I Locked My Husband Out of The House and Other Stuff

13 years ago

I locked my husband out of the house last night. He never locks the door when he comes in. He had come home and sometime later I got up and locked the front door. Well it was after 8, I hear this rattling and noise at the front door, not knocking to come in, and I go and there he is. I asked him what are you doing. He says I'm trying to get into the house. I said what are you doing out there? I have have been weed eating says he! That stupid grass tickler he has doesn't make much noise at all so how was I to know he was out there playing with it.

I couldn't fall asleep last evening so I spend some time on the computer,.Around 10:30 I thought I should take Izzi out and go to bed. About that time Mr. You Know Who comes ranting out of his room. Apparently he has lost his cell phone out while playing with his grass tickler. He says I can't look for it until tomorrow, I'll never find it. I told him I will go get my cell phone and call it and you can find it. Oh, I guess that would work! Duh! So he gets his flash light and out we go. After about trying to call it 3 times we hear it and he finds it. Happy ending. I am glad we did go out last night instead of this morning as it sprinkled some overnight here.

Sue

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petaloid
13 years ago
The lock out was an innocent mistake. Your idea to call his cell phone to find it was a good one -- we've had to do that before.

I hope today is hassle-free for the two of you!
OklaMoni
13 years ago
My husband always locks me out. He comes out, tells me hi, after he gets home from work, and then, when I try to come in, I am locked out. I don't mess around in the yard anymore without having a key along. ;)

Moni
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cynic
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A friend of mine lost his cell while he was mowing and tried calling it from the cordless phone. Forgot that he had it set on vibrate only! But he was lucky he happened to see the grass move a bit and was more concerned about rodents than realizing his phone was on vibrate so he went to investigate and there was his phone, dancing in the grass.
Jasdip
13 years ago
LOL @ "grass-tickler" Sue!!!

It's a habit to automatically lock the door soon as we come in, nowadays.

It's a GOOD habit to lock the doors when you're outside. More burglaries are happening in broad daylight with the people in backyards leaving the front door or garage unlocked.
Marilyn Sue McClintock
Original Author
13 years ago
Jasdip, that is about all that thing is, is a grass tickler. He saw the infomercial and had to get it I guess. It is a grass trimmer, not a weed eater. We have more weeds than grass living with trees and lots of yard. It came with two batteries and it doesn't last long with as much as a person needs to do around here with the weeds. He never locks the doors, even if no one else is home and he leaves! So I always have to lock it before going to bed. Never a dull moment!

Sue
jannie
13 years ago
I once lost my cellphone when I was outdoors weeding. I looked and looked but couldn't find it because the grass was so tall. ouldn't you know the landscapers came the next day to cut our grassa ? I found it after they had left, totally mangled by the mowers. And I did NOT have any insurance on it.
marlingardener
13 years ago
Marilyn Sue,
You certainly lead an interesting life. Are you from Texas, by any chance? The only folks I know that have such experiences are Texans. Want to know about the 'possum that visited our house on New Year's Day?
kathi_mdgd
13 years ago
I've locked DH out several times,his fault though!! Hahahaha I always lock the door when i go in and out and so does my 10 yr old gs who comes here everyday b4 school and after.Now DH is another story,he not only leaves the door unlocked,he'll leave the garage door 1/2 way open.When i go out to work in the yard i always have an extra key in my pocket,and the cell phone with me,and make sure the gate to the backyard is also closed.
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Marilyn Sue McClintock
Original Author
13 years ago
Marlingardener, no I am not from Texas. However, my husband has been threatening to run away to either California or Texas. He has been threatening to do this for 45 years or so. He never keeps his promises!

Sue
susanjf_gw
13 years ago
he wouldn't like ca after having the clean air of the mid-west...

dh lost his phone this past winter..i called his several times and nothing...finally was shoveling off the walkway and bingo! there it was! the battery had fallen out...the snow did ruin it, though...
Marilyn Sue McClintock
Original Author
13 years ago
Marlingardener I would love to hear about the possum that visited your home on New Year's Day. I have had a duck come down the chimney and a squirrel come in the dryer vent into the dryer.

Sue
vicki_lv_nv
13 years ago
Dh left his cell phone in the back yard on a lawn chair and our Pit Bull Sara thought it was a chew toy. He has also forgotten to zip up his bag on his snowmobile and lost, then run over his iPhone AND our sons iPhone! Not to mention the truck keys. And they were a few hours from home.
Sally Brownlee
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on our first date, I locked my ex DH's keys in his car. He asked me to put them in my purse, I tossed my purse back in the car at the last second....a couple hours later in the pouring rain, I realize my error...
marlingardener
13 years ago
Okay Marilyn, this is the 'possum story. On New Year's morning, about 1 am, we woke up cold. My husband got up to see why, and the back door had blown open (in Texas even locked doors can blow open with our gentle breezes). He shut it and was heading back to bed when he glimpsed movement toward the study. Thinking it was the cat, he kept going to the bed, where our cat was sleeping on the quilt (a watchcat, she isn't). He checked, and there was a full grown possum wandering around the study (looking for something to read?). He started shooing the possum back to the door (shut) and trying to get the door open and the possum convinced to leave. He finally set up a slalom course with chairs to guide the possum out. When he came back to bed, I asked him what happened and he told me. Half asleep, I replied, "Well, thank heavens it wasn't a skunk." He couldn't get back to sleep for quite a while.
Your husband would love Texas!
liz
13 years ago
LOL Sue...I've locked my DH out on occasion...and he's done the same to me...I guess we should hide a key outside...

good save on the phone!
trinitytx
13 years ago
I have locked a husband or two out in my time.
Never on accident though.

Trin

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