Will by boys grow up to be disaffectionate husbands?
I am in a marriage that lacks affection between myself and DH. We are both openly affectionate with hugs and kisses to our kids, just not to each other, therefore our boys don't see typical displays of caring and love that I notice with some other married parents. I think I've become this way as a way to cope with my resentment and anger towards my husband, and I want to not be his wife, but can't get past the pain I would cause our sons, so try to get along with DH best I can. What damage am I doing to our children, would divorce be equally as bad? Or better than having parents that are "just there"? DH and I are unhappy together, I'm guessing, because we are not a good fit. Married (I don't know how) 16 years.