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Request for your good hopes and thoughts

18 years ago

Last year I got into two auto incidents, for one of which I was charged - it appears that I ran a red light, got my car smacked at the rear wheel behind the driver, no injuries in either. Fixed the car - cost more than I paid to buy it, earlier last year.

I got a letter from the Ministry of Transportation, saying that since I was past 70 and had a chargeable accident, that they wanted me to take a vision, knowledge, and driving test (no charge).

I got an extension and am coming up on the second expiry.

Vision not good enough for my current licence to drive a straight fairly heavy truck, but good enough for general. I'm to have appointment with specialist for replacement of lenses in eyes due to cataracts in a month and a half - who knows when we can scedule the op. If I can pass vision test within a year, I can get truck licence resinstated.

After that - the whole rigamarole.

I took my knowledge test today, three errors, passed (I think I'm allowed 4).

It appears that the usual waiting time for driving test is a couple of weeks, as it's usually longer, but in winter, many want to avoid the test.

They set me up today for my driving test - tomorrow (then - now, later today) - at 1:50.

Freezing rain, then snow forecast for tonight.

It has snowed, not sure about the freezing rain.

Will see when morning comes.

Need to do a bit of repairs on the car, as they must be in top shape ...or no test.

So - I'd like some goof (that was supposed to be "good") thoughts and hopes forwarded, please ... to sustain me en route.

Going to bed - good night, all.

ole joyful

Comments (61)

  • 18 years ago

    Stay focused, and you'll do fine. Best wishes to you.

  • 18 years ago

    I'll be rooting for ya!!

    Good Luck!

    Donna (^_^)

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  • 18 years ago

    Sending you good thoughts and prayers. We've had the same nasty weather. I know you are a good driver. You will do fine, and better yet when the cataract surgery is over.

    Tami

  • 18 years ago

    Breathe deep and drive well, Ed. Good luck to you - you'll nail it.
    Sherry

  • 18 years ago

    Good thoughts sent your way!

  • 18 years ago

    I'm saying a prayer for you Ed! You're a good guy; you deserve a bucket full of good luck!

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck Ed!

  • 18 years ago

    Good thoughts and wishes for you Ed. Adding a prayer as well. Good luck to you.

    Linda

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck to you. Hope it works out well.

  • 18 years ago

    Ed,

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck to you Ed. Hope all goes well.

  • 18 years ago

    Good Luck...........hope all goes well.

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck Ed.

  • 18 years ago

    My fingers are crossed, good thoughts and prayers are coming your way Ed, for good results on your test. Being 70+ myself, I know the fear of having my driving privledges taken away. I value my independance, as I'm sure you do. Let us know what happens. Dottie

  • 18 years ago

    Best wishes, OJ. I know you are a good and conscientious driver, so hope it goes well.

  • 18 years ago

    How is the weather there this morning? We got tons of freezing rain and snow here in St.Catharines. It's a snow day for me here. Hope you don't have to test in this!
    Wishing you the best!

  • 18 years ago

    I hate stuff like that. On one of my vision tests I listened to the guy in front of me and memorized it real quick. It came my turn and they told me to read it backwards. Took some time, buy I did it! I have to have bifocals which don't help w/ distance vision and the folks at the driver's license place just don't understand that. One time I had to get a note from a doc stating that fact. It's a rigamorole, you're right! Good luck!

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck on the test! I hope you did better than I did getting out of my driveway this morning. Stuck sideways, right at the end ROFL.

  • 18 years ago

    Ed, hoping your night was restful and that today is a good day for you. I'm sending you positive thoughts!
    McPeg

  • 18 years ago

    Ace it, Ed!!!

  • 18 years ago

    Best of luck to you!! I'm sure you'll do great!

  • 18 years ago

    Being in the well-over-70 age group, I understand your fears. I have just over a year before I will have to face the Enforcers, and I'm already antsy about it.

    Good luck, and try to stay calm.

    Sue

  • 18 years ago

    Absolutely nothing but good, positive thoughts being sent your way.
    Linda

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck Ed. Focus and you should do good. I hope the snow and ice (if you got it) melt before 1:00.
    Leslie

  • 18 years ago

    Best wishes for clear roads, light traffic, and that your test goes well, OJ.

  • 18 years ago

    Had to clear snow from back door a couple of times.

    Shovelled snow away from garage door - and had trouble travelling in yard, made several attempts to get going, travelled out into the field ... and got stuck as I tried to get back on to the lane near the road. Shovelled self out, then shovelled out where the snow plow had pushed snow up.

    Got rear view mirror on car replaced, got proof of insurance (couldn't find mine).

    Had checked all lights operating, horn, etc. yesterday.

    Now about to pick up the spare driver, who'll need to sit in the seat beside me if they give me a beginner's cause I don't pass the test.

    Oh - and there was snow in the insurance agent's yard, plus pushed up by the city plough, so I shovelled out their driveway, some, as well.

    Found out something (once more) ... I don't have the stamina that I useded to have.

    My family has weakness of lungs, and I don't get as much exercise as I should, so I was puffing pretty well after the bouts of shovelling.

    But - aware that some have heart attacks doing that, I approach that task with care.

    'Bye for now - I'm on my way.

    By the way - I'd better get a good supply of milk in, in case I get the restricted licence, for I'm a fairly heavy consumer of it.

    ole joyful

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck, OJ. Let us know how it goes.

  • 18 years ago

    Good luck Ed and you be careful when shovelling snow. The storm we had last night brought really heavy snow.

    If you got the same storm we got until 7 am this morning they should have cancelled your driving test. You can't even see the cement on the roads.

    Anne

  • 18 years ago

    Saying lots of prayers for you OJ my mother drove till she was 93 so hopefully you can do the same.
    Just go and take the test like you were going shopping you will do fine....hugs to you Imabest

  • 18 years ago

    Let us know how you do. I have sooooooooooooo many bad bad habits I am sure I would flunk the driving part of the test........Stacy

  • 18 years ago

    I'll be thinking of you Ed! You're such a great guy! I hope the weather sorts itself out. Jason is in Ontario now and the weather channel is scaring me!

    Danielle

  • 18 years ago

    Sending my best thoughts!
    Gardenspice

  • 18 years ago

    Hope that everything turns out exactly how you want it!
    Dee

  • 18 years ago

    Texas sized hugs to you Ed and wishes for all good luck!
    BE CAREFUL with that heavy snow!!

  • 18 years ago

    Ed, I sure hope it's over now and you passed with flying colors. DH is going to have the same problem next March as he has cataracts they won't repair until they get his BP under control. Please let us know how it went. You sure are in my thoughts now.

  • 18 years ago

    OJ, I am hoping all went well for you with regards to your test. If not, try, try again!

    you may have already posted so I'll go look.
    You better take it easy out there shoveling snow. I would say I'd come up there and make sure you did but I don't like cold weather any more! lol

    charlee

  • 18 years ago

    Ed, I'm too late to give you my good wishes before the test, but I'm giving you support after the fact. Please let us know how it went.

    Hugs,
    SadieSadie

  • 18 years ago

    Joyful, good luck on the test and hope you have good weather. My husband (age 61) had two accidents last year, he has MS and takes medication. He got a letter to take a vision test and a road test .YIKES! He passed both, but he has now stopped driving all together. I am his chauffer.

  • 18 years ago

    Ed, I just saw this posting. Please let us know how you got along. At least the weather improved and was quite nice this afternoon.

    I do hope everything went well for you.

    We all care very much.

    How in the world did you do all that shovelling? that is no job for anyone our age, healthy or not!!!

  • 18 years ago

    Ed...best of luck to you. Let us know how you do. If I were close enough to you, I would bring you milk and help you shovel. I truly enjoy your posts.

    (((Ed)))

  • 18 years ago

    Good thoughts to you Ed. Hope everything turns out okay and you can keep your wheels turning.
    Lois

  • 18 years ago

    Greetings, everyone.

    I thank you all for your good hopes and wishes.

    What gene did I miss out on?

    Must have been the gene for sensible driving, I guess ...

    ... cause I flunked!

    Didn't look as much as I should have, starting out, didn't drive fast enough on highway and expressway, turning in a double lane from expressway to multi-lane road (with pavement markings, but some obscured), I turned too close - he said that was a dangerous action. I wasn't close to the parallel car ... but - you don't argue.

    Didn't check blind spot enough, when I was asked to park, didn't put brake on.

    Didn't come to a complete stop at a "STOP" sign (and I didn't stop behind the white line, either, but he didn't refer to that).

    There are 343 boxes that are to be dealt with - I don't want to tell you how many have marks in them! I haven't counted ... I guess that I'd say, "yet", as I imagine that I'll be checking it later.

    Can't read all of his written remarks.

    So - I now have a temporary learner's licence, meaning that I must have a licensed driver in the seat beside me when I'm on the road. Can't drive on expressway (unless with licensed driving instructor), and can't drive between midnight and 5:00 a.m.

    I must wait 10 days before I can try it again ... and they have me slated for March 31.

    My friend, who went with me to the test, said that they gave him a hard time, and he had to make do with a learner's permit for a month and a half - thinks they want to shake us seniors up a bit.

    That makes me a certified member of the Senior Citizens Second Childhood Club.

    I got some milk on the way home, have a well-stocked freezer, can make my own bread ... but will have to make arrangements for milk. Or get a bunch of powder ... which, for drinking, makes me go "Uugg-g-h!".

    Again - I appreciate all of your good thoughts and hopes.

    Looks like I'll need even more of 'em, in nearly 4 weeks!

    Good wishes for safe driving - and your thankfulness that you enjoy the privilege!

    ole joyful

  • 18 years ago

    Sorry Ed that happened but better to be safe than sorry.

    I have heard that going to Chatham for your permit is a good thing to do. Seems a lot of people around here who have failed go to Chatham for their test and pass. Not sure if that is a good thing or not. LOL

    I hope you pass your next test.

    Anne

  • 18 years ago

    Well Ed,if you need to, go to Chatham..that is what the Bancroft seniors would do,when they had issues..they would go to Beaverton

  • 18 years ago

    hmmmm Ed. Did you stay up that late or get up that early?...considering the time of your OP?

    Were you well rested for your test? If not, hopefully you will be the next time. It also sounds like you did quite a bit, just getting ready (mirror, insurance, shoveling snow, getting stuck, shoveling more snow, passenger, shoveling more snow).

    Why not take son with you and try and drive the route you took today. Son can then be the judge and point out things maybe needing some attention.

    Maybe the next time will just be so much better all the way around.

    An elderly friend once failed the driving part of her exam. She hired a Drivers Education School Teacher to give her a few lessons until she and he felt comfortable with her being able to pass it. She did just fine then.

    This was a friend who I taught how to drive when she was 74 years old. She had not driven even a mower or anything in her life. It was so much fun for both of us.

    Sue

  • 18 years ago

    I met a guy at church on Sunday who's a driving instructor and he said that he'd run me around the route.

    When I took the knowledge test on Tues., they said that they could do the driving test on the next day, so I agreed, but maybe I should have asked whether they had a date in a week or so, as I had to have the driver's door mirror installed. That would have given me time to have done the run with Jim, as well: I'm sure that his observations would have been instructive.

    My original post was before I went to bed - possibly more sleep would have been helpful, but I think that I was operating at good efficiency.

    Looks like if I want to attend the Old Farts' Coffee Hour later today, I'll have to hitch-hike. I think that it's to be around zero, and when the sun's out, that's fairly comfortable, when one is reasonably clad. Don't think that I'll do that.

    My friend wants a display box from the barn and for me to do a couple of errands for him on Friday, and the guy who went with me today is willing to ride shotgun.

    Have a great week, everyone - what's left of it.

    ole joyful

  • 18 years ago

    Sorry you had bad luck this time,but praying you'll ace it next time around.

  • 18 years ago

    So sorry Ed, but glad you have a second chance.

    I have always said that I am hanging my keys up at 80, if I reach that age, but the closer I get to it, the more second thoughts I have.
    ivamae

  • 18 years ago

    (((((((((((Ed)))))))))))))))

    Driving tests are stressful at the best of times. Some examiners seem to be harder than others too.

  • 18 years ago

    Sorry to hear that. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise so that you will brush up on your driving skills and that will make you safer.

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