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I'm new... please help

18 years ago

Hello,

I have just joined this forum, though I should have long ago. I am dating a dad. My last boyfriend was also a dad.

My new guy, C, and I have been friends for over a year. I moved to a new country, and he lives in the neighborhood. He's been a good friend and has really been there for me the last year. He is divorced 2 years with a 4 year old daughter. He still works with his ex-wife, which is frustrating for him and for his own benefit, he plans to end the partnership in the coming months.

My question is related to his daughter. She is a lovely girl and I have gotten to know her, as C's friend, over the past year. We've had holiday meals at each other's houses and I've babysat for her on numerous occasions. Once, C was in a bind and he dropped her off at my office and we spent the morning coloring together.

In time, C and I have fallen for each other and have recently decided to start dating. I am not really sure how to relate to his daughter at this point. Can I hold his hand in front of her? Should I be hiding my affection from her? Can anyone help?

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