Offensive Terms/Phrases in Posts
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Comments (20)Boy, that's a tough one. If it's the phrase Sweeby is referring to, I hear that more frequently than I care to admit, and I ALWAYS call the person who says it on that. They've learned to just say 'rigged up' instead. I'd have said to him 'Oh, you mean jury rigged right?'. I know that the people I know who used that term would never use the word in any other vernacular...it's just that they're accustomed to that phrase. Not that it's right mind you!! I'm not so sure it's an age thing...I know a lot of people my age who still use that derogatory term..but not with the intent of it being derogatory. If that makes sense what I'm trying to say. I'd say that older people, my parents generation for example, would be more apt to use it in a derogatory fashion, if they used it at all. Unfortunately, my mother and father use(d) that word when I grew up and I hated it immensely. My mother and her husband will use it when describing a colored person, and it REALLY ticks me off...I call them on it if they ever use that term around me. I was used to my Dad saying things, but this man is very polite and seems the type to go out of his way to not offend. Then to hear the n-word fly out of his mouth is shocking. And my brother uses it, too. I can't understand why..he's my age, younger than me in fact, but I attribute it to his racist bent. I'm so not proud of being brought up in a racist household, and frankly, that is a big part of why I'm not as close to my siblings and parents as a lot of my friends are to theirs. I have an elderly neighbor who is 'careful' in her racism, she uses PC terms, but always in a whisper, like just referencing a persons heritage or race is an integral part of them and is something to be ashamed of. I change the subject when she does this, I know I'll never enlighten her, but I also don't need to subject myself to her narrow minded views. I think you did the right thing for how you feel. I probably would have asked him not to use that term (if that was the case), but if he'd been making pointed racist comments, then I'd have told him thank you for your service, but I'm afraid I can't abide by your way of thinking; and shown him the door....See MoreMight be offensive posts? Just wondering!
Comments (35)I usually open them; if I don't, it's not because I fear I'll be offended, but rather pretty much just don't have time. (The ones I rarely open are those that don't have anything descritpive in the subject line, including those with open-ended questions). When I do open the "might be offensvie" posts, I sometimes find them funny, sometimes don't, but not because I'm offended. Just because it might not strike me funny. I agree with someone above who said that those who don't open those posts might not open this one because they think, the way it's worded, that it's a warning that this post might be offensive. And it sort of follows - there's nobody on this thread (yet!) that says they're one of the people who don't open potentially offensive posts. Suzieque...See Morebi or tri lingual ?s and an opinion (maybe offensive to some)
Comments (36)My my, aren't a bunch of you awfully "harsh"??? How low to pick on some folks who I don't see as minimalist in the skin department, but rather completely lacking skin! I think it is sad the people are becoming so thin skinned about everything so we have to label posts. Standing ovation for you carol_in_california and a good one or two there wildchild. If I could suggest one thing, maybe it should just say "it is 'sad people'..." :) I propose we adopt the universal symbol CDC as the warning. It's the abbreviation for the suggestion/warning Cranially-impaired rectum Don't Click. How long before someone will be dragging out the mama always said if you can't say something nice.... Curiously, my mother often said to tell the truth and don't be such a baby! Will that get the FGs out and reporting? :D...See MoreThe "decor phrases" etc. piggy bank
Comments (176)after all, France is much older than the United States. -true, true(c). eye-opening true. Add an elegant freestanding porcelain tub to your home; even cold water will seem alluring. -better yet go to a desert..couple days, and I bet you'll find any water is the most alluring thing ever. “My goal was to make the bathroom feel calming and happy, starting with a total gut job.” yep..maybe that's how The Great Flood started. Best laid plans. But didn't stop at total gut job lol. (btw it's a very nice "after" bathroom they show there. Hard to use a tub, but whatever. Many jump higher than me, after all) After some trial and error, you’ve figured out how to keep your pothos alive. Pothos?? Pothos thinks it figured out how to keep me alive, lol. Then it was something about next decade trends- how it's going to be much more custom orders of "one-of-a kind" next decade because "you have all these millennials who think they are special snowflakes", but I lost the original article. Simple explanation like maybe they'll have more money to actually custom order something, as every other generation before them, doesn't cut it of course. I get it, a word "snowflake" is too pretty. Start building your sentence around the pretty word. There's also some yellow, according to them. that's called "Gen Z yellow", but I fail to remember the exact shade....See More- 11 years agolast modified: 9 years ago
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