Dealing with interfering neighbor during home sale...
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Need some ideas for the yard to deal with the neighbor
Comments (60)Hey Greg, I have been meaning to send you an email..but things here are so crazy..havent been posting much, but hope to get some pics of the yard for you all to see... Hopefully i'll get some time to do this soon.. As far as this June or July ...getting free time is going to be limited...My daughter is going to have Open Heart Surgery in two weeks..so im quite nervous and busy getting thing ready for the event... I wasnt going to post..but she has already posted it all over face book.... I guess things are not the way we used to handle these delicate matters...She is only 25 yrs oldd and needs to have her Aortic Valve replaced. Needless to say all of my time will be devoted to her in the next few weeks... I hope everyone is enjoying there summer... As far as the neighbor...he is so worried about trying to get his grass started...he mows it when its wet..then it burns up..then the whole process starts over again..lol So ill just continue to spray and keep the ivy back on his side..he will never do anything about it.. Take care.. Laura in VB...See MoreNeighbor does not want to deal with encroachment
Comments (24)I agree with fredwolf. The guy with the encroaching buildings needs to be forced into agreeing to some sort of arrangement. Since he's so far done nothing despite more than reasonable offers, stronger actions are called for. I live in Baltimore, MD and ironically have the reverse situation. My north fence (at least 50 feet) is in my neighbor's yard--just 2 feet, but the yards here are only 32 feet wide. I wasn't told this when I bought the house, and normally a full-fledged survey isn't done here. I found out because my neighbor mentioned it. I measured, found the discrepancy (and the boundary marker), and promptly offered to share equally the cost of moving the fence to avoid any future problems. She refused. I do know that it isn't my responsibility to move the fence--in Baltimore, it's hers. And I don't want to spend a lot of money just for her benefit, since she has known about this situation for years and could have talked with the previous owner (I've only had the house 18 months). However, I'm concerned that she might sell the house and that the new owner would take down the fence, pull up my shrubs, and build something hideous. My question: given that the fence has been there for around 9 years now, and she has known about it and done nothing all that time, is that land mine? How would I research this question? Could I formally assume title to this strip of land, which I care for? Thanks! I'm glad I found this discussion....See MoreUPDATE: Interfering neighbor situation.
Comments (5)Glad XP has stepped up to the plate to help with this "issue". "The short version of this is that Nosy started discussing our finances with a potential buyer." Yikes! "In Nosy's voicemail to XP, she admitted to telling this man that we "really, really needed the house sold soon," and that we would probably be willing to agree to a lease-purchase on 20% of the house value (he could only get financed for 80%, I guess)." I would save this voicemail (and any others) for evidence. Just in case Nosey forgets her promise to stop interfering with the sale of your house. I hope things go more smoothly and that your house sells before April....See MoreNeighbor's tree roots interfering with mother's property
Comments (33)+1 on the sawzall. great for cutting roots. but I agree with the other posters, this is not a root problem. it's a drainage/soil/turf problem. curious how two families can live next to each other for almost a half century and not be able to resolve something like this? but you have better/smarter options than to go after the tree. were it my yard I'd landscape that corner with some mulch, maybe a miss kim lilac or an alberta spruce or something, then repair the surrounding turf with some topsoil and one of the newer, hardier seed mixes that can withstand abuse. in anticipation of the "daycare kids and landscaping don't mix" concern, I'll say I have 3 kids under 6, and they do just fine with landscaping. they particularly like to smell the lilacs, viburnums and peonies in spring (even though our peonies don't have much of a smell? little kids like to pretend....). or heck, cover the whole area in rubber playground mulch and put up a swingset.... good luck......See Moretalley_sue_nyc
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