Dog dying of aggressive cancer
sweetchastity
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Comments (36)I so agree with folkv- keep the memories alive. It is so hard to know what to say and when to say it. But I feel that it really important to always speak of a child's parent. I think it can truly help them make choices in life even if that parent is gone. I have always tried to mention how my BIL would have felt about a given situation with both the kids and even my sis. He hated ties and I suggested to my sis that when his kids get married the groom should not wear a tie because dad would have thought that was funny. Would tick my mom off, she never liked my BIL, and that would have made my BIL laugh even harder. Even though someone has passed I feel their spirit lives on in us and can be so useful. ajsmama- I wondered how the service would go. Your post has brought me back 12.5 years to my having to watch my sis and her kids. It was something I would not even wish on my worst enemy. Please, stay in touch with these kids as much as you can. Family is so important even if it is just a card or call here and there. You seem to have such a caring heart, please share it with them. It will help you all. And one thing that is soooo important is that we allow ourselves to grieve and be sad. Everyone goes through the stages of grief but not in the same order. One may be quiet at first and yet the other is vocal. It may seem confusing but it is just our nature of processing grief differently. So don't be surprised by the kids behaviors, keep on your toes and don't avoid speaking about K no matter how difficult it may be. She is still their mom and always will be. Things, events etc will come up and it may feel uncomfortable. The best thing is to face things straight on. And you are right about the wedding thing. I told my sis that there is just no way to "avoid" everything without ruining the day. I told her that every guest there will be feeling the same thing, they all knew her dad. Sometimes the best way to deal with the sorrow is to not do the "oh, so sad her dad isn't here to see this" but rather "her dad would be so proud of her, this day is exactly as he would have liked it to be for her". I think it really is about how you choose to deal with it and to not focus on the sad but rather the joy of the day. She will figure it out and it will be a wonderful day. Again, wishing you all as much peace as possible....See MoreCanine Cancer: Nasal Adenocarcinoma
Comments (6)sorry to hear you have had this diagnosis. i lost my corgi girl to nasal cancer a few years ago. because i was getting nowhere fast with the vets around here as far as diagnosing the cause of her nose bleeds, i asked for and got a referral to the university of illinois vet school. i took maggie for a ct scan/biopsy and that is when it was diagnosed. by then it had become quite invasive. the vets told me to expect to lose her in another 1-2 weeks. exactly one week later, i woke to her struggling to breathe so i opted to send her over the bridge that morning. it broke my heart as she was my late husband's dog and i had only recently lost him. oddest of things, my husband's kidney cancer had metastisized to his sinuses and he suffered terrible nose bleeds throughout his illness. the day i came home and was greeted by maggie at the door with a bloody nose, i couldn't believe it. sorta deja vu all over again. *sigh* i hope you can keep your pup comfortable for a long time. like you, i was floored when i got this diagnosis. at the time maggie was diagnosed with cancer, my little male corgi was in the late stages of degenerative myelopathy. i lost him 5 months later....See MoreDog cancer?
Comments (22)Lydia, your post flooded me with memories of my sweet boy, Bear. He had the same symptoms. The first vet did an x-ray, but then said Bear was too large for it and he needed to go to another vet with a larger machine. He was a german shepherd. We took him there. They saw a mass in his spleen and said if it had not spread to his liver he could be treated and most likely recover well. They couldn't tell if it had spread without surgery. We did the surgery, hoping for the best. After putting him thru that we found out it had spread to his liver. Since then I have told everyone if I had to do it over again I would not have put him thru the surgery. He was my baby and they kept him at the vet for 3 days. They said it would be best if we didn't visit during those days. I did on the second day anyway. It was upsetting to him and to me to have to leave him. He had a few good days after the surgery, but he also had some days where he didn't want to move. Less than 2 months after putting him thru the surgery and spending $4000 we had him put down to end his suffering once and for all. That was 4 years ago today. I wish you and Kobi the best. You are in my thoughts....See More95yr.old just told she has breast cancer
Comments (22)Well all I know is the people that I know that have had cancer and had chemo and radiation were much younger than that and it was absolutely a terrible experience. My mom had radiation for breast cancer and was sick from it for a few years...she had another cancer and told them to just remove it and she was absolutely NOT going to take treatments, she lived about 15 years past that to be 89 YEARS OLD! My In Law had lymphoma and had radiation and actually died and had to be brought back during the treatment. He's OK now but he was only in his early 40s. My mom had a routine surgery when she was 84 and had a stroke from it and lived to be 89 not knowing what was up or down...just a terrible way to live! At 95 years old, I'd think you'd lived a good long life and just because there's a cancerous tumor doesn't mean you will die any time soon....See MoreNinapearl
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