Husband wants a divorce
hotmama91
11 years ago
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Comments (9)Do you have children? If so, in what age bracket? As you ponder all of this, if you have children, you must consider the impact of this decision for yourself AND your children, both now, and in the years ahead before they are on their own. Spend some time on the step family forum. In fact, I would read it in its entirety some evening. Because if you decide to move on (and who could blame you) if you have children, and he remarries someone else, who may or may not have children themselves, you must look at the bigger picture as a new spouse would now be involved in parenting and raising your children. This person may or may not have values that are similar to your own. Their presence will have an impact on your kids lives (if you have kids). It may be easier having him present as you get kids through their teenage years, if you are a parent. Tough stuff, indeed. So I imagine that you need to take this all into consideration and you ponder what you should do now. I wish you the best....See MoreNeed some advice..a year in and i want divorce.
Comments (8)It sounds like really, you were not ready to jump right into marriage. That you hadn't finished growing up and exploring life independently as an adult. And at 24, that's hardly surprising. That might be a way to initiate the conversation. It's kind of a variation on the "it's not you - it's me" theme, but it's probably very true. And it may be exactly what your wife is going through also. Each of you grew in your own directions during college -- which is good and right and part of why you go to college. But you grew in different directions. You grew apart. And the choice you're looking at now is to stop growing so you don't grow even further apart -- or to go your separate ways. There's a good argument for ending things sooner rather than later -- to preserve the friendhsip, love and respect you have left....See More23 year old, going thru a divorce wants to date my 16 yr old
Comments (26)I once knew a popular girl in high school (16) who also dated a 23 year old. Then one day she told us she was getting married and Friday was her last day of school(at 16)! We never saw her again. As we graduated and moved on with our lives, every once in a while I would wonder why she was in such a hurry to grow up and how she missed so, so much. Those years were so much fun, especially into the 20's... and I imagined her at 16 living the life of everyone else's mom...doing laundry, cleaning the house, etc. I don't not know if she had kids right away of not. I imagine they lived in some dumpy place because they were too young to have any money, and since she never graduated, I do not imagine that there were any great job offers coming her way. I also imagine at some point she looked back and was furious at her parents for letting her do this, and not stopping her. She had so much going for her, and settled for so little....See MoreSick, sad, weird, divorce......Don't want to offend anyone!
Comments (21)SAD.........Yes Divorce is sad in most instances, especially after so many years. A divorce is better than living in fear or being abused any longer. SICK.........Nudity isn't necessarily sick. He's an adult. Its his camera his cabin and he hasn't broken any laws by having nude pictures of himself. WEIRD 1......I'm not sure what an attorney would mean by "ammunition for support". A good attorney knows Alimony/ is determined by how much one spouse supported the other during the marriage and if there is a hindrance to the spouse who is seeking support from working and supporting self at the same level of lifestyle. Child support is determined by who has primary custody and how old the children are. Any children over 18 are not eligible unless there is some previous agreement such as continuing education and housing costs for students. Both Alimony and child support amounts are totally up to the judge how much and how it is paid. Trying to use as ammo or blackmail with, deleted pictures???? Sounds like the attorney is not an ethical person. WEIRD 2.........Yeah a little. I'm surprised she asked to borrow his camera. While going though with what appears to be an ugly divorce, then borrow a camera like he is a good friend. Obviously it only takes a few minutes to download pics from a digi cam to a computer so why the immediate need to borrow another camera? Oh well one woman's life up for scrutiny based on a few sentences on the web is better than anything on TV tonight. LIL...See Morehotmama91
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