Between my DH family & mine, we probably have more divorces and re-marriages than the average blended family...but this takes the cake.
DH father is married to 4th wife ("MIL4"). She is the type who likes to keep things stirred up. I've never figured out how she really feels about me...and it doesn't matter. Last year, we SD was talking alot about wanting to move here, MIL4 was shocked. She said to me (to ME!), "OMG, why on EARTH would she want to do that?". Stunned for just a minute, I replied "Well, she love us, misses her dad and siblings, and wants to go to high school with her best friends, for starter". I was just flabbergasted that she would let that statement out of her mouth. She responded with "Well, I don't know what her mother did to deserve this. I would have been devastated had my girls gone to live with their dad". I reminded her that her girls really never knew their dad, so I think in that situation she would have had every right to be devastated.
Anyway, you get the picture. So, for the past year or so, my FIL and his dear wife, have been travelling to spend time with DH's ex-wife and her current husband, and their parents. Never have they come to visit the rest of their grandchildren here. And when we were in FL in April, 1 hour away from them, they couldn't find time for us...which was really ok by me, but it's just the idea.
Funny thing here is, MIL4 wasn't married to FIL when DH and ex-wife were married. So, she's never been MIL to ex-wife. I think she's just the kind of woman who isn't happy unless she's got some drama stirred up.
So, FIL cornered DH as SS's graduation dinner to give him sh!t about SD wanting to come live here and the fact that DH is pursuing it. Just effing amazing, the balls some people have. DH told him that he was entitled to whatever opinion he had, but to share that with SD would be completely inappropriate. I would have told him to (rhymes with duck) off, but DH is a MUCH better human than I.
So, girls....how would you handle this one?
kkny
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