Finally got a job offer

15 years ago

Some of you may remember that I have been quickly approaching the end of my term of employment. Being the only bread winner in the family, it has been very stressful. I currently work for the provincial government and they would love to keep me on, but there is no position there. Unfortunately in the government you can't just hire someone when you need them - you are alloted X many positions and once they are full, you can't hire more. My department has all positions full. I was filling in for someone who was on maternity leave. She comes back mid-February.

Soooo... I have been sending out many, many resumes, and didn't get one single phone call. On Monday I decided to stop by a place by chance - the owner had offered me a job two years ago and I had turned him down. He had tried hard to talk me into working for him, but I refused. He called me again a year ago, but the timing was wrong - I had just started the maternity leave fill-in.

When I stopped in on Monday, he said that he didn't have anything open, but that he'd think about any possibilities. Last night he called me and offered me a job - a new position that he's created just for me!! I told him that I would have to think about it (as it happens, yesterday my current boss told me that he's pulling all of the strings that he has to try to get around the red tape and keep me on for another year, possibly).

The job offer that I got last night was very flattering - for someone to create a job for me really says something. He also offered me a fairly decent wage (not *fabulous* money, but pretty decent for this town, and more than he offered me a couple of years ago). It being a small business scares me because I have mostly government experience and I am used to the snail's pace and flexibility (and the odd 2-hour lunch). I am also used to paid sick days (I don't abuse them, but I have had to use them). I'm used to people being laid back. I am used to a good wage (union) and regular raises, without having to ask.

A couple of years ago when he offered me a job, I posted here about making a choice between working for a hot-head small business owner (that's the reputation that he has), and working for a large company. A lot of people told me to forget the hot-head thing because our personalities may very well mesh. It's still at the back of my mind though....what if this guy is an arse-hole.

So I hardly slept a wink last night. I was supposed to call him today to give him my yes or no. I never called. I have to call him tommorow.

There is no real point to this thread :O) I am just letting off some steam. (But if you have any thoughts about it, please by all means fire away!)

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valzone5
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15 years ago
Sorry - this was supposed to be on the conversations side...not sure how to have it moved...
Lyban zone 4
15 years ago
Well if it were me , and you can have the government job I would stay there. In these times, it might be more secure.
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stinky-gardener
15 years ago
Val, my best advice would be to make every decision from the love of something rather than fear of something. It is tricky, but nothing good comes from fear. Best wishes.
walkin_yesindeed
15 years ago
ditto stinky -- and Val, congrats on the job offer! This guy really believes in your abilities!
threedgrad
15 years ago
Take the job but keep looking for a better one. It might take a long time to find the perfect one but meanwhile you have a job. Obviously, this owner thinks a lot of you and admires your qualities otherwise he would not have created a job for you. Maybe you can really help his business succeed even more than than it is now. Security is good in a job but the opportunity to learn new skills, meet new people is great. But again, keep your eyes open for that better job which will come. Who knows, some customer or business associate you come in contact with at this new job will be the one who offers you a position that is even better. Good luck!!!!!!
cooperbailey
15 years ago
My thoughts are that it is a solid job offer,and your job is ending. If you wait to see if the government job is continued, you will lose the chance at this one with the private business. and then be back in the hunt.
If you take the private business job, it will be good experience to add to your resume, and you will undoubtedly will learn new skills. You will learn a different side of the work world, of how private businesses are run. You may thrive away from the bureacracy of government.
valzone5
Original Author
15 years ago
Thanks guys. I feel much better today. My stomach has stopped churning :O)

The government job is not secure at all. If they extend me for another year, I will be going through the same thing next year - looking for another job. I have worked on a casual basis (on and off, as the maximum you can work in a 24 month period is 12 months unless it's a fill-in position), for over 10 years and I have yet to be taken on permanently. There is so much red tape in getting on permanently.

I am getting more excited at the opportunity with the small company. He has been very flexible in working with my schedule and is very understanding about my situation (single mom with a kid who has to go to more than a normal amount of medical appointments). I am going to call him and accept his offer. I'm looking forward to seeing where this will take me! And what's the worst that can happen? If he turns out to be a big jerk, I can always contact my present employer to see what casual work they might have here - I am leaving here on very good terms.

Let's see how long this new attitude lasts ;O)
laurenk88_pa
15 years ago
Hi Val,

Sorry I'm late to the party, but congrats on your job offer and the fact that the govt guy wants to try to hold on to you!

I've recently been unemployed for 5 months, and I'm a single mother as well, and it was torture. Worries about insurance, and would I find a position before unemployment ran out, etc. So I can truly understand your fear.

My take on your situation would be to stick with the small company, precisely for what you said...it won't end in a year, and put you back in this position. Plus this guy has been interested in hiring you for years, so I'd say that he can see your potential in his company, and that's a good position to be starting from.

I've worked for huge corporations and small start-ups. They each have their pluses and minuses...I've actually preferred the smaller sized companies, because in my experience it's been much more personal, and understanding regarding personal stuff.

Currently I'm in a job that is paying me a fraction of my previous salary, and it's not a perfect situation (boring, alot of fresh out of college people who know EVERYTHING), but it is a job for which I am thankful. I have just taken a part time job as well, to make up for the financial difference, and I'm happy for that too. I see this as a stepping stone situation, until the economy straightens out...so if the small company isn't perfect, it's good enough to get you to the next phase.

Good luck!!!
parma42
15 years ago
Good for you, Val!

He sure does seem to think highly of you. Having the respect of your boss is very important and might temper whatever "hot-head" nature other people have noticed, at least in regard to you.
awm03
15 years ago
That's great news, Val -- how wonderful to have two employers who want your skills in a down market! Please pat yourself on the back for that. Would you be learning new skills on this job? That's always worthwhile, and helps your new job chances should you decide you to leave the hot head. Best of luck to you.
tradewind_64
15 years ago
Congratulations on the new job!

Joanna
valzone5
Original Author
15 years ago
Yes, I will be learning new skills - that's a definite bonus. In fact, I will be taking my career in a different direction. I have been doing admin support work, but this will take me into construction/estimating (which is what I studied in college). I am really excited about things like construction safety and green construction practices - he wants me to take over that kind of stuff and I currently have no knowledge or experience in those areas and I am really interested in it and can't wait to learn more. I'll also be going out to measure up jobs and go to site meetings and I love that I will be on the move like that. I also feel that I will be able to learn a lot from him - he stared the business in 1980 and has done well. He may have the personality of a bear, but he's a smart man, obviously.

It's a glass company, so I'll be able answer all of your glass and mirror questions ;O)

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