I'm sitting at my computer looking into my kitchen at walls that look like an exact match to the picture on my screen. It is called soft silk from Kilz and they can color match it for you at SW or BM. ps- I have white cabs and trim and crown molding so I'm looking at it in the same type of surroundings!

jterrilyn: Behr gentle rain looks like a close match gilylily: I called customer service and they could not help me because it was not listed on the page. Why would I call customer service if it was listed. I guess teh CS is for their items not paint:) angc: I will try and BM store for color match colorblind1961: Thanks for the suggestion. I love that Spring Iris too. Maybe I can give it a try. I feel that color is more lavender and the color in the catalog is more gray with mauve. Would Elephant gray listed in the colors be a close match?

Kelly Moore New Linen https://www.gardenista.com/posts/expert-advice-architects-favorite-porch-paint-colors/ It may be that the trim is a glossier sheen but it looks like it is probably the same color to my eye.

Patricia is right - computers are terrible at accurate color rendition, but if you love the color and want to get close and be able to mimic the color in your space here is a way to do it. I used the Snipping tool and grabbed a picture of just the wall color I uploaded this to https://imagecolorpicker.com/en/ This gives me the RGB and Hex values for the dominant color in the photo. If I were doing this for myself I would grab a couple of the other RGB values that were close The Hex value for the dominant color is #5b6e76. The next two color hex values are #5c6f76 and #5e7484 I then opened up https://www.easyrgb.com/en/match.php If I enter the first Hex value this is what is returned. If I know I want to use only Benjamin Moore Paint I can search for the closest color in their lineup . . . Now you have some tools to help you find a similar color - play with EasyRGB and test a couple of the Hex Codes with the paint brands you are interested in. Many of the colors can be matched, but I like to get swatches before spending money on samples. Your local BM store could probably match DunnEdwards Moody Blue and create a sample for you to buy and test, but they will have the paper samples of Thousant Oceans and Hamilton Blue that you can take home and look at in your space for free. These both look like lighter versions of the right color.