I like the pewter look on the white cabinets of the link below. They look just dark enough in certain pictures to really blend nice with the soapstone. Just my .02

Your cabinets look nice BTW, the look I'd like to go for.

Here is a link that might be useful: tsdiver's kitchen

I thought about pewter but I was afraid it wouldn't look as good with my glaze? My glaze is darker than tsdivers.

this is why it's so hard!!! It's like picking earrings I'm going to wear for the next 20 years! (as my former KD friend says.)

I think black or bronze would look great and compliment the glaze. Will you have light fixtures? What finish will they be?

Oh, and I love your floors!

I think ORB would definitely match nicely. What kind of finish do you have on your faucet and what about appliances?

Thank you Chachashea! I can't wait to see the floors in - I think they'll be done at the end of this week/early next.

Appliances are stainless, as are the island pendants. Here are the lights, I think I stole this pic from here but it was so long ago I don't remember. ;-)

Faucet is chrome, a bridge faucet on a farmer's sink.