worked against his own business decision to withdraw his quote and contract offer to me.
In the end, M. Teixiera offered me the option of dealing with them only through a fabricator -- not direct. But, even that option failed! The original NJ-based fabricator I had casually mentioned to M. Teix suddenly and mysteriously decided they could not do my job either! Then, after spending weeks of looking for fabrication companies in NYC, I finally located two different firms willing to take on the project. However, both ended up reporting back to me that they thought M. Teixiera's delivery charges to "excessive" and contracting demands too "difficult." For my small job (possibly another factor which may have led to M. Teixera's rejection of my direct business), it just wasn't worth it to either of these fabricators to have to deal with M. Teixiera on my behalf. After all this, I then went back to M. Teixiera, desperately pleading my case. I explained that they were the only game in town and they had the only soapstone I wanted. I went further -- practically on my knees at this point -- offering to accept all their terms - no asking for customer references; agreeing to the 2% credit charge usage charges; accepting vague contractual language re liability; swallowing the contradictory pricing scheme, etc . IOW, I practically begged King Roger Teixiera for the opportunity to be an M. Teix customer because, at that point, I did not know of any other major supplier of soapstone in the area. Yet, Roger Teixiera made it clear he just didn't want my business. Thus, he adamantly refused my pleas, basing it on a concocted, totally false business defense that I was allegedly the customer of another fabricator. This personal rejection based on a lie hurt deeply. It also caused me some major shifts and turnarounds in searching for a competent supplier/fabricator in the NYC metro area to give me my soapstone countertops. Thank God, I finally landed upon Jay Tauber and Garden State Soapstone! (Another GW recommendation). Bottom line is that the difference between the two companies is night and day. Garden State was the paragon of customer care and professionalism and I am now the happy owner of Green Mountain Original soapstone countertops in my kitchen. But that changes nothing of my impression of Roger Teixiera and the way he treated me. It is for that reason, that whenever asked, I will always say I had a horrible experience with M. Teixiera and, solely on the basis of customer relations, I cannot recommend that company to anyone.
In closing, I also wish to make it clear that it is not my "goal" to hurt M.Teixiera and I refuse to be pushed into defending myself against such a straw man argument. Rather, my "goal" as a consumer, in a consumer-oriented internet community, is to admit that my customer experience with a GW "business "favorite was not so good and to provide referrals to alternative, respected vendors in that same business. Further, I believe that, I not only have the right to speak up about my consumer complaints on this forum if I care to, but also, I have the right to choose how, where and when I wish to do it within the confines of IVillage rules and GW family decorum. Up to now, I had chosen to share these details privately. And, although I feel I have been bullied into a public sharing of this very personal, unpleasant business experience with Roger Teixiera, I also realize that my continued silence as to the facts has only given over more power to an already empowered adversary who relies upon a debate strategy of repeatedly questioning my character and motives among the GW family.
I protest.
antiquesilver
mom2lilenj
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