thanks again everyone...really!! tj, my son is working and seems to be doing ok. The problem is, he probably wouldn't tell me IF he didn't feel good w/the fear of having to go back in hosp or back on meds. I know he's been off of his meds. and I'm thrilled, and God willing everything will turn out great on this visit...I just totally panic everytime we do bloodwork. I also know that prayer is powerful, I totally believe the only reason my son survived this was because of prayer. We were told he would not make it, but I knew he would. Plus we had great doctors who just would not give up!! tj? is your son/daughter ill? I did not know..I will definetely add your family to my prayer list! Dena

Praying for them and that this all turns around for the good and soon...must be very scary! Sorry to hear such varied and unexpected things are happening to him this way. nola anne

Greetings Pattico. I'm sorry that you have this extra concern to deal with, these days. I'm sending thanks for the good news about the one cousin-in-law, with some hopes and prayers that the healing may continue well. Also some good hopes and prayers for her sister who is travelling under a black cloud at the moment, that there may be good news there as well and the worry unfounded ... but with such a history, especially when the girls were so young when their Mom was so ill, they must be feeling an extra measure of worry. Sometimes it warms a wounded heart to know that strangers are concerned and sending good wishes, so I hope that you will let the girls know of our concern, if you feel it appropriate. (((((your cousins-in-law ... and their concerned loved ones))))) ole joyful

If you have local churches you are affiliated with contact them asap. Very often they can be helpful in these situations. A lady I know had a very similar situation, live in care giver, she went to her church and spoke with them about her urgent situation, they were able to help her locate housing with in days. Even if it were temporary that would give you more time to get things in order. Don't just jump into the purchase of a trailer because you are in a pinch, you may end up in a much worse situation if you end up with a money pit! Especially for a used trailer, major things can go wrong. Have extensive inspections done before committing to anything or signing anything. I have seen people jump into a situation like this and end up in a huge costly mess. I wish you well, use your resources, church, agencies, Craigslist, temp agencies. Go to the local trailer parks and ask about rental units and assume payment options all most all large parks have several of these options. It's not advertised but is often listed on bulletin boards at the parks. I knew a young girl just out of school and looking for a cheap place to live, she had a job but not a big salary. I suggested that to her and drove her to one near her work. They had several options, with extremely affordable rates. She had no credit history or savings since she was just starting out and was able to get signed up for a very nice 2 bedroom trailer that day and was moved in with in the week. Check all the options.