Dog aggressive when people are leaving
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Comments (19)As an obedience instructor, I'm going to chime in very quickly...not a lot of time right now to get in-depth...and I'll try not to get hung up on semantics *s* Have you contacted the rescue/shelter etc. to alert them of this potentially very serious problem? Talked to your vet and received a recommendation? These are important first steps. Based on your post, the dog is 9 months old...which I think is incorrect?? I'm assuming that you really obtained an 11 month old dog and said dog is more likely almost 2 years old. Many breeds demonstrate a marked shift in personality from 18-24 months of age and Rhodesian Ridgebacks are quite commonly dog-aggressive, especially same-sex. I agree with Lisa's assessment. It takes some experience to deal with a serious dog aggression. 3 vet bills for other dog's injuries means that so far you've allowed the dog to be out of control. This dog MUST be on a leash when in public and you MUST maintain control of the dog. If you can't control the dog, you need to muzzle the dog until you've gained experience and instruction. Furthermore, an "electronic trainer" is NOT for a novice, especially when dealing with aggression. Harsh corrections have their place, but you must have exquisite timing so that the dog associates the correction with its own behavior and not another animal. It's hard to do. There are classes that specialize in aggressive dogs - I have 2 in my class right now - and I agree with Chelone in that training will help (and with Lisa about the quality of some classes). A GOOD trainer is well-versed in dog behavior and is worth much more than a "behaviorist". A GOOD behaviorist is well-versed in obedience training and is worth much more than an "obedience instructor." The name and certification aren't worth a hill of beans unless either can help you get the results you need to ensure everyone's safety. A few private lessons or at least an evaluation to make sure that you are able to control your dog at all times is vital. Until an instructor is positive that YOU have the skill necessary to ensure everyone else's safety, you should consider private lessons or a class where you can be segregated.....not typically an indoor class in a small area, but rather a LARGE parking lot with you at one end and everyone else at the other end.....or a corral with you outside the fence, etc. Being around other dogs is your goal, but we'd need to make sure someone or something doesn't get hurt in working toward this goal. i would further suggest you crate the dog in the moving vehicle for your safety and that of fellow motorists until you've learned to manage the dangerous behavior and train alternative safe behaviors....See Morerestraint of aggressive dog/follow-up soluction
Comments (9)I took in a pitiful little shelter dog, a one-eye lhasa, who had also done the dog pound routine and was continually returned by prospective owners. He had been obviously abused, and I'll say at this point, he did find a forever home with us until he died of complications of advanced age. He was a terror however, when it came to messing with his grooming, and that included necessary nail care or even removing his fav sweather to wash when it became funky. I had an epiphany when I was bathing the poor little thing. He allowed me to do whatever needed done as long as he was in the tub standing in water. It dawned on me that at one time he had to have been somebody's beloved pet and explained why he loved the company of older men, was comfortable around canes yet terrified of brooms. At one time, he was regularly groomed. I had to bend over to groom him in the tub, because wouldn't you know it.......we had a sunken tub at the time. LOL. I had to comb him wet with a conditioner, hand trim him with scissors, and do his nail care .........in the tub. There are always quirks with dogs and they may never be understood by their humans, although it must make perfect canine sense to them. Bless their hearts. If you look hard enough, you can find a way to work around what needs to be done most times in a way not to contribute to the problem. It doesn't always come easy or instantly. I sympathise, John. Been in similar sitations but somewhere there was a trigger. Maybe a bad experience at a groomer, or a hidden fracture or torn nail. Hope it gets better for you....See MoreIs my dog aggressive or anti-social?
Comments (11)Yeah, there IS a better name... they're called "training collars"! and they're invaluable! Put it on correctly: with the dog in front of you the "noose" formed by threading the links through the rings should for a "P". And you use them with a "jerk/release", never a steady tension! I have the economy-size "jerk dog". He grows the "total Mohawk" and barks like a fool when we meet another dog. After the "big, macho" posture it's the play bow... but at 100 lbs. most people are freaked right out. (imagine that!?) He's a shelter dog and we've done obedience classes (they're GREAT, GO!) but we have no dogs in our neighborhood and opportunities to "socialize" are non-exisitant. When we happen upon another dog I put mine in sit or down/stay. When the other ownr/dog is within earshot I wave and tell them to ignore the "tantrum" and tell them I have control of my dog. If Rex explodes I correct him and return him to the postion he was in before the tantrum. He's getting better, but it's still not easy. I've bet the farm on "consistency"... (when am I gonna see a pay off?) Hang in there!...See MoreCat aggressive towards my dog
Comments (18)Maddie's behavior sounds a lot like what my Feather went through before I got him integrated into my household. Because Feather showed up at the same time as two other young adult toms (I've always assumed the three are brothers), and because the boys were quite aggressive with each other, I had to keep each separated until I could integrate them. Feather ended up in the master bathroom for a while where the isolation really did a number on his tender psyche. Feather would hiss at me each time I entered the bathroom to spend time with him, then he'd crawl all over me, writihing in joy as I stroked and scratched him in all the right places, then he'd attack me viciously when I got up to leave. He just couldn't stand being left alone. I started wearing my tall rubber barn boots into the bathroom so that he couldn't shred my legs when I had to leave him again. Because he was so overwrought about being left alone, I had to integrate him into the rest of the household more quickly than I would normally do. Feather hasn't attacked me since I let him out of that bathroom, but he's still a very emotionally unstable cat. He is intermittently aggressive with several of the other male cats. I never know what is going to set him off or when, so I can't trust him unsupervised with the other cats. When I leave the house for more than a few minutes at a time, I have to put Feather into a bedroom to keep the other cats safe. Sometimes I even have to give him timeouts when I am in the house and he just can't control his own volatility. Like Maddie, Feather is a very sweet and loving cat. He just isn't stable, and he isn't reliably safe around the other cats. Dealing with this sort of animal isn't easy, so I can certainly understand you returning Maddie to the shelter. It's heartbreaking when you've already connected, but you do have to consider the safety of your other animals. I'm sorry for you and I'm sorry for Maddie. I hope she can be placed as an only cat into a loving home. Laurie...See Moremazer415
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