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favorite BM story

18 years ago

It was maybe the first time I'd met DH's DDs. They were angry with him for shipping them back to their mother a few years earlier. It was after DH's second divorce. He was going through a nervous breakdown and couldn't properly take care of himself let alone his DDs.

The girls were adults/nearly adults when I met them. They screamed and swore at DH and vented their rage. Then I went on a long walk with the oldest and had a heart to heart. She was extremely angry at her mother too for forcing exotic dancing and drug addiction on her. She wanted me as her only mother. I informed her I can be her friend, her mother figure, her father's wife, sister, auntie, but she has only one mother. She could be mad at her, even hate her but she has only one mother and some day she would be grateful for her. And no matter how lousy a mother was, mother always loves her kids. I told her the same words about her dad, my DH. Eventually both girls came around and had great relationships with their dad. And with me.

What's your favorite step or bio story?

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