Can't quite tell, but what is the siding material--shingles or clapboards? What year was it built--mid 1800s?
For mid-century and earlier houses, Downing recommended earth tones such as sandstone, straw, light greys etc. Barn red was a New England color, and darker colors seemed to be popular there also--where are you located?
Personally, I don't think accenting the windows would highlight your 'off' window--it doesn't seem terribly noticeable and adds charm to the house.

The original portion (left side) was built in 1814. Actually, it was originally built as a 4 room tavern, log construction. The siding is aluminum, underneath that is german siding, and the framing is logs. We are located in Pennsylvania. I really want to stay away from the lighter colors. We are set back about 20 feet from a road that carries a fair amount of traffic (including trucks). The white gets too dingy (it looks grayish right now, but the house is actually white!)

I think the house has always been white..I haven't seen any evidence of any other colors on the house exterior itself (and the german siding underneath the aluminum is painted white) but based on the colors revealed from the peeling paint on the porch posts...the trim accent colors were dark green, and prior to that, red, and prior to the red..a mustardy yellow.

I knew you had to be in PA with that double door!

What about a paler gray? I love the inspiration picture you posted, but with aluminum siding, it might come out kind of dour.

love your house, love the blue too.Arent old homes great,mine is 1700s we restored it completely keeping all trim ,doors windows etc,I live in pa too.beautiful state

I love the blue! Have you considered extending the porch the length of the house? Since you're working on the porch anyway...

xantippe, it's no longer a double door house..that is our oddball window, and the one that concerns me about accenting the window trim. It doesn't have the wide trim around it that the other windows have, it's also longer than the other windows. I've thought about gray, but I was thinking that I wanted a change..since the white already looks gray :) I love deeper colors on houses (and not just because of road grim..something about them just has always appealed to me)

Bulldinkie, living in Pa is so wonderful for driving around looking at all of the old houses. It's always been our dream to own one, and now here we are...living in our very own money pit..lol!

kindred ny, we have tossed around the idea of extending the porch..I love the idea! We'll have to see what the budget dictates when we get to that part of the renovation. One thing is for sure though...I HATE the hip roof on the porch...so whether we extend or not, the porch redo will have a shed style roof and not a hip roof!

Since I took the pictures last week, I painted the front door and front storm door red...it does a bit to perk up the front but mostly it just makes the rest of the paint on the house and porch look sadder :)

How stupid would it look if I painted the trim around the windows and the oddball window didn't have the same treatment? Any ideas on what I could do to camouflage ...or should I perhaps just accept it as part of the quirkiness of the house?

A good builder could fix the window to match.

Kindred, our cape is not as old as your house, but it is BLUE and has WHITE TRIM. Many old houses do not have matching windows, and I would not stress over it. Like Bulldinkie says, a good contractor could correct the mismatched window.

At the bottom, I am providing you a picture of DH's cape, and those windows are not symmetrical either. But it does not really matter.

Now about a stone wall in the front. I like the idea and it would be a charming way to ground your house to its lot. I note that the power pole is in the center of your house, and that is usually set in public right-of-way....so your stone wall would have to be behind that power pole. Just make sure when you extend your porch that your house "setback" is maintained in case the house is not straight situated square with the property line at the street. I once lived on a culdesac, and could not extend my porch because of the circular 25' setback from the curb.

Note in the photo that our door is painted WARM TERRA COTTA, which ages to a soft barn red. Love the colors.

Oh yes. I'd remove the aluminum awnings on the side windows.
They are so 1950s.