At my wit's end over dog hair on the sofa
pammyfay
13 years ago
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at my wits end (cat problem)
Comments (39)While you have LOTS of suggestions here, there is one that I haven't seen yet. Cats tend to find the smell of pine (evergreens in general) unpleasant. Not all cats are offended by it, which is why many climb christmas trees and others use pine based litters, but it is something to try. I'm assuming that if the same plant gets knocked over again and again this pot must be on a preferred path to someplace. Have you tried making the destination windowsill, squishy place to sleep, interesting smells, snacks) unattractive? What about moving the pot? As for climbing, cats prefer high places. They do not limit themselves to a horizontal plane like humans and dogs tend to do. The higher the better in most cats' opinions. You might try adding appropriate vantage points in your home so your cat doesn't see the ficus as the best view. Even a couple empty or sparsly decorated shelves might work, as long as kitty has clear access and space to make himself comfortable. You might try planting a patch of catnip for your cat to enjoy as an alternative to playing in your other plants. In my experience, cats can obsess over a pot of catnip, so you might only put it within access at night or when you're out of the house (whenever plant terrorism is most prevalent). Else, be prepared for continual feline attention on the catnip and have more pots growing in reserve. (Your cat may not develop the addictive tendencies mine showed, but it's a risk!) I assume since you said kitty does not dig in either pot, just knocks it over or climbs, that he is not using your plants as a litterbox? If he is pottying there, keep the appropriate litterbox absolutely spotless for a few weeks. Maybe even add another box or two as an enticement. Cats like to keep clean, and the litterbox is no exception. If it's too dirty for their taste they will go elsewhere. It may be that some cats prefer plant pots because we clean up after them as soon as we know it's there! Try placing attractive smells elsewhere. I've had luck in the past with pineapple juice. Just make sure it's something your cat finds wonderful, and that it's placed on something you do not mind your cat rubbing against or clawing. I strongly suggest you do not use the scent of other cats (or any animal), as it may encourage your cat to mark territory by spraying, urinating or defecating. Like someone mentioned earlier, wear your cat out! Lots of playtime, lots of human snuggle time... whatever your cat will agree to engage in. Lexie PS-I'm a fourth year animal behavior student; all of these ideas are adapted from a behavior course I had recently. Here is a link that might be useful: Humane Society of the United States Feline Behavior Modification Suggestions...See MoreI'm at my wits end!
Comments (17)Chelsea and I stayed up all night. I put a pillow on the floor beside her bed at 5 am and lay down. She finally went to sleep. It took me an hour to get up. Old women have no business lying on the floor. She got me up at 8, so we'll see how the day goes. Poor little baby, being put to sleep and having surgery twice in 2 weeks is enough to put a human down, one can only imagine what it would do to a little elderly dog....See Moreat my wit's end - please help me pick a tv
Comments (15)I have an interesting take on this subject as my husband and I did alot of research and just bought an sony wega lcd (widescreen and HD ready) We DO NOT have cable or satalite. Now most people think that we would be crazy to get a HD tv without the cable and just use air however the Air channels come in BETTER! we are even using the same stupid bunny ears for reception that we used on our old tv. Not only that we were so surprised that we can get 18 channels now, compared to the five we had before. WXXI has about 3 HD air channels and we get a local weather channel!!! My husband loves it. The HD air broadcasts are much better looking on the tv than the non-hd. Our tv doesn't stretch the images though however I understand that not all tv's have the same scaling so it is important to research this first. Our DVD's look awesome too and the sound it much better than our old tv. Although it was expensive I am really enjoying it. We saved up for a while and did alot of research first and I feel we made a really good choice. I was really impressed with the new plasma and lcd technology. We chose lcd because it has a much lower power consumption than plasma and is not prone to burn in like plasma (although this isn't so much a problem anymore) The sony has a usb port (awesome!!!!) so I can hook my camara up to it and view videos and pics. Also you can hook a computer up to it and use it as a computer screen. This is great for my husband who likes to work on it. Our previous tv was 26 inches and now we have a 40 inch widescreen. It is a big jump however and although i was worried about the channels coming in poorly they come in much better and look better! We really only use our tv for DVD's (hence us deciding on this specific tv). We stopped going to the movies long ago because they play commercials (which make us SO mad). We decided we would save our money and then buy a nice tv so we can enjoy our movies at home commerical free! I think the most important thing to do is think about what your tv will be used for most often and then do research to figure out what kind of tv will be good for you. If you are playing video games alot then you really need a tv that is different than if you are watching dvd's only. -renee...See MoreAt a wits end with my stepdaughter
Comments (14)--"My husband, her SD, feels that she should do without. If she cant make enough for those things she does without. He feels she should learn to budget her money well enough to bascially support herself and not ask us for money"-- I tend to totally agree with your husband in the general sense. No one should be enabling their children to live beyond their means and/or taking advantage of the 'Mommy/Daddy will bail me out' thing. I've spent years, as I'll assume most other parents do, raising my children and preparing them to be able to be responsible productive adults when the day came. But with that said, I could 'go' either way on this particular thread. Is the daughter blowing money and a budgeting adjustment on her part would make a big difference? Does she think she can just spent and spend and no problem as when she runs out someone will just hand her more? If so and tossing in her disrespect and attitude of excusing her ill behavior 'It is not MY fault' blah blah, nope, she'd not get a penny out of me. On the other hand, the young adult works for peanuts at Walmart, she goes to school fulltime and she perhaps does not have the ability to get a second job to supplement her income. Would depend on her varying schedule ability at her current job and classes available at different times. If she really is very thrifty with her money, assuring she does things like lunch bag toting and no joy riding, no fancy unnecessary 'junk' (fancy phones, latest fashions, entertainment with the buddies inwhich the money should be going into the gas tank to go to work/school blah blah)and she still can not make ends meet, I'd likely give her gas money for school/work, fix her flat tire and all those mundane boring but necessary expenses...but only when it was absolutely necessary. If I thought she would have to quit school/job because she could not fill her gas tank to get there, yeah, I'd help out. The goal behind the going to school/working I'll assume currently is to better her options for improving her abilities to earn a higher living and really become self sufficient very shortly. I'd give her a bit of credit for that and realize it is short term and soon she'll be out on her own and fully supporting herself. If I didn't think that, no, I'm back to not helping her occassionaly. I might even occasionally give her a 'treat' of a bit of spending money to have an evening out with a friend (movie pizza type thing) because I would not want her to totally burn out at her age and decide she wanted to do something stupid like quit work and/or school. It would depend on how well she were doing, her attitude towards the household ect. In other words, if I could see she really was trying very hard to both budget and behave I'd likely treat her to a small shopping trip at my expense and/or stick a bit of cash in her purse for a 'fun' night. But it would not be routine and it would cease immediatedly if she 'expected' it as her due and/or was being a pain in the *ss. Again, I think your daughter's money situation she be something you and husband sit down and discuss. No, she can't have money if she is blowing it and not budgeting her income in a careful manner. But is it 'wrong' to help her out a bit when really necessary? That's something only you and husband will have to discuss and come to a mutual agreement on. If she really is mismanaging money and has an entitlement 'bail me out, Mom' line of thinking and you're falling for it , my personal opinion is SD is right. Knock off supplementing her or you'll still have a little girl living with you in five years....See Moreannzgw
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